Uncle C, back in the office. And in this video, I'm going to be discussing exactly how you
can actually recover your masculine frame if you're in a marriage, or if you're in a
committed relationship. Okay, now Contrary to popular belief, this is actually extremely
different than if you are single or if you are playing the field. It's a different type
of masculine frame due to the fact that she already knows that you had equal or greater
investment in her. Now let's be real for a second. If you're in a committed relationship
with a woman, or if you are married, there's a very high chance that she already knows
where you stand with her. Okay, if you look at my current relationship, I've been in one
for well over a year now, and this is due to the fact that I actually understand how
to keep the relationship cohesion smooth. Now I've coached numerous men with my htt
method, and I highly encourage you to check out this free training after this video is
over and potentially book a call with me so I can hop on the phone with you to actually
see if you're a good fit. So that way I can show you this exact step by step system to
ensure that you can save your marriage or save your relationship once and for all. And
this is the exact same system that I've used to copy and paste into hundreds and hundreds
of other men's lives to completely secure the exact standpoint of them recovering their
frame, ensuring that their masculinity and relationship cohesion is on point. And not
only that, making sure that their wife say sweet and feminine again. So I highly recommend
you checking that out after this. But this is what we have to understand about marriage
due to the way that society has currently corrupted the male versus female dynamic.
Make no mistake. If this is your goal to save your struggling marriage or relationship as
a man, you definitely have your work cut out for you. Okay, and in order to do this, what
you have to understand is that there are 99 percenters in life. And then there are one
percenters Okay, these 99 percenters over here. These For the people that have came
to terms with the acceptance that the divorce rate is 51 to 52%. These are the people that
just assume that having a nagging or confrontational woman, or a nagging or confrontational wife
is something they should just accept and move on. absolute bullshit. What you have to remember
is that 1% men understand that when there is a will, there's a way and come hell or
high water, if you've entered into that level of commitment of marriage, this needs to actually
mean something to you for once. So what I have to ask you before I teach you this is
do you have a code? Do you have a code that you've lived by to carry yourself within this
marriage? Because when I ask the question to most men, and I say, hey, what does being
married actually mean to you? They typically cannot give me an answer. Right? They oftentimes
say things like, you know, well, this is just my partner I do life with or this is so that
way I don't feel alone, or we've just known each other for so many years. We just happen
to go together. Okay, this is not a good answer, when this is your answer. This is fundamentally
showing at the forefront of who you are as a man is that you do not typically know what
it means to be that masculine leader that she needs. And if you're struggling to demonstrate
this, the first thing that you have to understand is that most married men who fit into this
99% or category where they're struggling day to day, they are liars. Okay, they're liars
about everything that they desire with their woman. And not only that they lie or beat
around the bush about what they want and how they got there. And they lie just because
this is became normal. You see, what I've seen with so many married men with so many
men in committed relationships is that it just starts with little white lies about how
you feel or how your day is. And then pretty soon this stuff snowballs into one giant cluster.
And because this cluster got so big, your woman can sense that you do not know yourself
when it comes to the truth versus the bullshit fantasy that you're hiding behind. And most
men right now are hiding behind the Already websites and they're hiding behind masturbation,
they're not participating in retention and holding their masculine energy. They don't
have anything left on their woman. And not only that, they have no idea how to keep their
woman feminine. So what you have to do, you have to actually feel once taken outside,
look at yourself and say, Hey, if I actually am standing here, and I put myself right here
and I'm looking at this man, is this man attractive? Is this man demonstrating the right type of
vocal tonality, the right type of leadership traits? Does this look like a man that my
woman would want to? And if it is not, what you have to understand is that there is something
critically wrong that you have to address because you have to realize she desires to
have her soul touched. She desires to feel like she has the unity and strength in the
hands of a masculine man. And if you don't figure out how to actually demonstrate that
type of energy towards her, she will find it through somebody else. Make no money. She
will find it through somebody else. The key is that you have to actually be able to do
this before it's too late. If you look at what most men do, that typically puts them
in an emotional or feminine frame to where they lose their masculinity and are stripped
of it. What they typically do is they play the blame game. Okay, they go her fault. She's
a total of what I can't believe how that treats me. I can't believe how that starts fights
with me. But what they don't understand is that they don't actually assume the authority
to put them on them. These men, men were married men who struggle with this, they never look
at it and say, Hey, this is never me. This five foot tall hundred and five pound Gremlin
should not be able to move me each way should not be able to move me in an emotional standpoint.
And when you let it happen like this, you're losing your authority and footing in the relationship
know what these men typically do is they oftentimes think that arguing is masculine and what they're
doing is they're arguing To establish authority, but the fact is that you cannot make sure
a woman has strong emotional commitment to you verbally through force. This has to be
on her own will, which means we have to actually demonstrate certain actions. And we cannot
assume that she will just naturally know how we want to be treated, due to the way that
we have to actually lead by example, and set these expectations. So to do this, if you've
been put in a feminine category, in your mindset in your relationship, if you're a woman, if
your wife no longer respects you, you have to realize there's three things that you have
to do and you have to start to observe number one, who is you today versus who is you who
she originally fell in love with? Because oftentimes, these are two completely different
men. And if you want to be part of the 1%, you have to understand that you need to turn
a blind eye to what most people do. Most people are so quick to leave. They're quick to hop
on Bumble, they're quick to hop on Tinder, they're quick to hop from Woman to Woman thinking
that this is going to fulfill their needs, but it doesn't You know what does understanding
your purpose as a man, building strong families and strong unity within yourself and knowing
how to lead yourself and others and there's a damn good chance if you don't know how to
lead yourself there's no way in hell you can meet a woman. The next is going to be assuming
the authority. Where can you start to step up and make decisions that you wants typically
relied on her for? These can be subtle or these can be large, and the more aggressive
you choose to take on this authority and sacrifice within your life, the more heightened sensitivity
your woman is going to have with you, which is why you have to get out of any sort of
suffocation. The biggest reason why most men are liars is due to the fact that they're
suffocated with day to day life. They can't handle the stresses of bills, they can't handle
the stresses of working the shit job that they hate. They can't handle the stresses
of day to day life. And sleeping only five to six hours a night and getting groceries
and cleaning the house and doing all this if this is you, you need to get out of hell.
And look at the ways you've been suffocated. Look at the world ways you've been repressed,
look at the ways you've been stuffed down. And when you can actually put this plan of
attack to remove the suffocation and make these leaps and bounds forward. This is when
you truly do start to make success within your marriage and within your life. Now if
you haven't struggling with any of these things, like I said, I highly advise you to check
out this relationship AGT training because this is specifically designed to teach men
how to rewire their brain in a masculine format and demonstrate the right type of things that
a woman has strong emotional gravitation towards. If you liked the video, be sure to hit the
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