Hi it's Stephan,
And in this video I'm going to explain to you 3 legal methods to freak a girl out.
The legal you can do them right now and you're probably doing them right know if you are
like maybe 85% of men in this world.
So here's how to do them;
1.
Is called the stare and avoid.
Stare and avoid.
Here is how you do it.
You are the girl right?
Imagine that you're the girl and I'm here, I'll tell you when you become aware of when
I'm looking at you.
So I am sitting here you are over there and I'm not staring...
And now you become aware of me...
This is how you do that on you the stare and avoid.
That's a legal way to freak girl a girl out.
You cannot be arrested for that but she will be freaked out and she will be weirder out.
That is step number one.
Now we have another method to freak a girl out.
2.
I call it hovering.
When you are near her either when you are interacting with her or even before you interact
with her, you just sort of hover.
So you stay hang-on a little bit so like this...
Maybe you just said, "Hey" and she goes, "Hey" and you are like... you are thinking about
what you are gonna do next or whatever.
You just stay there a little bit and you hang and when you say, "Hey I should probably go
now" and then you just have looked around or you look and you just stay there.
You just decide where you are going, whether you are going, and staying or whatever.
You just hang on and hope that she will sort of help you out.
That is another great way to freak a girl out and so legal although you shouldn't do
it repeatedly because it might become illegal.
It becomes that stalking thing.
3.
The third way to freak out a girl out or to really make her quite uncomfortable is also
when you interact with her or before you interact with her you kind of do this... just 0:03:03.8
inaudible extra, "Oh really you work here.
Wow!"
That kind of thing or just say, "Oh yeah, oh that is interesting, oh yeah."
You put a lot of extra energy into everything and really compensate for the fact that you
know you feel that you maybe not that not interesting and she really is a lot more important
than you.
So make yourself a lot extra interesting that really again is a great way to freak a girl
out.
So I have given you 3 great methods to legally freak a girl out.
Maybe 1 or 2 people that may think, "I don't want to freak a girl out, I rather kind of
make a girl feel comfortable in my presence" so let's quickly to through those options.
We talked about freaking out method number one which was the stare and avoid.
Now here is what you could do if you want to make the girl feel the opposite of freak
out which might be to kind of the pleasantly surprised by your presence.
So if you are looking at her and she looks back at that moment you might actually just
want to flash a quick smile or actually start talking to her right at that stage.
Now that will be a way of making her feel comfortable probably and feel good.
How about turning the second method around, what if you didn't hover?
But you just took the signs of action.
So when you are about to speak to her you are not gonna kind of waiting for her to turn
to you but you just go and do it or when you are saying, "Hey you know what I think I'm
gonna leave so it's been nice talking to you" you say bye and then you just go or in the
conversation you just say what comes to your mind rather than trying to guess what she
wants to hear, Makes sense?
Cool!
How do we turn the other one around?
The last one was over compensating making sure that you are extra interesting because
really deep inside you think a lot.
Well what you could do instead is you could be happy and comfortable whether she is there
or not.
So that would mean you wouldn't do anything extra but when you see her likely would with
her good friend or something you would be friendly, you would be happy to chat to her,
youll be interested, and youll be curious but your well-being would be just as important
as her well-being.
Now I have a bit of mindset for that which I call, "I am cool and you are cool."
That is how I think about it to be honest.
Because secretly, I don't really like to freak girls out, I don't know about you.
So you could use that so in the conversation with a girl you could always make sure that
you feel within your rhythm, within your boundaries, and within the way you act in general when
your happy and comfortable and she is a part of that at that stage but you are not going
to turn around and make an extra effort and jump up and down just in order for her to
see and think that you are interesting.
Some more like an equal level, you know like, "I'm okay and your joining me in my little
world, hey I'm chatting with you."
So that is some tips that will help you, I guess if you want to do the opposite of freaking
girls out.
You probably don't I mean you probably gonna be happy.
It's kind of more fun as well actually to freak girls out rather than just comfortable,
I'm kidding.
In the long term it might have some benefits.
Anyway, well I hope this was useful, was it?
I hope it was.
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