(00:00): Hello, beautiful soul.
Here is a clip from a recent group retreat that I did in the south of Portugal.
Enjoy
(00:22): Vows are really powerful and they are sustaining.
So you can think of a vow like a contract, and they're very long lasting until they're
broken, because they're usually made with so much energy behind them.
So think of it, you know, like a valve that's really common that I'm still working with
with a lot of people is imagine, you know, the scenario of, we were talking about light
workers and healers that came in many lifetimes and many, many lifetimes, and a lot of the
lifetimes were really of a lot of suffering and pain and sacrifice and all that.
So imagine for example, um, an empath or a sensitive cuz the majority of light workers
are.
So imagine an empath is sensitive incarnating at a time where they were misunderstood, where
they were, you know, ostracized or worse where they were killed.
Okay.
So imagine a highly sensitive person or an empath being burned alive.
Okay.
And just think of where maybe the thought process of that person in their human self
could be at the moment that they're dying a really painful death.
A lot of vows can be formed at end of life this way.
So, so imagine, you know, like I'm slowly burning alive and the thought can pop up.
You know, I'm never doing this again.
(01:46): I'm never doing this again.
Or, or the association of coming into my power has severe consequences.
I am not doing this again.
And then there's that vow implanted in that third chakra of fear of coming into power
and there's, but it's not just fear of coming into power because right.
Like I had really bad consequences in the past life.
And so then that starts to come up and I will not come into my power in this lifetime, but
it's not just the continuation of the energy.
It's the continuation of the energy in a locked vow.
That's there that that represents a form of a contract.
So just like Carmit contracts or sole contracts or whatever you have to break the contract,
you have to execute the contract.
This contract contract has been executed.
I no longer carry it forward cuz you remember your free will is really important.
So the moment that if you have a contract with someone, so the, the, the contracts are
two sided, right?
We talked about this yesterday and with car contracts are with sacred partnership contracts
with any contract they're two sided, but the cool part is the dissolution of the contract.
Doesn't have to be two sided.
(02:58): I can dissolve contract.
Okay.
So with vows, that's really important specifically.
Yes.
Vows that we've done in past lives.
Those are sometimes a little bit harder for us to come into a little bit harder for us
to discover cuz we don't remember.
We did that.
And so it could be a little bit harder to dig into.
So a lot of times when I'm working with people who are afraid to come into their power, they're
afraid to express themselves, afraid to express themselves, afraid to put their creativity
out there, afraid, afraid, afraid, afraid.
So it could be that there's a locked vow in that, in that third chakra.
So it's not just a fear of coming into my power, but it's it's because at some point
in this lifetime or a lifetime before I said, I will never do that again.
Oh those words are really powerful.
They could be powerful positively or they could be powerful negatively when you put
that throat chakra behind it.
And remember, I don't need to say the vow out loud.
I'm still using my throat chakra.
If I'm saying it to myself, everybody know that I'm still using my throat chakra.
Even if I'm talking to myself.
(04:07): Okay.
Now do we talked a little bit about the throat chakra?
The throat chakra is obviously the chakra of communication, but not just the throat.
Chakra is the chakra of creativity also.
And then some of you're like, wait a minute.
I thought it was the womb.
Yes it is.
But remember that chakras work in pairs.
A lot of times they work together.
They so, so the throat chakra and the second chakra have a very close relationship.
Okay.
So you can think of, you can think of the second chakra as being the womb, that gest
dates something.
And then as soon as it pops up into the throat chakra, you can think of the throat chakra
as the birth canal that gives birth to this gest dated, whatever baby, uh, business project
things.
We got stuck in the fridge and now wait, do I have any blocks in my throat, shocker that
are preventing me from giving birth to that?
Not just giving birth, but taking it out of my fridge and giving birth out into the world.
(05:13): Okay.
So that throat chakra is really important.
The throat chakra is also the chakra of truth truth.
So it's, um, it's a truth.
That's a little bit different cuz the, the solar plexus is a, is a chakra also of truth,
but it's like my truth.
You know, my truth right is an individual cuz that's the third chakra.
This is, this is my truth as an individual.
And then when I get up to the throat chakra, this is my truth on a soul level, this is
my truth on a soul level.
So, so we call this higher truth and then this one lower truth.
It doesn't mean that one's worse than the other, but you get what I'm saying, right.
It's higher up.
(05:59): So for the vows we already know we have, we
can have past life vows.
So for example, if I, um, I am, I'm in a relationship in a past life and uh, let's say it's a carmic
relationship and the past life a hundred years ago, I have no idea what the hell karma connections
are.
I have no idea what the hell's going on.
My level of consciousness is pretty low.
And so all right, I'm having a karma connection and drama happens and that person leaves me.
And I am completely, let's say I was a woman in that lifetime and I was dependent on a
man.
And then he left me and I was left.
Destitute happened to a lot of women in past lives because they didn't have the economic
potential to hold themselves independently.
So if the partner ever left them, they were really screwed.
Not just screwed in terms financially, but they were screwed even societally because
a woman that's abandoned is less of a prize for another partner.
Right?
So imagine all these cultural things that we've evolved through.
Right.
And so imagine a woman and it could be a man, but just, let's just use the picture of the
woman a hundred years ago.
That's abandoned by a partner and then, okay, now she's ostracized by society.
She has no economic means.
And what do you think may be going through her head about love?
(07:18): I'm never doing this again.
I am never loving anyone again.
Heart Cho.
So heart Chora closes.
And then what's the key, the lock the vow.
So what a vow does, is it just, it, it, the, you shut down the chakra by saying, oh my
God, that really hurt.
Never doing that again.
So in order for that to happen, I have to contract that I have to close off that, that
chakra, but then the valve solidifies that with a little lock and then I put my key in
my pocket and then I die.
And then I come into this lifetime.
I have no idea I have a lock or a key or whatever the hell's going on.
I just know that I keep having dramatic relationships after dramatic relationships.
And then I keep saying to my friends, I'm so unlucky in love.
It's not, there are underlying things that are at play here, but even, but vows can be
made in this lifetime.
(08:15): So a show of hands of anyone in this room
who feels like they may have made a vow already in this lifetime.
Okay.
Give me some examples of what, what would, what was the vow, what that you would never
love again?
Oh that even my whole body contracts at that, can you feel how painful that is?
Yeah.
That's actually, those are actually really powerful stories.
Does anyone know the teacher?
Lisa Nichols?
Yeah.
So Lisa Nichols tells this story a lot.
She's a motivational speaker and she tells this story a lot about how she was so, so,
so broke that she a, a child, her baby, I think he was still in diapers cuz he was,
he was really young.
And she said, um, that the breaking point for her was she was so, so poor that one day
her baby had had, um, you know, pooed in the, in a diaper.
And she went to change the diaper in her baby boy and she didn't have diapers.
So she had to wrap him in some cloth that she had lying around.
And that was when she said her vow.
I will never be this broke again.
And then her, her life took off.
So that's a positive vow, but you can give it a little bit of a negative twist.
Go ahead with vow.