Codependency Struggles - Survey Results and Stats
idea was this a romantic in the breakthrough life coach and i felt
absolutely compelled to make this video today because many of the survey results
are in just a couple of days ago I was all over Facebook and Google+ and
Twitter and asking those of you who follow my work to please take part in my
survey and getting a boost from goose bumps right now because I'm feeling so a
little I'm gonna keep it together I'm gonna do my shop to get my crystals and
maybe take another epson salt bath believe an honorary had one today and
community center myself and because this is very serious so 94% of you that my
survey showed go with feeling invisible hand on her so I guess eighty-two
percent of those of you who filled out the survey secretly struggle with
worrying about whether or not you are worthy of love abundance peace and
happiness and 85% of you
85% these are valid scientific statistics based on this or that I sent
out this is real deal with 85% us feel that we worry more about what other
people think and feel I need then we worry about ourselves
holy correct so as far as i'm concern the israelis mystics absolutely prove
that our main issues are co-dependent and they are the result of childhood
program let me explain why I sent out that survey I said don't that survey
because I'm trying to develop an online coaching program that you can plug into
that you can use in your home that you can turns you when you're in trouble
when you're in Christ
you know when your ex narcissistic just picked up the kids and he's left you
rattled and shaken at the front door you know your your your narcissistic wife
just told you it's your fault that she's screwing your brother you know and your
life is turned upside down or you know for any reason your your your family of
origin you're sick just had surgery and no one from the family of origin has
come come to see you acknowledge you are you have a narcissistic sister who is
completely taking over the home in your parents are ignoring that you're being
sacrifice we need something to go back to you know to hold onto that we can say
ok you know what phase in my in my coaching programs and be broken up into
three three phases phase one face-to-face 30 there's gonna be the
awakening process then there's the accountability fees and then there's the
ascension process and so I just so so deeply want to create something that
those of us who are struggling shows 94% of us feel unworthy and invisible that's
disgusting we are adults
the people who took the survey of between fifty and forty 40 50 somewhere
in the thirties and their future in their sixties and seventies but the
photos of those of us with between off forties and fifties we built this planet
the century and we feel invisible no thank you so much to those of you who
have taken part in the survey and I encourage any of you click on this video
to please take part in the survey I will go into work will include a link in the
description you are your feelings and your opinions matter because I'm going
to take this these these scientific statistics and I'm going to push them in
as many different directions I can until we can create a tremendous change in my
opinion
and that's where you are that's where you come in these statistics might just
be a part of that hopefully that new wave that that new possibility I mean
we're on the horizon of something big deal with so many people have written
made it told me that you know chris is published redo this one I got a letter
today and says I do believe in fate as I stumbled upon your YouTube videos within
four days I've seen my whole life change minute-by-minute UK so she goes on to
say that I started with Cheryl Richardson from her house radio and
moved on to emerge emerging from broken I'm not mentioning your name DUI because
I haven't gotten permission but i just want to say thank you so much to who you
are for writing this letter so she was just incredible well all these outlets
provided to start my healing none could really point me in the direction I need
it still something was missing
it's as if someone gave me a hammer drill and now and asked me to ask me to
build a min table but no one showed me how to use the tools to us these tools
are worthless to me so I mean I wrote her back because I'm just you know thank
you so much so excited for her because her life is really really changing with
this is the way you were talking think is the reason you think the way you do
is it an adult on the way to the way you process information so everybody wants
to talk about the way we feel with the way we feel as a result about as a
result of the way we think and the result of the week is the result of the
way we would talk to their childhood holy crap I don't know really so anyway
I made it through and you can too
you can heal so that's why I want to say thank you so I wanted to share the
results of the survey so far and I will continue to give you updates ok so
please consider taking part in the survey and if you're lucky you know if
you if you choose to really is I think it'd be very I B
and it is lucky if you take part in the first wave of his coaching program your
life is going to change and it's going to be offered you know very very shortly
and we're gonna take more results of more service so I'm really excited about
this whole process now today what I want to do is to help keep you motivated I
want to show you this is an old picture this is me when I was little one right
myself you know I'm smiling but I could remember feeling invisible and being
afraid to upset my parents my father still to this day
talks about how we were soldiers were children that means that we repress
their feelings we do not own emotions if we lived in fear what year old can
control their behavior not many unless they're terrified 13 year old has
emotional control not many unless they're terrified so this is a picture
of me when I was little girl two and a half years old and I feeling very
visible my entire life so forth with eating disorders at 12 years old my head
blah blah blah blah you know the story so what I'm gonna go do tonight and I
want you to do it too is I want you to go get a picture of yourself when you
were little like this if you can find one if you don't have any some of you
don't and I'm very very sorry for that that's extremely unfortunate but what I
wanted to do that I want you to find a picture of a little girl or a little boy
that reminds you of yourself when you were little and then I want you to go
put it in a pretty okay and I want you to look at this picture every day and
remember that you are innocent and remember that you were born divine and
remember that there's nothing wrong with you but your programming nothing ok it's
time that we reclaim our lives and once I know especially whenever I feel
connected to you I know your soul secret struggles and I know that all of us are
struggling with so many
of the same struggles and so I just want you to know that I honor you I
appreciate you and look forward to creating a coaching program that you can
come back to over and over and over again that will ultimately teach you how
to be free and to feel seen it you know that you are worthy of love and to learn
how to honor what you think and what you feel more than you worry about what
other people think and what other people feel it is my hope to have you awaken
and have a Kundalini type experience through co-defendants recovery because
I've had the Kundalini experience and it was understanding codependency and
learning the skills that I teach you that allowed me to ascend and to
understand unity consciousness and to understand spiritual awakening and to
understand love and all about making a big shift in our in our world and you
can be a part of that so dear ones no mistake about love I see you when I see
No need to struggle with codependency
you and I love and a lot of things you know I must day