I would ... break up with him
Sayonara
If you don't notice, is that ok?
If he would not focus on me, i would get sad, so I prefer anime otaku
KILL or KEEP? What boys are the most hated in Japan
what actions of a boy are unforgivable to Japanese girls so they would kill off the relationship
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A boy sloppy with money or time, who would you keep?
Loose with time - Time
Why?
If he is loose with time, I just need to wait longer
Money is more important
I understand.
Sloppy with time or money, what would you forgive?
He can still be loose with time - Yeah time
Why
Money... - Money sloppiness can change a person's life
If he used up his money and made debt, it's a no. - No way!
Forgive sloppiness with time or money?
Time - Same for me
If he is bad handling his money, marrying him will be out of the question
You would worry about your future together?
If he is just loose with his time, I can still work with that
If he never makes debt, I would forgive if he was loose with spending his money
I can try and pay for things for him as well
If he is bad with his time, I might snap at him, that's no good
Snap how?
I think I would get so irritated and angry for making me wait that I would shout at him
It would stress you out? - Untimeliness would be more stressful for me
If he is not able to be on time, we won't be able to do things we want to do
Like him being late for one hour for your Disney date?
I would split up with him if he did that - Sayonara
I would probably just go home
What would you forgive: Debt or Cheating?
I would forgive cheating - Forgive cheating
You would not forgive debt? - Never
Why? - Thinking of our future, money is important.
You are worried about the future
Especially once we have a family. In that case cheating is still better than debt.
You can still talk it out - It is still better than debt.
Why?
If it is cheating, you just got to end it with that guy
But if it is debt, it might follow you around for your life
The debt might come to you? - yes
Would you forgive cheating or debt?
If I have to choose, I will forgive cheating
Yeah forgive cheating
Why?
Money is important. I can not forgive debt.
But if my partner cheats, it depends on his actions afterwards if we can stay together
If he cheats on you and says it will never happen again will you forgive him?
Maybe, it depends on how sincere he will be after that too.
Sincere?
If he acts like he really regrets doing it, I will forgive him
Why do you forgive the cheater?
If there is debt it is a dead end but when it is cheating...
I might forgive him
If he cheated with 3 people?
If it was 3... I would have to think really hard if I forgive that
Forgive cheating or debt?
Between those two I would forgive debt
Which would you forgive?
I would forgive debt
Does it matter how high the debt is?
Depends how high the debt is
What would you forgive? 100,000yen (less 1,000 dollars)
That I would forgive - And 1,000,000yen? (under $10,000)
- Uh well - Just about
10,000,000 in debt (under $100,000) - That is just scary
How much would you forgive cheating then?
I would forgive if he went for a meal with another girl
I give him freedom
If he tells me he is with another girl its ok
You mean going for a meal right
But what if he says "I cheated on you with mimi"?
She means if he says in advance he will go with her for a meal that is ok
But if he kissed her? - Oh no
That's a no
Don't say that
If he doesn't say it, I will never know
Is it ok for you as long as you do not find out????
It is not ok but ... - Do not tell her if you did
If he was drunk and kissed Mimi he doesn't have to tell the truth?
If it was a mistake, he was drunk and kissed her without thinking, then do not tell that
But if you fell in love with Mimi, then tell us
And then you will split up?
Then we can talk and think about it
With debt, consumer credit debt or debt from friends...
Would you forgive debt from friends of from companies?
That would be consumer credit - That would be friends
You chose that? - Oh
You chose that? Why - But if you borrow from friends
It could affect relationships. You just gotta make sure you give it back.
I think if it is debt from friends, you can still talk it out in case of trouble
It would have to be a good friend though
With a good friend you can till talk, you cannot do this with company debt
Those ones will be really strict and you gotta make sure you do things right.
This is interesting
We prepared some bad boys and please let us know who would you forgive.
- Forgive? - Who would you forgive?
Game otaku or Anime otaku?
I would forgive the anime otaku - ....................... anime otaku
Why?
I like anime too, so we can still share that hobby but with games...
I have no interest in games, and players focus in on their own world
I would be sad if he does not give me any attention
That is why I would prefer the anime geek
If you like anime, what would you watch together?
I would watch demon slayer, one piece and dragonball together.
Game geek are just in their own world for hours
If we are together but he only plays his games, I would wonder why I am there
With an anime geek we can still watch anime together and share the experience
Did you make a sad experience with game geeks?
I have.....
It seems like you talked from experience
While eating he would just be gaming
He would game all the time
That is so sad
- "Hey I am here too" - Yeah like that
There is no reason for me to be there
Do you forgive anime otaku or game otaku?
- anime otaku - anime otaku
Why do you forgive the anime otaku's hobby?
Anime we can watch together, but when gaming he might forget about me
What anime do you watch? - Hero academia, Once Piece, Quintessential quintuplets
I like many genre
Do you forgive a boy with Bodily Odor or Tobacco Odor?
Tobacco smell I would forgive
I would probably forgive that too
Why that?
My whole family smokes
I am used to that smell
Some people have really strong bodily odors
That is a bit ... gross. Like arm pit smell right?
If he smells of that... I might not be able to be with him
If you do not like the person's smell it might be hard to be with them even if you love them
I think so. We would probably split up
do you forgive tobacco smell or body smells?
Tobacco
Money or being loose with money and making debt is worse to Japanese girls
than actually the partner cheating which again ties into how important it is
to support the family and support the partner in the future here in Japan.
Also, someone who smells of tobacco was more acceptable
than someone who smells of their bodily odor.
Which ties in with what we mentioned on this channel before, maybe you have seen the video
about how important cleanliness, the word in Japanese is "seiketsukan" is to Japanese girls
Cleanly shaven, always well showered, not smelling either too strong of soap just the right amount
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