How to Handle A Taurus Man Every individual has their own quirks and
traits that you must acknowledge, and unfortunately, accommodate.
This is especially true when the person you are dealing with is someone you are in close
relations with, especially if this connection is special and intimate.
To balance all their traits is important, and this is especially the case when dealing
with a man who is born under the Taurus star symbol.
What makes their case especially difficult is how their personalities can be at the opposite
ends of the spectrum depending on how you treat them.
A TAURUS MAN IS...
It should be common knowledge, but a Taurus is normally born between April 19 and May
20.
They are of the earth symbol, ad as someone who falls under this category, they can be
stubborn when they especially when they already have an established routine.
When trying to handle a man that is born as a Taurus, there are two traits that you should
pay particular attention to, and these are: 1.
Set In their Ways They tend to not be open-minded, and, as mentioned
above, once they have an established routine, they tend not to deviate from it.
They are a creature of habit which is why it is very difficult to convince them to jump
on a trend.
They are the manifestation of the saying “It it isn't broke, don’t fix it.”
2.
Possessive For the lack of a better way to describe them;
they tend to lose their temper very easily, especially when they get jealous.
Just as how a bull is stereotyped to charge when they see red, Taurus men are just as
quick to jump into a rage which is why it is never advised to make these people jealous,
especially on purpose.
On the flip side, they can be very sensual lovers which goes into the whole opposite
ends of the spectrum narrative.
It is vital that you are aware of these specific traits before going into a relationship with
someone who is born under the Taurus star symbol.
Unfortunately, if you are already in one, then you just must deal with it and learn
how to handle your Taurus man.
HANDLING THE BULL By now, you should be aware of the traits
that your man, who is born a Taurus, have, and you might already be an expert on how
to deal with them.
On the other hand, if you are still new to this kind of relationship, then you have to
the right place.
Given the traits that were mentioned above, here are some suggestions on how to handle
your Taurus man.
Pour On the Encouragement As mentioned above, men who are born under
the Taurus star symbol are very serious individuals.
They treat every aspect of their life with the same consistency.
This is due to their desire to show progress, not just in your relationship but also with
their life.
It is because of this approach that men born as a Taurus will eventually feel the pressure,
especially if the progress that they are seeing are slow.
As a result, they get frustrated and get easily irritated.
When this happens, it is advised that you continue to encourage him.
Reinforce that progress is progress regardless of its pace.
Hand out compliments with the work he is doing and how hard he is going at it.
This will give him the boost that he needs to keep on pushing.
Unfortunately, this irritation and uncontrolled anger can easily turn into verbal abuse.
Which is why, you need to put a line that he should not cross, and when he does, simply
step away from the relationship especially if a democratic approach is not working as
well as you hoped it would.
Making a relationship work and understanding their predicament just because of where their
birthday falls is never an excuse to be abused in any way.
Always Use a Diplomatic Approach Taurus men can be very stubborn, and it can
be very difficult to convince them otherwise.
On most occasions, avoid going into an argument with them, and showing them that they are
wrong, and you are right because if you continue to do so, you will just get the short end
of the stick and may even be verbally abused when you could have avoided it.
Understandably, you want to convince them of your perspective especially when you are
clearly in the right.
There is a way around this, and it is by exploiting their logical nature because if spoken to
correctly, Taurus men are very sensible to talk to.
Instead of going into a screaming match, lay down the reasons why you think his way is
wrong and if he comes back with counter arguments, listen to them.
Do not shove your reason down their throat.
Take what he throws back at you, acknowledge, and counter keeping in mind that you need
to make sure that your tone is as calm as possible.
By going into a sensible dialogue with triggering anyone’s temper, you will be able to engage
in a sensible conversation which could potentially end in one side seeing the other’s perspective.
Show a Strength of Your Own So far, we have mentioned multiple times that
as a partner of a man who is born under the Taurus star symbol, it is vital that you know
when to walk away when things get heated up or to voice out your reasons, calmly and in
a dignified manner, why you disagree with them.
Showing these kinds of behavior to Taurus men is a turn on for them because showing
your personal strength is a trait that they tend to look for in their partners.
This is the reason why Scorpios are very good intellectual partners for Taurus men because
it is easy for them to have a conversation with well-versed backwards and forwards without
having to fall into a screaming match, as mentioned above.
In addition, you should also be able to stand on your own feet and not just be a follower.
Also, do not show that you rely on them all the time because that does not sit well with
them.
Show Vulnerability (Now and Again) This is where the conflict of dealing with
a man born as a Taurus arises – they see themselves as protectors too.
It could simply mean that they want to take on a responsibility that will help sustain
the relationship.
This could be any of the many aspects vital in a normal family life such as monetary,
social, or any household chores around the house.
Give them any of these responsibilities and they should be happy enough to be in your
life.
In a way, it is their way of ensuring that their masculinity is intact, and they continue
to be a provider despite your independence.
Indulge Them Emotionally (When they Actually Show It)
Because of their stoic nature, men who are born under the Taurus zodiac sign do not show
their emotion as much.
For example, unlike Librans who would constantly want to surprise their woman with romantic
gestures or tell them sappy comments that can easily be heard in romance clicks, those
who are born as a Taurus are the exact opposite – they do not show as much emotion except
for when they are angry.
Taurus men do not tend to be emotional beings because they have a very practical approach
to life.
Do not expect them to come home one day and suddenly have a bouquet of flowers just because.
That is why, when they do show any kind of emotion, just indulge them.
Show that you are thankful.
Show them that you are surprised and that you appreciate the gesture because this tends
to appease their good nature.
Also, it might be good to note that they are very sensual lovers, and what they do not
say, they show.
That is why they can be very sexual and intimate in bed.
When they do, again, indulge their actions.
However, not to a point that you are uncomfortable with it.
Again, Taurus men do like vulnerability, but they also like a show of strength and of independence.
It is easy to see how difficult it is having to deal with a man born under the Taurus star
symbol, especially that you must constantly be able to consistently shift from one approach
to another.
However, one good advice that you could maybe carry with you is the ability to read the
situation.
Know how he is and what he is feeling and act accordingly.
It is just like any relationship, but with a man born as a Taurus, it is particularly
important because you must deal with their erratic personality.
It can be draining at time, and that is why you should show your independence and maybe
ask him for some time alone every now and then.
CONCLUSION Dealing with a Taurus, especially one that
is of the male species is a balancing act which can make it extra difficult.
Dealing with a more stable personality is hard enough.
However, if you acknowledge these different sides of a male Taurus, and act on it as the
depending on the situation, it should not be too difficult.
Remember, men born under the Taurus star sign are individuals who like routine.
Which is why once you get the hang of how to handle their very fine line of quirk and
traits and desires, handling them should be easy enough especially when you are sure that
he is the one you envision yourself spending the rest of your life with.
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