- So in your heart, you know he's not good enough for you,
but you cannot leave him.
So, in this video I will share with you five common reasons
why you cannot walk away.
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Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite,
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So you know what ladies, without further ado, let's start.
Reason number one why you cannot walk away.
I think I will never find better than him.
If you're dating a toxic, low value man,
please watch my video What is a Man of High Value,
which you'll find just by following the link right here.
Right here.
And you are saying this to yourself,
well then consider yourself to have a very low self-esteem.
If you feel you cannot find any better,
well then ladies, you need to become better.
Let me explain.
When you put your purpose all on him
and the focus away from you and your goals,
this is where you believe he is your all.
Maybe you start to glorify him,
maybe you put him on a pedestal.
Maybe he puts on a show that women are after him
and texting him all the time.
Maybe you believe that you cannot get any better.
Ladies, build your self-worth,
invest in your goals and your dreams.
If part of your dream is to have a husband
and a family life, well then that's amazing,
but give your children parents
that love and respect one another, that are high value.
The second tip why you cannot leave him.
I am comfortable and it's familiar.
This happens when you are afraid of the unknown.
It is more comfortable and familiar to stay
than to venture into the unknown.
Also, if your guy cheats on you, yells at you,
abuses you and puts you down,
maybe you have lived in the same type of environment
as a child and your mother has accepted
this type of behavior.
And this is why it's almost normal to you.
This is very familiar and relatable to you.
So, you stay.
When you are in this type of relationship so many years,
you get used to it, you accept it, it gets easier to stay
than to make changes and be uncomfortable.
The third reason is, I would rather stay than be alone.
So, maybe you have a fear of loneliness.
Ladies, it is better to be alone
than to be together in toxicity.
You may even feel lonelier in a toxic relationship.
Never depend on the guy to fulfill you
in your own loneliness.
Please know how to keep yourself busy in life
and to enjoy your own presence.
Make yourself happy, love yourself.
A guy is not there to entertain you or make you happy,
it's not his job.
If you still feel lonely by yourself,
maybe do some research towards faith
and see what feels right and makes sense to you the most.
Please, you are never really alone
unless you make yourself believe and think
that you are alone.
We have God, we have family, we have friends.
And nowadays with the internet you can find
lots of activities and groups.
Lonely is just a state of mind.
And if you're gonna say,
I'm alone 'cause I don't have a man,
well girls, it's truly ridiculous.
Learn how to be self-sufficient and not dependent.
Fourth one is, you are afraid of losing him
to another woman.
Again, this has to do with the way you see yourself.
Poor self-worth, self-image, and maybe even some jealousy.
If you love yourself, you will let him go.
When you love yourself and you let him go,
you focus on what will work best for you
now that you are free.
He is also free to do as he wishes
and it is none of your concern.
Setting yourself free from a relationship
that was not working out is the best gift
that you can give to yourself.
If he was a low value man, let him look for another
low value woman.
And I promise you that he will only meet his match.
You know, ladies, I had a client in my VIP
who had many toxic relationships.
And by toxic I mean another level of toxicity.
And this beautiful girl was sharing her stories in detail
on my Facebook group.
I remember she said whenever she would let go
of her toxic boyfriend, and she had many,
God would always reward her with money.
She said, "I would always get large sums of money
"coming in from random places
"as soon as I would let go of my very toxic boyfriend."
So ladies, I'm not saying that God will give you money
when you let go of your toxic boyfriend.
That is what would happen to her
and whenever she would share her story,
I would always get goosebumps all over.
And of course, if you would want to find out more
about my VIP, I will drop a link down
in my video description box below.
But what I'm saying is, ladies,
God will always have your back
if you're letting go of someone who's toxic,
because he doesn't approve of that either.
Oh and if you would like to find out more about my VIPs,
I will drop a link that you can check out
in my video description box below.
And the fifth reason is, like attracts like.
If most people notice that your guy is not for you,
yet you keep him in your life despite all the mess
he is creating, ever wondered why?
Like attracts like.
On some level you relate to him.
He's insecure, so are you.
You cannot grow past him, this is why you cannot let go.
If and when you do decide to let go,
you seem to attract another low value man or a toxic man.
Ladies, the simple reason is you are not working on yourself
which is poor mindset and a low self-esteem.
A woman who is high value and knows her value and worth,
is comfortable in her own skin,
will never date a man who is insecure and irritable.
She would rather enjoy her own presence alone
than entertaining a clown with a crown.
So ladies, these are my five most common reasons
that I came across by coaching my clients
over four years on daily basis,
why they cannot leave their guys.
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And the best advice that I could give for this video,
is ladies, work on self value and self-worth,
work on self love.
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where we are all in the same boat
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Thank you for watching, queens.
Kisses from Manchester. (smooches)