Kanye's got new drama over the weekend.
This time with Pete Davidson.
and I'm going to talk about this latest custody war.
What it's like to have custody drama with a narcissist.
It's a whole lesson on what to do,
what not to do with co-parenting with the narcissist.
So I'm going to break it all down for you in this video.
So you're definitely not going to want to miss it.
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Okay. So over the weekend,
there was all kinds of a flurry
drama, trauma and chaos in the lives of Kim and Kanye
when Kanye posted all kinds of stuff.
Well it was kind of like ostensibly sort of talking to God or something
where he was saying.
“Hey god. Help me.
Help me get my kids to church specifically North.”
He wanted to take North to church.
He was saying that he was angry
because Kim was posting more videos
on Tik Tok and he really doesn't like that.
Now Kim, honestly,
he's been saying this for months.
You doesn't like that she's posting these videos on TikTok and
you know, she continues to do that
which is not necessarily a good thing because obviously
she's provoking this, she's baiting him to
and this is causing more drama drama on his part as well.
Apparently, there was a flurry of text messages between
Pete Davidson, her new boyfriend
and him which he then went on to post publicly,
which I don't think obviously Pete meant for them to be posted publicly.
But there they were posted.
He started off by saying.
“Hey man, you know, she's a great mom
and why don't we try to have a conversation?”
“Why don't we just talk to each other?”
“Maybe why don't you try to get some help.”
but basically Kanye was sort of baiting him and ended up getting Pete
sort of upset and emotional and pete and ends up saying,
“Hey, I'm in bed with with your wife.”
and of course, Kanye in his brand of messages
kept referring to Kim as his wife,
which, is she really his wife anymore when they're divorced?
you know, not really right?
But the whole thing really kind of had me
thinking about what is it like to continue
to be co-parenting with a narcissist
and I just thought this is such a good lesson
for all of you out there that are
trying to co-parent with a narcissist
and I thought, what better way to draw attention on the
do's and don'ts of co-parenting with a narcissist
and a good lesson in what to do or what not to do
when you're trying to co-parent with a narcissist.
Apparently Kim and Kanye do not have a structured
Parenting Agreement in place.
That's a big No-No for one thing.
You definitely want to have a structured Parenting Agreement in place.
You really shouldn't even be separating without a
structured Parenting Agreement in place.
You should’nt even be living in separate
houses without a structure Parenting Agreement in place.
You really need to have a very,
very specific Parenting Agreement in place.
It should be as specific as you
possibly can.
So that is a lesson in what to do.
Number one to do,
do not move out without a structured Parenting Agreement in place if possible.
Number two, don't have your significant other be trying
to talk to your new boyfriend
be trying to talk to your ex-husband and
interviewing being on your behalf like that.
Especially be saying,
“hey, I'm in bed with your wife”
and sending photos of you
like in naked in bed.
That is so much of it instigation,
right?
and here he is basically baiting Kanye, not good.
I mean Kanye's kind of baiting him
and what does that do?
Number one, it gives Kanye Narcissistic Supply.
Number two, all kinds of trial exhibits potentially down the road
which is not going to be good for Kim
because if they end up having some kind of trial over the custody,
all of this is going to come to light.
All this flurry of text messaging.
Everything that's going back and forth here
ends up being potential trial exhibit.
It's not going to be good for Kim and frankly
all this stuff that Kanye's been posting this diarrhea of the mouth
and everything that he's been posting is going to be
something that can be used against him to remember
that anything that you put your hand to is a potential trial exhibit,
you know, and all that stuff
becomes leverage.
Things that can be used against you
and I have a whole video on that,
which you can definitely check out.
This is the real leverage against narcissist
which I highly recommend that you check out as well.
These are the things that end up being used against you
And another thing that they should be doing
and that you could be doing if you're dealing
with a narcissist is instead of back
and forth using text and things like that is they
could use one form of communication
and I do highly recommend if you are dealing with co-parent
who's a narcissist, is used something like an app,
you know, there's a lot of different apps out there
that you can use that are specifically designed
for co-parenting
and I highly recommend that if you are in
a court battle, that you have the court
actually order that you use the app because that way,
if they don't use the app,
you can actually file something with the court that says,
“hey, they're not using the app”
and you can actually order that the court
make them use the app rather than,
you know, all these different ways that they can like
make your life miserable and you know how they do.
They use 50 different ways to communicate
with you to make your life miserable.
So I would say that playing all this out in the public eye
is actually just giving Kanye a forum
for his narcissistic supply.
Baiting is also a form of narcissistic supply
By taking the bait,
they're giving him narcissistic supply and then the reaction
is also all kinds of things that people
can be using as court trial exhibits.
All those sorts of things.
All kinds of do's and don'ts in this particular situation.
Fatal errors that can potentially be used in court.
So those are my do's and don'ts in custody battles
and a great lesson.
What to do, what not to do when
you are in a custody war in a co-parenting situation with a narcissist.
So I wish any of you who are dealing with a narcissist on the other side,
the best of luck
and I certainly wish the best of luck to both Kim and Kanye,
because there are real kids involved in this situation.
Just remember that you can do this and
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