Hey what's up it's me Jessica J and I was just wondering if you've ever sat and thought
to yourself how come she only wants me when I don't care about her anymore?
well I'm glad you asked because today we're gonna go over the 6 reasons why women start
chasing you once you stop chasing her and how to get her turning on her toe to come
after you ok so you're probably very well aware of the fact that when you start turning
on her maybe start acting like a jerk maybe stop giving her attention when you're used
to giving her a lot then now all of a sudden she wants even more of your attention and
starts giving you even more attention as well well the very first reason that happens is
because once you give her time and space to miss you she actually will i usually explain
this with the toaster analogy so i have a toaster in my apartment but i never fuckin
notice it why because it's there every day however if i were to wake up tomorrow and
that toaster was just fuckin gone i would be like where's my toaster somebody get me
my fuckin toaster i really miss my toaster a lot of times when we have things readily
available to us it's hard for us to really appreciate them so if you take yourself out
of the mix for a moment especially if she's used to seeing you all the fuckin time what
that'll do is it'll trigger her brain to automatically think of you because now there's this space
left open in her life that forces her to think about what was in that space which was you
so once you give her that literal space where she's forced to think about you she will let
you into her literal space between her legs reason number 2 women tend to remember all
the good they feel about somebody versus all the bad when given that time and space away
from them you probably know plenty of girls that chase after and go for assholes am i
right well the reason being for this is because assholes tend to take time away and separate
themselves on a very casual basis so when given that time and space not only are they
forced to think about this person who has presented her with this absence in her life
she also tends to remember the positive things more this is definitely why I've had no problem
dating guys with no job no education no car and still living with their mothers back in
the day because it's the positive stuff that really affects us the most and once the positive
and the negative is gone it's the positive stuff that stays in our pussy memory number
3 we women are used to guys like bending over backwards being nice to us so when you don't
bend over backwards and act like you don't give a shit about us that makes us go hmmm
really there's no other explanation for that except that while most guys chase tail and
she's used to that ya know guys being lap dogs for her guys being so thirsty for her
like hey girls what's up girl what's up girl or hey you're really pretty i think you're
really beautiful omg I would love to take you out some time when are you free I would
love to take you out sometime when they come across a guy who's like meh us girls are like
wait like everybody wants me why doesn't he really it's just setting yourself apart from
all the other guys out there i like calling this being the wolf among the dogs stop being
a lap dog stop chasing for tail and she'll chasing for you reason number 4 when you don't
care about getting into our pants we start to think that maybe you have plenty of other
pants at your disposal so not caring about what we think or what we want or if we want
you that says to us well maybe he like doesn't care because he has so many other women to
choose from and when we sit and think that you might have other girls that you could
choose from we think to ourselves omg that must mean that he's totally a catch i should
totally find out if i can catch him myself really it just puts you in a higher level
position in our eyes because we perceive you as a man that has very high value that you
can have your pick of other ladies and we would be very lucky if you picked this lady
number 5 being nonreactive gives off an air of stability and confidence so the reason
giving off an air of stability when you are nonreactive towards us or when you don't give
a shit about us is because it tells our primal brains that omg if a bear were to come in
and attack us right now he would be like so calm cool and collected and he would probably
beat the shit out of that bear another reason that nonreactivity is so attractive to us
is because it shows to us that maybe a pair of tits and ass isn't gonna just make you
go running from us the next time another one come around which makes us think that you
would wanna get to know us a lot more which makes us feel special and women wanna feel
fuckin special we all chase that in our lives and number 6 i kinda already mentioned it
but again you not caring about us at least physically or not chasing after us means it's
gonna take a lot for you to chase after any other woman ok going back to what i was saying
about we women wanna feel special basically we wanna know that you picked us for reasons
that are particular to who we are aside from any other woman out there and that if we do
pick you it's gonna take a lot for you to wanna stick your dick elsewhere nowadays that's
one of women's biggest concerns is cheating because in this swipe-tastic world we know
how easy it would be for you to just pick up your phone and find the next best bang
but if you don't care about getting with us right away we know for damn sure it's gonna
take a lot to turn your attention away from us so those are the 6 reasons why us ladies
start chasing after you when you stop caring about us and to find out all the other mistakes
guys are making out there and to make sure you don't fall victim to any of them don't
forget to click on this token right here for the 10 mistakes guys make when talking to
women not only will it help you avoid falling into those traps it'll tell ya exactly how
to rebound from them to get the girl that you want so now that you know these 6 little
secrets as to why we will start chasing you when you stop giving a shit about us use it
to your advantage to stop chasing girls yourself and start getting chased tonight thanks for
watching and i'll see you guys next time