hi everyone caroline here so today i just want to talk about those toxic work environments that
we work in or those negative work environments that we work in because they really affect our
energy and they can really cause us to be off balance and create all kinds of sicknesses on
every level emotional mental and even physical you know and i know a lot of people who suffer
from so much stress and have such high anxiety and even literally fall sick just at the thought
of going into work in those environments and maybe you're one of them i used to be
one of them but you know people got to do what they got to do because people have to survive
and so i'm not judging anyone because you know for whatever reason sometimes working in those types
of environments is the only viable option that we have in terms of getting a job just like this
sometimes you just gotta stay in that environment until it's time for you to make a jump
so i totally understand because even i for a long time i used to work in an environment that created
so much stress and anxiety in my life i tell you i was so stressed working in those environments
i used to feel so physically ill at the thought of just going to that place every morning my
self-esteem was just in the garbage i hated myself because of how inconsistent i used to feel about
myself as opposed to what i wanted to be you know what i mean those just this clash of oh my gosh
caroline how is it that you're allowing people to treat you this way why are you allowing yourself
to be treated this way and i still couldn't leave that job but i hated it so much and i really
depended on the income so it's never sometimes about the income it's about so many other things
because that place was really really oppressive i tell you those were the worst years of my life it
was just like those years of my gosh caroline what is going on that work environment was the absolute
worst you know what i mean i mean the co-workers were nice but the way the management was and the
way the company was run was just so oppressive there was just no room for growth or expansion
or promotions or whatnot those people didn't even care and i allowed myself to remain in
that space for a long long time it's one of my biggest regrets in life but still
i'm always so proud that one day i got the guts to really leave that toxic work environment and
you know the interesting thing is that sometimes you're in a toxic environment but you're not aware
that it's the environment itself that is causing the toxicity that is occurring in your life
but toxicity in an environment is a sign so if you're aware then you can look at that and see
what you need to do you know what i mean so i've come across a lot of people who are experiencing a
lot of things happening in their lives but it's usually triggered by the negative environment
that they keep placing themselves in day in and day out year after year you know for whatever
for the paycheck which is good you know what i mean because we need the paycheck
but still the adverse effect on their own emotions on their minds on their physical health
on their relationships is too big to ignore and this is the reason why i'm making this video just
to give you a few tips on how to notice whether you really are in a negative work environment and
this can also apply to your living environment you know what i mean because toxicity in environments
always manifest in the same way no matter where you're at but the focus here is mainly basically
on the work environments because a lot of people are in some toxic work environments and they try
to work with tools or whatnot and etc to try to balance these things out and as a matter of fact
i'm going to make a video on the different types of crystals that people can use in those types of
environments and they're all different and i'm going to tell you why in that video and you'll
see why because it's not always about using black tourmaline it's not always about using obsidian
to keep things away and i'll go in depth on that topic which i'm really looking forward to share
with you because a lot of people have asked me or keep asking in the comment section about crystals
to use in the workplace so it's just not a blanket thing or just a set of crystals that work for
every specific work issue there's a lot of things to be considered when working with crystals in
the workplace okay anyway to get back to this topic of working in toxic work environments
let me just be clear i know that there's so many other people who work in amazing environments and
everything is all good and it really is a blessing but for the sake of those who work in toxic work
environment or who work in a place where the work culture is just like so bad and there's so much
prejudice and there's so much bullying that goes on in that workplace yes it happens people really
get bullied at work or just overall poor treatment at work these five things i'm going to share with
you are going to help you clearly see whether you're working in a toxic environment or not so
you can consider what to do next okay all right so the first thing is that toxic work environments or
negative environments usually have a quality of distraction and even though you're making
money which is kind of giving you life they have a way of crushing you they have a way of killing
your dreams your creativity your motivation your desire to quote quote live or feel inspired to
go to work every day to wake up every day they have a way of diminishing your life force your
ambition you just kind of feel dead every time you want to go to work you're just like oh my gosh
you know i remember that so well for myself because i used to be in that situation
i used to feel so dead driving to work every day just feeling numb and just like oh my gosh i can't
believe it's morning what time is evening gonna come so i can leave this place in my mind i'll
just be having these conversations with people at work with my boss you know just having this
conversations of how i was gonna react if something happened what i was gonna do it was
just constant like barrage of negativity coming from me against other people and against myself
also it was just such a crazy crazy experience and of course you can say yeah why would you not leave
i couldn't leave at that point because i just didn't think that there's an existence outside of
that place you know sometimes you can be so bogged down with the things that are happening in your
life that you can't even see the way forward i could not see the way forward i could not
imagine just leaving that place or just going to look for another job i was just too tired i was
too worn out i was just too exhausted so i was in that environment and it really affected who i was
as a person so what i want to say is that your work environment or your personal situation may
not be as bad as mine was but just be aware that one of the qualities of a negative or toxic work
environment or even living environment is that it has that quality of death or distraction that kind
of kills the being or the person that you are all right the second point is this a negative
or toxic work environment can cause disease you feel out of ease there's a state of unease in
your life it can be physical emotional mental or whatever but you will notice that something
is wrong with your body you may notice that you're experiencing things like anxiety or heart
palpitations or panic attacks or even diarrhea you know what i mean your stomach starts like just
when you're at work or at the thought of going to work or when an authority figure in the workplace
calls you or you see like a meeting going on or something going on you start like you
know thinking you're delusional or great fear comes upon you or whatnot you know what i mean
because you think like you know something's about to go down your throat chakra becomes
blocked you can't express yourself well at work your creativity diminishes you start making a
lot of mistakes at work you're always in trouble you're always being called in for whatever reason
you know what i mean things just start going off and sometimes you also can't sleep at night you
get these migraines you're sweating profusely you start trembling you know what i mean your hands
are always like this you know what i mean it's a crazy kind of experience and because of all these
things that are going on at work which maybe you can't address or there's no way to address at work
your sense of self esteem really goes down and you really feel bad about yourself and it's also true
that these things i'm talking about may not all be caused because of your negative work environment
there could be other things that cause these kinds of symptoms but what i'm talking about are those
things that some people usually experience when they're in an environment that is not good for
them and sometimes these things that go on have nothing to do with someone's personal experience
in terms of that job that they're doing they could be great workers they could be making good money
but because of the work environment and the culture there a lot of these things manifest
in our bodies and people are out of ease through no fault of their own it's the environment baby
it's the environment okay the other way to tell if you're working in a toxic work environment
is to notice in yourself whether you're feeling weaker and weaker energetically as a result of
being in that space toxic environments weaken your energy they weaken your confidence they weaken
your willpower they weaken your resolve they weaken your personal power they shut down your
solar plexus and this means that your personal power to do things or to take charge or to thrive
diminishes your sense of self-worth or self-esteem or even how you see yourself go down because of
how you feel when you're at work because for me i remember how those feelings really affected me and
thankfully i used that energy to get out of those jobs but then it's interesting because even after
i left the first job that really really put me through a lot i ended up after swearing never ever
to work in corporate america i ended up taking up another job and i still cannot believe for
the life of me how much bullying i encountered in this new workplace and at that time i had
already started doing a lot of work on myself i was really engaged in a lot of spiritual work and
you know doing all kinds of things to really bring myself into balance and so when i went to the new
workplace i thought that you know maybe things were going to be good but i was so shocked at how
much bullying was happening in the workplace i was shocked at the degree of this undercover bullying
man i felt like garbage in that place i felt like garbage and even though i loved that job so much
and it was my dream job it literally became a nightmare because of that toxic work environment
so just be aware that a toxic work environment weakens your energy so the other thing is that
toxic work environments can create accidents you may have seen in the news where some toxic
things happening in some workplaces ended up causing some physical accidents that hurt a lot
of people there are quite a few stories like that in the news anyway energetically speaking if we
keep on keeping on working in some of these toxic environments we might experience some accidents
occurring in our life on some level and the thing is this for those of us who are aware when things
that we consider to be accidents happen in our lives if we have a level of awareness we can read
the writing on the wall or see that as a message to ourselves that it is time to move on or to take
some type of action that will bring us back into balance you know everything speaks and sometimes
what happens is unfortunate and i wouldn't wish that on anyone but on the other hand some of these
things happen and really cause us to triumph and move beyond something that was keeping us
stuck in a very very bad situation so that's why i think it's very important to pay attention to
what's going on with us on every level whether we're working with spiritual tools or whether
we're in a work environment because everything matters and everything speaks to us i remember
a time when i had a car accident and it was just basically me driving off from work really angry
because of how the day had gone and as usual at that time when the accident happened to me
i just couldn't believe that it had happened to me but those were signs that i needed to move on
and thank god i did and surprise the final one is if a work environment or living environment makes
you feel bad if it's a negative environment and it makes you feel terrible then it is toxic simple
right so do you work in a toxic work environment and how do you know that it is toxic let me know
in the comment section okay i love you guys stay clear of toxic work environments until next time