so the other day I was talking to a
friend of mine and we started discussing
why some people are successful while
others are not and surprisingly whoever
we talked about he seems to know the
reason behind his or her success but the
common trade among all of them was that
they all were lucky one way or another
one is lucky because he naturally got a
beautiful voice the others videos simply
went viral on YouTube so that's also
luck the third one simply was born into
a rich family so he had all the
opportunities in front of him and that's
the mentality of the victim and it's so
widespread in our society that most of
us truly believe that's how it should be
in fact those who go through tragedy and
hardship in life we look at them as weak
and we pity them but at the end of the
day you choose how these events are
going to affect you you can view them as
exciting adventures that make your life
interesting or tragedies that will only
make you miserable let me just give you
a very simple example of how the same
incident can lead to people to think in
two opposite ways let's say
hypothetically you had an accident and
you survived but unfortunately you lost
your feet if you think of yourself as a
victim you will constantly remind
yourself and the people around you that
you went through this horrible accident
and since then you can't lead a normal
and healthy life because of this
accident you couldn't realize your
dreams achieve your goals or start that
business that you always wanted on the
other side there are people who come to
absolutely opposite conclusions after
the exact same incident first of all
he's thankful that he only lost his feet
and not his life it made him realize
that life is short and he should take
advantage of every minute of it and the
fact that he survived such an accident
is simply a miracle so he spends the
rest of his life energised passion and
more excited to pursue his goals you
might have expected in this video to get
some kind of financial advice on where
to invest your money so that you can
make even more money but honestly
everything you need to know about money
and investing is available all
over the internet but you are not going
to take advantage of them if you don't
get out of this victim position where
most people are and I like to think
about the example of 50-cent the rapper
whose net worth is millions of dollars
he didn't have a good start in fact he
lost his parents at an early age but
what's more fascinating about his life
is that when he was 25 he was shot nine
bullets in his hand laid both legs and
chest thankfully he survived and instead
of being afraid to take any risk again
for the rest of his life
this incident made him absolutely
fearless because he kind of have tested
the death itself and there is nothing
else left for him to be afraid of think
about it he was trying to get into the
music industry but he was also shot in
his left cheek which means he can't
properly rap now but even with all of
these injuries he smashed everything and
released his album and used the music
industry as a gateway to financial
freedom because he took the money that
he earned from the music and invested it
into multiple other businesses remember
most people do not consciously decide to
be the victim the environment they grew
up has taught them that the people they
look up to acted like a victim so they
took an example of them when you grow up
in the family where your parents
constantly complain that everything is
bad because of these uneducated pigs in
the White House and the Congress if only
they did their job the economy would be
better off and we would not be in this
dark financial position it's pretty
comfortable to be in this position
because you are constantly hiding behind
someone for something else
of course it's by far isn't easy to get
out of this victim position and you have
to be mentally and spiritually strong in
order to fight back there are multiple
videos on this channel that can help you
but I also created an entire course
that's targeted to get you out of this
victim mentality through building
self-confidence the court is fully
animated so that it would not just be
helpful but also interesting to watch so
that you can complete the course and get
the best out of it
if that's what you're interested in you
can find the link in the
description by the way we have a special
offer going on so check it out anyways
thanks for watching and I will catch you
in the next one
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