Here are 8 signs that he is wasting your time and what you can look out for.
1.
You’re the one that makes an effort in the relationship.
Are you always the one that texts first?
Initiate date?
Inquiring about his day?
Or his life?
And he does not seem to care about you at all.
A person who is interested in you will naturally ask questions about you, ask for your opinion
on certain things, and will want to spend time with you and make you feel special.
Take a step back and look at the relationship.
See if he will still be interested in you if you are not putting so much effort into
the relationship.
2.
There is no relationship development.
The following signs are clear that he is wasting your time and is not interested in relationship
growth: He refuses to refer to you as his girlfriend.
None of his friends or family members have met you.
There are no sleepovers between the two of you; instead, you meet at the same places
(yours or his).
3.
If he tells you he doesn't want a serious relationship, you should pay attention.
There's no point in staying with him in the hopes that he'll change his mind about relationships
because of you.
Maybe he wants a serious relationship, but he just isn't interested in you.
Listen to what he says so that you don't get hurt in the long run.
It is definitely not a good idea to try to convince a guy that you are worth it.
Just let him go and move on.
Find someone at your own maturity level who is also ready to settle down and have a serious
relationship.
This guy probably isn't ready yet.
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4.
He sends mixed signals This is one of the most obvious signs that he is wasting your
time because of his lack of commitment.
If he’s sending you mixed signals, how can you know for sure?
He may make plans with you and then cancel at the last minute.
Or he could be all over you right now and then turn his back on you tomorrow.
The one week he calls you constantly, the next he doesn't call at all and even avoids
your calls.
This is a clear sign of mixed signals when something seems to be going well, only to
have your confidence shaken the next day.
5.
He admits to having past issues.
It's possible that he'll bring up his past problems.
Listen and then trust him.
It is shocking how many people will hear the truth from a guy but then choose to ignore
his words.
When someone brings up their problems, it should be a red flag for you.
If he is constantly talking about his past, it could mean that he has been hurt before
or that he hasn't fully come to terms with a previous breakup.
Take it as a warning that he isn't worth the effort and is only wasting your time.
6.
He plays hard to get.
It can be exciting at first to chase someone, but if he makes it difficult all the time,
it can be a turn-off.
This isn't necessarily a sign that he is interested in you.
It's not that he has your best interests at heart.
Playing games with you indicates that he is not interested in the relationship and is
wasting your time.
It’s possible he's acting this way because he's unwilling to commit to a relationship.
7.
You’re not part of his future plans.
When the two of you talk about the future, he never brings up your name.
It’s not a good sign, particularly if you've been dating for a while, when this happens.
If you've just started dating, this isn't necessarily a bad thing because he may still
be trying to figure out if he sees a future with you.
Even more importantly, if you're really concerned that he is wasting your time, bring up the
future and see whether he includes you in it.
8.
You Don’t Know Where You Stand.
Love, at times, can be complicated.
But the process of falling in love should be an enjoyable experience for everyone.
The right person will make falling in love easy.
If his actions don't match his words and you're not sure where he stands, trust your instincts
and let him go.
Give the relationship a chance to breathe and see if your relationship will recover!
Always follow your intuition and trust your feelings.
As a general rule, when something isn’t right you know deep down that it isn't, you
can't ignore it.
In the end, you should know what you are worth, so don’t let him waste your time.
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