Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about what women want in a man 7 things all classy women
love. Like love. Are you tired of attracting the wrong types of women? The kinds of women you don't
want to spend your life with? And are you instead looking for that happy lifelong relationship with
the love of your life? The kind of person who will just love you for you like crazy and who you can
love like crazy? If that's you right now you need to know what's in this video. It's so powerful
it's gonna absolutely change the way you look at dating and relationships. So pay close attention
and make sure you watch to the end. Each of these tips are so powerful I would hate for you to miss
out on any of them. Now before we get started, if this is your first time watching one of my videos,
welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to stop
wasting your time and energy on bad relationships. That sounds amazing, right? By learning the skills
that instead get you your dream relationship and your dream girl. The best part is as a certified
coach I will never teach you mind games or tricks, okay? What I teach you is backed by science so pay
close attention, subscribe, ring that notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. And with that
let's dive in. Let's get this party started. Okay, can I be super honest with you guys for a second?
There are some serious lies going around about what women want in a man. And those lies
cost so many men their dream girl because they don't realize they're lies. And how
would they know that because they're just doing what they've been taught, right?
But by following those bad ways of doing things, those bad strategies, it pushes their dream girl
away. And that's why they're struggling to get their dream relationship. And the truth is
you don't deserve that, right? You don't deserve to be taught lies. Some of the most common lies
you're being told are that women only want bad boys or she only cares how good you are in the
bedroom or that you have to look like a fitness model or that you always have to prove your worth
to her over and over and over again and it becomes this dominance thing. That's a bunch of nonsense,
you guys. Please understand that these are the traits toxic women are looking for.
All a toxic woman cares about is one night fling, how good you make her look. All she cares about is
what you can do for her. But a classy woman, a high quality woman,
she cares about you. She wants to love and be loved. That's what she is looking for. So it's
very important that you understand what a classy woman wants instead of what a toxic woman wants.
Because if you only understand what a toxic woman wants that's kind of all you're going to attract,
right? That makes total sense. But if instead you understand what a classy woman wants
and you have those traits that is how you get your dream relationship. Make sense? Are you
getting this so far? So with all this in mind I am here to tell you the truth. So let's get started
with what women want in a man 7 things all classy women love. First up is a man who
is faithful. One of the most common lies you are being told is that she only cares how good you are
in the bedroom so you better get lots of practice or she won't love you. That is a big fat lie. Like
that is a massive lie. This is only true when it comes to toxic women. If she is a classy woman
she wants to know that you're going to be true to her. She wants to know that you're
faithful because she is giving her heart to you and she wants to make sure that she has yours
as well and that you would only ever give that part of you to her. If something is special
you don't give it to everyone, right? You save it because it is so special. So she doesn't want a
guy who's had a lot of practice. I mean, really, realistically, who wants to spend their life with
someone who gets lots of practice? That's not how it works. Now you may be thinking,
"okay, Melannie, but what if I've fallen into that trap and what if I've been doing that?"
Start today, okay? Let today be the time when you decided that was only something you will give
to the absolute love of your life, the woman you spend your life with, the woman you marry. Let
today be a defining moment for you. You can't change the past but you can change the future,
okay? It's not too late but start now. Do not put it off any longer. Again if if something
is special you treasure it, right? She wants someone who's going to be faithful to her.
If you haven't yet seen this video make sure you watch it. There's a link in the description below.
I go into more detail on this and really what it means to be a man from a woman's perspective and
how attractive that is to her. So make sure you watch that video too. The next thing you
need to know about what women want in a man is that she wants a man who is dependable.
Do you want her to trust you? Do you want her to be attracted to you? Do you want her
to want to spend her life with you? She needs to know you are dependable, that you are trustworthy,
and that she can count on you. This is one reason why classy women look for a man who is mature and
shows her that he is mature. She's looking for a lifelong partner. That's what you're looking for,
right? So she wants to know you're someone she can count on. This is what makes a woman look
up to you and trust you. The next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is that
she is looking for someone she can respect. Fun fact for you, you cannot love someone
that you do not respect. You cannot be in love with someone that you don't have any respect
for. It will not happen. So how do you get that respect? Well, some of my favorite things that
I teach in my program are your body language, setting appropriate boundaries, that is huge,
increasing your confidence. These small things, are actually, they have huge huge impact. They
show that you respect yourself and that causes other people to respect you too. You've heard me
say this a million times and you will hear me say it a million more times. Guys, this is why dating
and relationship skills are so important. You want to stand out from the crowd? Do you want
to turn her head and be the only one she notices? Do you want her to respect you? You got to have
those dating and relationship skills. That right there is the game changer. That's what makes her
heart light on fire and gives her butterflies in her stomach and makes her go, "whoa, that's the
kind of guy I want to marry." Now at this point you're probably thinking, "wow, this is great. But
how do I find a classy woman? How do I find a woman like that? And when I do find her how do
I attract her?" Is that what you're thinking right now? I've got your back here too. I just released
an all new masterclass on how to find and attract your dream girl. You're going to learn how to find
her even if you've tried everything, you're going to learn how to become attractive no matter your
situation, and you're going to learn how to remove all barriers between you and your dream girl.
Seriously, if you're struggling to find classy women, if you're struggling to keep a long-term
relationship, you need to know what's in this masterclass. That's so exciting, right? Can
you imagine just knowing how to find her and just knowing how to attract her? That would be amazing,
right? So there's a link to watch this free masterclass in the description below. I will also
put a link in the pinned comment. Make sure you watch it right now. Seriously life-changing. Okay,
the next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is she's looking for a man who is
smart. Intelligent people are interesting, they're dependable, they're more reliable. And if she's
going to spend her life with someone she wants to make sure that he's enjoyable to be with.
Now I want to be clear about this. This doesn't mean you have to have a master's degree,
okay? There are a lot of people who have a lot of education but they are super intelligent.
Maybe you've known some of those people? I think everybody knows some of those people.
So it's not necessarily about schooling. It's about being a smart and intelligent person.
A lot of people think being stupid is funny. It's not. Especially if she's a classy woman,
she is not looking for someone immature and overly silly and stupid. So make sure you're
always adding to who you are. Make sure you're always learning and growing and progressing. That
is insanely attractive to a woman and that's what she's looking for in a man. Next up she
wants a man with a good sense of humor. Women are naturally attracted to men who make them laugh.
Now with this being said that does not mean you have to be a particularly funny person.
I have a lot of people say, "okay, Melannie, but I'm not funny." Focus more on helping her enjoy
the moment. Focus on laughing at the little things and and lightening up. And frankly just
being clever and child like. Having a good sense of humor does not mean putting yourself down,
okay? Please please please understand that right now. A lot of people think
making fun of themselves is humor. It's not. Sometimes people will laugh at that
because they feel awkward and they don't really know what else to do so they laugh,
but it makes them feel uncomfortable. So it's not putting yourself down. It also is not
crude jokes, okay guys? Don't make inappropriate jokes. Don't use an appropriate language. It's
not funny. Again some people will laugh because they're just trying to get out of this situation,
but it does not make them respect you, which we've already established is important, right?
So what a good sense of humor is, is just being enjoyable, lightening up the mood,
laughing at those little things, and really just letting yourself lighten up. Is this making sense
so far, and are you enjoying this? Do you see how some of the lies that maybe you've been told
really don't apply to classy women? If you would like more videos like this one on what classy
women want please comment "classy!" in the comments below. Seriously that helps me so much,
you guys. Thank you for leaving these comments for me. It helps me know what material to prepare for
you in the future. So if you're enjoying this, if you want more videos on how to get those classy
women and how to have a relationship with a classy woman please please please leave "classy!" in the
comments and any other questions or comments there as well. You guys are the best. Okay,
the next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is she's looking for a man who is
patient. Again, you want a lifelong relationship, right? That's what she wants too. And it's going
to require patience for both you and for her. And being around someone who's not patient,
it stresses us out, right? But when we're with someone who is patient, oh my goodness, we can
relax with them, we feel safe with them, we feel like we can trust them. She definitely wants a
patient man. The next thing you need to know about what women want in a man is she wants someone who
is proactive about looking nice and attractive. Now please please please pay close attention.
I said proactive. I did not say she wants a man who looks like a supermodel, okay? As a matter of
fact, guys, research shows that women actually care less about a man's physical appearance
than most men think. In reality, there are traits that are far more attractive to women than just
physical appearance. With that being said though, she wants someone who is proactive about trying to
be an attractive person. What that does is that says you got confidence. It also says you have
self-respect. And frankly she does want to see you attractive. So it's not about exercising 15
hours in a gym and it's not about dieting 24/7 and it's not about being 6'2" and super ripped. It's
about being proactive. If you're someone who says, "okay, what can I do to be attractive?" that right
there is hot. That shows your inner strength, your inner integrity, and your self-respect.
And that right there is insanely attractive to classy women. As a classy woman, she's working
on proactively being attractive. She just is. And when she sees you're doing the same thing,
that's what she's looking for in a man. Okay, are you ready to recap what you've learned so far?
What women want in a man 7 things all classy women love. First up we have a man who is faithful. She
wants to know that her heart is safe with you. She wants to know that you care about her and that she
can trust you. You are faithful to her. And yes, that applies even before you meet your future
wife. Start today. Next up is a man she can count on. She wants someone who's dependable. That's
pretty important in a long-term relationship, right? You need someone who is dependable.
Next up is a man she can respect. She cannot fall in love with a man that she has no respect for
so you need to make sure she can respect you. The next thing you need to know about what women want
in a man is a man who is smart and a man who is intelligent. That's an interesting person,
that's an attractive person. And then we have a man with a good sense of humor. Again this
does not mean you necessarily have to be a funny person. It just means you appreciate humor and
you let yourself enjoy it. Next up is a man who is patient. Long-term relationships definitely
require patience on both sides. And she is also looking for a man who is proactive
about looking nice. The fact that he's proactive about it speaks volumes to her and tells her
something huge about his character. Plus she likes to see you looking really good. Thank you
so much for watching, my wonderful friend! If you learned something new make sure you give me a big
thumbs up and subscribe and ring that notification bell for more on how to get that lifelong, happy
relationship. Again if you're struggling knowing how to find the love of your life and how to find
and attract a classy woman you need to watch my free masterclass right now. There's a link in
the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment. Do it right now, seriously,
I'll see you over there, it's going to blow your mind, you're going to love it, you need to know
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amazing friend, and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] This is the first time I've worn this jacket
on video, so this is like, this is like its debut. Yay! [laughter]
That's a weird thing to say, I know, but I don't care. Okay.
Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on- Yeah, I was right. [laughter] I always
have this voice in the back of my head and I like panic "wait, that's not it," but it is.
Every single time. Weird. Okay, let's dive in. Let's get this party started. Yeah!
I have to fix my hair and then the party can start. [laughter]
Hair is very important. [laughter] I don't even know what I'm saying I'm so tired today. Okay.