Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Let's talk about
flirting, something I don't think a lot of guys really understand. Flirting is
showing subtle interest. That's what flirting is; the idea of maybe
flirting with death. You've heard that before when someone's doing something
very dangerous. Obviously they're not doing something completely dangerous but
they're doing a little bit hence they're flirting with death.
Flirting is about showing subtle interest in a very small way.
Girls are doing this with you all the time. That's right sometimes
they're doing it and you don't even know it.
A lot of guys get flirting mixed up between someone who's just interested in
you as a friend or a person versus someone who's actually interested in you
in more than a friend. Common signs that guys think are flirting which sort
of are but not really overtly is eye contact, is a girl continuing to talk at
you and a girl smiling. But we need to get to the next level of actual
flirting where we know, okay this girl is interested and when she's exhibiting
these signs, she is definitely interested.
I'm going to give you the top 3 that you need to look out for when you're talking
to a woman whether it be for the first time, second time, whenever. Of course
this stuff is happening in person so this is not over text message but in
person. I know we just said smiling. I said smiling is kind of like a
is a weak sign but there's a very specific kind of smile when she's
looking at you that says I am interested in you. And that looks exactly like
this. As you can see this is a flirty smile. This is her looking at you like
she wants to jump your bones and anything like this (I know this might be
a little bit of an exaggeration) but anything even close to this means that
she's interested in you in more than just a friend because people smile all
the time but they're not always doing it like this.
The difference between the signs I was saying earlier like eye contact
and just a normal average smile versus the ones I'm telling you right
now is the idea of sexual interest. Flirting is showing sexual interest.
Like I said, two types of interest; her interest in
you as a person and her interest in you sexually. And when they're interested in
you sexually that means they like you. That means you have a chance to actually
be with this girl, go on a date with her, be your girlfriend, get intimate with her.
Let's go on to number two. Number two is when a girl is touching you.
When a girl touches you, she's showing more interest meaning this is flirting.
This is a sign that she's interested in you because girls don't always touch a
guy because girls won't be touching a guy they're not interested in. They will
make sure to let the guy know that I am just a friend or a colleague or
this is professional. Breaking that touch barrier says a lot so you need to
be paying attention to when a girl is touching you in any sense of the matter.
It doesn't matter if it's your arm, your shoulder, it doesn't matter if she's
actually trying to get close to you maybe because you're sitting next to each
other somewhere and her knee is touching yours but she's not moving it away.
This is her wanting to get physically close with you. We're talking about
sexual interest. The third one and this one is really powerful and
sometimes the girl does this consciously, sometimes it's unconsciously but I want
you to look out for it. There's this move when a girl has her hair in front
of her and she kind of like swipes it behind her and pushes it over so she can
expose her neck and her collarbone and this stuff is super primal.
She's trying to expose more of her skin and a very sensual part of her skin.
When she does that she's saying to you look at me. I want you to pay attention to me
and I want you to look at me because I am trying to attract you and girls know
that this is something that will attract a guy. She's trying to attract you and
at the same time showing you I am interested by trying to attract you and
if you're ever with a girl and you guys are together and you're on your couch or
you're somewhere on a date and you guys are close to each other you're probably
going to want to also flirt with her and build tension because when you build
tension with a girl then she's going to be turned on and want to kiss you and
want to do more and so I have something for you for free. It's called Tripp's
Tension Technique and it's a video that is showing you exactly how to build
tension with a girl and it's an actual demo of me doing it with the girl
so you know exactly what to do when you're alone with her to build that
tension up and getting her ready to jump your bones and you want to use this to
reciprocate when you get these signs so you guys can continue further with
whatever you're doing in terms of relationship or dating. We want to
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Technique. It's 100% free. Comment down below if you've seen any of these
signs. I bet you have and you're probably face palming yourself because you've
realized that girl was flirting with me. Now you know the signs, get
Tripp's Tension Technique and I'll see you on the next video.