Can you control your jealousy issues?
Sade and I were together for around two years.
And it was great in the beginning.
There was never a dull moment with Sade.
Myself and Faye started bickering quite a bit.
Her wanting kids and me not really wanting kids right now.
We found ourselves becoming more and more angry.
And we just both blew up at one another
and realised that maybe we shouldn't be together.
Before this meal today, I've had a little bit of a makeover.
Sade always said I'd never be brave enough to cut my hair,
make it the colour that I wanted to, so I hope she'll be surprised.
Wow.
Hello.
Wow, you look fantastic.
Right, let's see.
Can you control your jealousy issues?
I saw her jealous side and I realised how jealous she was.
It did become an issue for me. And it just kind of made me feel like...
That you were doing something wrong.
I understand that.
Sometimes you'd get jealous if, like,
a guy looked in my direction, or if...
I can't control that, that's not my fault.
I just feel like it's a natural human emotion.
Yes, it's ugly and unhealthy.
It was tough, it was really tough.
Trying to voice that jealousy emotion,
there's no nice way to be jealous.
You've lost your temper a little bit because of it.
You know that my temper goes from one to ten, 0.1 seconds.
Sade has a very short temper,
which makes it very difficult to communicate and get my point across.
That row, when we broke up, I had to walk away from
because there was just no getting through to you.
I just can't speak to you when you are like that.
You can be quite mean.
I feel like I need to apologise to you about so much.
How I react to things sometimes.
I know I'm a very difficult person to be with.
You're not a difficult person to be with,
you're a difficult person to argue with.
THEY LAUGH
I've been working on it. Oh, wow.
Wow, OK.
Children became a conflict for us because Faye wanted children.
Whereas she is not so keen on the idea,
and we've never really come to any sort of resolution on that.
Would you...
choose me over having kids?
Wow. Um...
Without a doubt.
Without a doubt, because...
Really?!
I would choose you over having kids.
The reason I want kids is to have a family with you.
The want for a child is there, and it's strong.
Because I want it with you.
I want a family with you, and...
..if our family is just you and I...
..then, yeah...
So the answer's yes.
I didn't expect that answer, to be honest with you.
That's, er, quite powerful.
Maybe I just always wanted you to...
not write it off completely.
It's not NOT an option.
It's just...
You have to sacrifice so much to have a child and I'm not...
in the right mind space and place to do that.
See, I didn't know that, I thought it was just...
no.
And that's it.
Oh...
I suppose I never really... Again, communication.
I didn't really communicate this properly with you.
"Are we too different for this to work again?"
I've spent a lot of time in the last two months just thinking about us
and where it went wrong and we're not cut from the same cloth.
We do have very different upbringings and backgrounds
and we've had different relationships.
But...
I personally would like to think that that's not a bad thing.
But I think we need to find a way...
..to embrace our differences.
Yeah.
I'm not going to lie,
I've been absolutely miserable without you.
It's absolutely sucked.
And I miss you every day.
Every day.
So, in my ideal world...
..we would leave here,
we'd go get a drink and carry on talking.
And, hopefully, I'll be making out with you by the end of the night.
I don't want to be without you either.
There's a lot to say of...
So, I'm... Yeah.
So...
You'll have me back!
Oh!
Girl, you'll make me cry.
Yeah.
I think the meal went very well.
Better than I expected, actually.
Hugging her and just being able to kiss her again
was probably the best feeling I've felt
in a very, very, very long time.
I think we needed this break-up
and I feel like we're both feeling very positive
and very hopeful about the future.