Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video, I want
to share with you some proven psychological tricks that actually get a
woman interested in you and we'll be going over these 5 today and you're
going to be getting examples of what you can do on how to use these to be able
to get girls more interested. Mainly most of these come from the book called
Influence by Robert Cialdini. If you've never heard that book, I suggest you pick
it up because it is a very interesting read and it's going to teach you about
some persuasion. What we've done here is we've taken some of these
psychological tricks and now we're applying them to dating and don't worry
they are completely ethical, but I should warn you that this stuff can be very
powerful. Please use it for good. One concept is the idea of scarcity.
Whenever there's something that is scarce, for some reason psychologically
we are more inclined to want it and want it faster. You've probably seen places
where there's sales or you know a sale ends in a few days or you know there's
only 5 left or whatever you want to buy. When there's scarcity there, we are
more likely to jump on it faster and you can apply the same thing here when you
meet a girl. How you would show this is by not being too available to her.
One example that you can use is whenever you're asking a girl on a date,
don't just be available anytime to hang out with her. You should only be
available when you're actually available. Don't start moving things around just
because she's available to do something. That's one way to apply this. Another way
of applying scarcity is not showing too much interest by showing some
disinterest. An example of this would be teasing her or disqualifying
her. Basically letting her know in a subtle way that you're not sure yet if
you're interested in her. One thing is teasing; if you call girl a dork or say
something joking around, it's showing that you're not 100% sure
that that's someone that you want to be with. That's what she's kind of getting the
vibe of because you're doing that tease or they're disqualified. Something else you
could say is you know what I don't think that this would ever work out between us.
I just don't think that this is something that could ever possibly
happen. You're saying that kind of as a joke but in a way. You're
qualifying saying I'm not sure about this and this is making yourself
scarce. Let's go to the next one, commitment and consistency. This is
the principle that if someone commits to something, they will stay consistent
because they want to actually commit to the thing that they promised they were
going to commit to. There was a study done where they had participants
wear a cancer badge and the people who ended up wearing the badge were
likely to donate more, which they ended up doing so they were showing commitment
by wearing the badge and they stayed consistent with that by
donating more to the cause of cancer. A great way to use this is by asking a
girl if she's flaky. If you ever get a girl's number you can look at
her with a little bit an eye and say now you're not a flaky girl are you? And of
course she's probably gonna say no. No girl ever says that they're flaky. So if she
says that she's not a flaky girl, and by the way flaky means that she would
cancel the date. She says she's not a flaky girl, it's more likely that
she will stay consistent with her words and to her commitment. I'm telling you
and showing you that that's not who she is. You can use that the next time you
get a number from a girl so she will stay consistent and then not flake on a
date. Another one is verbal confirmation and this is sort of similar to
commitment and consistency. Basically there was a study done where they would
call up people to remind them of a blood drive and after the reminder they would
say to them and we'll see you there right? They were trying to get a
verbal confirmation saying we'll see you there
right? And because they got the verbal confirmation and people would say yes
more attendees ended up going to the blood drive.
Pretty crazy. Back to the idea of making sure a girl commits to plans when
you ask her out, maybe you do it in person, maybe you're doing it over text or over
the phone. You can say does that sound good or I'll see you there right or I'll
see you there at 8:00 right? You're getting that verbal confirmation
from her and that verbal confirmation will make it more likely that she will
end up on the date. I know some of these things this might sound funny like
you have to trick girls to be there. At the end of the day hopefully
you're just building enough attraction so she's so interested in you that she
will show up for the date and she won't flake. But it never hurts to throw in
something extra just to make sure. The next one, the fourth one is social proof.
Social proof can be very powerful. Social proof means that if a girl
sees that you are attractive to other girls and other girls are interested in
you, that's social proof. That's proof that there's something about you that's
very attractive and this has been something that is and talked about in
the dating advice community for many years. This isn't too new but it's
still a very interesting psychological principle that the girl sees that you're
wanted it makes you more desirable. If you're single, one great way to show this
is on your Facebook on your Instagram. You should have pictures with you and
some girls. It shows that you have girls around you and that you are
liked and you're wanted and you're desired. Another thing is you can actually go out
to bars with girls. Make some girlfriends and go out with them so when
you're meeting new girls, they get to see hey this guy is cool. People like
him and also girls like him. This is very powerful so try to use
that if you're ever going out or like I said in your social media profiles. The
next one is authority. This is something I talk about a lot on this
channel although I don't use the word authority. Basically, when you are looked
at as someone with authority, you have a greater influence over others.
There's something about someone who has that authority, that power where you kind
of look up to them. A way that you can do this when you're dating or when
you're meeting girls is by leading, leading the conversation, leading her
around, taking her around in terms of maybe meet her at a bar, maybe you're out
on date, you go to different locations. Basically, setting up and leading the
entire interaction from beginning to end. When you do that girls are more attracted
to you because it's more masculine, it's more dominant. But also because
you're showing authority and people like to be led. Especially women in these
dating situations. Once you get some numbers from girls and some of these
cool psychological principles actually work out, you're probably going to be
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out below in the description. Thanks for watching. Write a comment below if this
is something that has been interesting to you or something you think you're
going to use. I want to hear if you're going to use these the next time that
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and I'll see you on the next video.