Five key signs she wants to be approached. In this episode, I'm going to simplify the signals
that a woman will give you when she first sees you, that she would like you to approach her
and to start a conversation with her. So, let's get into this. The first
key sign that she wants to be approached is with her initial eye contact. Now,
if she gets eye contact with you and she smiles, she looks down, away, and then looks back at you,
she's actually giving you three different signals that she wants to be approached.
Now, the first one, when she looks at you and she smiles, you imagine the opposite. If she wasn't to
smile, that would be an indicator that she indeed does not want you to speak to her or does not find
you attractive. The smile is a great initial way of her demonstrating that she likes you.
Now, the second part, if she looks down... Now, I've done many different YouTube videos
on eye-contact with women. But in a nutshell, if a woman looks up, then it's an indicator
she is not attracted to you. If she looks to the left or to the right is an indicator
that she may or may not be attracted to you. And if she looks down, then in my experience,
there is some level of attraction there towards you. We get the eye contact, we get the smile
and we get the look down. They're the first signs that really indicate that she likes you.
Now, the final one. When she looks away and then looks back at you, that is a cast iron, go ahead
signal. What do you need to do in that situation? Well, when you first catch a woman's attention,
just hold her eye contact and watch what she does. If she looks at you, smiles,
looks down, looks away, and then looks back, that is the exact signal you're looking for.
But from her point of view, if you are still looking at her, when she looks back at you,
you're also giving her signals that you are indeed attracted to her. So, it's important that you
also maintain her eye contact while she looks down, away and back at you. Because that way,
both of you know that there is a mutual level of attraction before you start a conversation.
Now, the second key sign she wants to be approached is when she gets
proximity with you. Now, this means she gets physically close enough to you so that you can
start a conversation with her if you wanted to. Some examples of this: if you're in a gym and
you're on one of the yoga mats and there's 10 yoga mats there, and she sits one or two away from you,
when there's many different ones she could sit at, that's an example of her getting proximity. If you
are in a cafe and she sits at the table next to you, as opposed to one, four or five tables away,
that is her getting proximity. And if you're in a bar or social setting and she sits very
close to you or at the bar stool next to you, again, she is getting proximity with you.
If you think about the opposite of these, if she goes and stands 15 metres away, then obviously
that's a sign she's not attracted to you. Just having awareness that when a woman has a choice
of where to sit or where to stand, and she gets physically close enough to you, that is a key
indicator that she wants to be approached, and for you to start a conversation with her.
The third key sign she wants to be approached is when she is making more noise than normal,
she's laughing more, she's using body movements, she's dancing in an exaggerated
way. She's flicking her hair. What we're looking for here are things that she's doing
in an exaggerated way. And the reason why she's doing this normally is to get your attention. Now,
this can be quite difficult to notice when there's a group of you all together, but if she's with her
friends and all of a sudden she's making bigger body language movements, you can look out for the
other signs that I talked about in this episode, like the eye contact, the smiling, and just become
aware of clusters of signs that she gives you. But certainly, if she's laughing louder,
if she's making more noise or doing exaggerated movements, then it's a sign that she wants to be
noticed by you or potentially a member of your group. But as I say, if you look out
for some of the other signs, you can establish whether it's you or someone else in your group.
Now, the fourth key sign she wants to be approached is when she plays with her hair
and holds prolonged eye contact. This is the one that you will see most of the time. If a girl is
attracted to you, typically she'll feel a little bit of anxiety, and the way in which she will deal
with that anxiety is to play with her hair. And as she wants to make it abundantly clear that she
wants you to talk to her, she will also hold eye contact with you at the same time. Often
she may not even be aware she's doing it. You may look around and you'll see her looking at
you and playing with her hair, and then she might just all of a sudden jump and look away.
If you see that, that is a really big indicator that she would like to be approached by you.
Now, final and fifth key sign that she wants to be approached is when she sits down with
her shoulders or body language facing towards you. This is a really big indicator that she likes you
and wants to be approached. If she also crosses her legs over towards you, or when she's standing,
she stands with one leg crossed over the other, this is also indicative of
someone that wants to be approached. The reason for it is because if you,
as you can imagine, if you want to get away quickly, you'd be faced with your
body language facing away from someone so that you could potentially walk or run away. However,
when you're locked in with your shoulders or your legs crossed is indicative of someone that wants
to be there and wants to stay for a while. That is a really big sign that she wants to be approached.
Let's wrap this up. I'm just going to go through all five very quickly.
Five key signs she wants to be approached. Number one is when she looks at you,
smiles, looks away, and then looks back at you. Number two is when she gets proximity with you, so
she has a choice on where to stand or where to sit and she decides to stand or sit very close to you.
Number three is when she's making exaggerated body movements, laughing, smiling, or dancing
in an exaggerated way to get your attention. Number four is when she plays with her hair
while looking at you with prolonged eye contact. And the fifth and final way is when she sits or
stands with her shoulders facing towards you or one leg crossed over the other as a
sign that she is indeed interested in you. If you've liked this episode, then please
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