Hey there!
James Michael Sama with Sexyconfidence.com where we help the 21st century woman create
a love life that she absolutely loves.
And this week in this video we're going to talk about the one rare quality that all men
want in a woman.
So stay tuned.
There are a lot of complex conversations that I have with women that I work with and there
seems to be a common theme in a lot of them.
What do men want?
Now I'm not talking about the basics or the tangible things.
Lots of women are pretty.
Lots of women are ambitious.
Lots of women are successful.
But there is one quality that I feel is harder to find in today's society in both men and
women.
Now don't get me wrong.
I've been privileged to meet some incredible human beings of both genders in my travels
and I'm fully aware that great people are out there.
In fact, I find that the vast majority of you fit into that category.
Because you are looking to have meaningful discussions and learn more and to help the
rest of us learn more as well.
I certainly don't want to generalize everything here, but I think we can all agree that there's
a severe lack of one quality in today's society.
Depth.
By depth I mean people who's personality is as attractive as their appearance or even
more so.
I began thinking about all of the time I spent at events where I've met fantastic people.
And then I started thinking of those in our generations who just seem to be caught up
in the glitz and glam and wonder could I really bring her around my family?
Could we spend a weekend away somewhere relaxing with family or friends and just hang out?
And not have to do anything, and just enjoy each other's company and just be?
And more often than not, the answer is eh, probably not.
Depth and class and integrity and whatever you want to call it, men are searching for
women who they can picture as an equal part of their life.
Someone who they can share their passions with and really connect with.
Someone who they can have meaningful conversations with.
Someone they can sit across from at the dinner table at night after a long day and not get
bored.
That's what's missing.
And not just in women, but in men as well.
I've realized that.
The point is without this depth we're gonna continue on the path we're already on.
The hookup culture that judges people based on looks and in a relationship is just a Facebook
update that doesn't really carry any meaning.
And we're not taking the time to bond with each other.
We're not taking the time to develop ourselves emotionally, which is the only way we will
be able to truly relate to another person.
That's what's going to allow a connection to form.
When and only when two people have the depth necessary to cultivate it.
Obviously, physical attraction is important.
A great smile is important.
Someone who takes care of themselves physically is important but it's not important enough
to bring a couple through hard times.
It's not important enough to build a foundation on.
It's not important enough to actually make someone want to commit to you.
We as a society spend too much time emphasizing the importance of improving the body and not
enough time discussing the importance of also improving the mind.
Too much of one or the other and our relationships are going to flounder.
Needless to say, I'm speaking in generalities here.
There are thousands upon thousands of great people in the world who none of this applies
to.
But my point is they're hard to find.
And I think we all know that.
And to the women that possess this amazing quality, stand up.
Because the men of the world are looking for you.
Thank you so much for watching and let me know in the comments below what quality do
you look for that's hard to find these days?
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