tie bar girls hidden secrets hi guys Simon here and this is a really tricky
one for me to do because I'm such a positive person but the two years I was
a bar manager in Petare I did see a different a hidden level of things that
happened around the bar girls when they were not at work but now I'm going to
drugs let's call it the D word okay illegal in Thailand don't do it don't
get involved in it you'll go to prison you'll cost you a fortune to get out but
that's the D word in many countries around the world there is such a thing
as corruption gonna call that the C word and that's what I'm going to say on the
subject of those when you take take the complete sex scene out of the window
throw it away just strip back let's say potato the girls who work in the bars
when they are not working in the bars very tip they're sleeping and they've
got a bit of free time now let's just add up and move around it's it's a
tricky Club of work this one I had to tell you
so some girls in the bars don't do very well one month for instance let's say
they got sick they've picked an STD up something happened and they haven't had
much money like in any country in the world there
are people that will loan you money with higher interest and some of the girls
find themselves having to borrow money maybe it's off other girls maybe it's
off a certain field of people now how do I know about all this stuff so again
I've jumped slightly sideways so I worked for a Thai lady and husband who
owned lots of businesses the lady had lots of businesses her cashier she put
in the bars where I managed looked after order other businesses so this cashier
lived in the room above me in the bar with her husband her husband was let us
say a money collector and then he had a couple of friends who helped him who the
girls were really friendly with and these are the couple of guys had lots of
Thai girlfriends mmm so Thai girls they get sometimes they need to borrow money
sometimes as you know it's illegal to gamble in Thailand there is card games
oh that's let's take well the other card games I think it's called high low when
the Thai girls have been working in the bath quite a while they need some
excitement they need adrenaline they need fun and they sometimes turn to card
games now if they don't win they could possibly borrow money from certain
people and maybe they won't win again then it gets them into a little bit of
trouble and before you realize it maybe they've gone down and start playing
around with the d-word and inspire how to control all these things
and sometimes they'll find that where they borrow money from a Thai person man
will suddenly become their boyfriend and will push them to do more and more
things and all this is it's it's their right across a lot of countries but it's
there and it goes on behind the scenes but it explains a lot of things why the
girls are like they are why some of them are very hard and money orientated the
thing I noticed I started to be able to tell if a girl was having those sort of
problems she'd start confiding in me as the manager because I was just a friend
she start telling me personal things about her life and I thought okay is she
just prodding me to see if I would offer some financial
help some money maybe she was just prodding at first but then you you start
getting a bit more information about their family and life but they wouldn't
talk about those hidden things because they'd lose face and they won't do that
suddenly up pops a customer and she'd gone boom show away because of a chance
again a bit of money and it might help with the other situations so there's
hidden things in the background with some girls in Thailand they've just got
themselves into a tricky position they don't want to lose face they don't want
to give this you know this full story so those girls did start to stand out to
me I could tell and then because of my link in the bar with the owner and
there's this money-lending thing going on I started seeing more and more of
this and he seems to be right across the board so the a lot of Thai girls have
these hidden secrets and it starts off with money problems
not every tiger that starts off money problems then they can go down the
d-word path can suddenly get a boyfriend suddenly get a man that is not the
boyfriend but pushing that person around controlling them and all sorts of things
happen under the scene behind the scene if you're on going on holiday you will
never see this sort of thing but it's similar in every country in the world
with people that get into financial difficulties and it's handled in
different ways but when there's such a thing as status and not wanting to lose
face the girl will lie to your thigh girl will completely eye to you and
shoot off to get some money in one way or another and then come back and then
open up against you a bit more about just family things but they won't tell
you what's happening behind the scenes it's only after a long time you start
seeing it and understanding it so don't be surprised if you're starting a
relationship with a Thai girl a bar girl and someone is just disappears for weeks
on end she could be manipulated by other people things might be happening behind
the scenes that she can't control as other people also talk about getting a
Thai wife a bar girl good or bad I believe and I've got a friend that
married at a bar girl and she has changed slowly over the years started
trusting him more become a good relationship so I think you can
everyone's different every you're different
the girls are different there is possibilities of pulling Marion a bar
girl and changing them and then changing you it is possible
ah so many things I saw firsthand it's hard I just don't want to be negative I
think this these things with the money apply and the d-word and the gambling
applies to everyone around the world it can apply to any country
but as my channels about Thailand and I've seen other bloggers having a few
problems with scigirls I just thought that's more than likely would explain if
you start becoming friendly the scoring system I did
if you starting to speak Thai and you write down at number 10 I said I was at
number 9 because I was the vowel manager and the girls knew I never went with any
girl and would not they weren't interested me in that way weren't
interested in me in that way they were happy to be my friend and tell me some
things but they didn't want to lose face anytime with me as I didn't want to lose
face with them as well and yeah so lots going on in the background you might
know about it you might have seen parts of it you might know about it in village
it even happens in villages makes happens everywhere mmm
tricky to talk about so there's three vlogs I've done about bar girls I didn't
really want to do blogs I don't want to this plenty of excellent thailand
bloggers who do the bar scene who do give you all their angles on the bar
girls and things i didn't really want to do that on my channel i don't really
want to start going around filming in the future when i'm living there it's
not my really cup of tea I'm happily married and you know there's
a I think mine's slightly different my channel these three vlogs is a slightly
different by all means put comments in I hope I haven't upset anyone with going
down this path but after seeing the one Thailand we'll all go get sort of little
bit trampled on and then I've watched some of these comments and things below
I can understand everyone's angle it just sparks off these three these three
vlogs so we'll be back to normal if service resumes as normal in a few days
once I finish peace taxi Gold Cup which is chaos absolute
chaos I've got a couple of bits of footage already so well put those up in
about a week right I'm off to bed before doing the night shift please subscribe
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