but mr. show started out with something very very important let me give that to
you he said it's not what happens the determines the major part of your future
it's not what happens what happens happens to us all said the key is what
you do about it's not what happens it's what you do about it and he said if you
will start that process of change do something different the next 90 days
than you did the last 90 days like picking up the books to read do
something different like the new health disciplines relationship with your
family whatever it is doesn't matter how small it is if you'll start doing
different things with the same circumstances since we cannot change the
circumstances but we can change ourselves we can change what we do and
then he gave me another secret to success when he said what you have at
the moment mr. own you've attracted by the person you've become what you have
at the moment you've attracted by the person you'd become few little simple
principles here once you understand these it starts to explain so much now
sometimes it's a little tough to take blaming yourself instead of the
marketplace taking responsibility instead of putting it off on someone
else those that transition sometimes is a challenging mission it's in work you
want the secret it's called work
it's called work and by the way do not get confused here you have to work to
match the ambition coming out of your mouth this is not who I am I am more
than this and I don't want to get to the end of my days and said I kept some in I
don't want to get to that my days and said I will stand at the line waiting
for the right time so sometimes your greatest leap comes from being fed up
with something your greatest leap comes of being done with something your
greatest leap comes in a combination I'm complete and I'm ready I'm complete with
that and I'm ready for that and this one was a little tough for me he said mr.
Owen you've got pennies in your pocket you've got nothing in the bank the
creditors are calling you're behind on your promises he says here's how that
occurs you've attracted up until now you've attracted the things to you
because of the person you've become now I said well how can I change all
that he said very simple if you will change everything will change for you
you don't have to change what's outside all you've got to change is what's
inside to have more you simply have to become more and then he said don't wish
it was easier wish you were better don't wish for less problems wish for more
skills start working on yourself making these personal changes and he said it'll
all change for you this is not about working 15 hours there
you got family you got other interest you do you but don't be a fucking
hypocrite don't be foolish don't tell me you're buying us getting
private jet when you're watching four hours of YouTube videos a day because
it's work you have to figure out what you're trying to achieve and what you
want and then you need to put in the work that maps to that ambition and I
know somebody sitting here be like yeah Gary you talk about hard work but I work
smart I work smart too and hard now what dick this is not a debate the most
controllable thing listen we're all were all built differently right we've all
got different skills different charisma levels different Beauty different smarts
we've all got difference but the most controllable thing in this room the most
controllable thing is putting in the work commit yourself to 15 years commit
yourself to 20 years don't try to look at as a one-year thing a two-year thing
a 3-year thing that's what most people stuck
you see friends what makes you comfortable
can ruin you or makes you uncomfortable is the only way to grow let me say that
again what makes you comfortable can ruin you and only in a state of
discomfort can you continually grow and I know seeking discomfort sounds odd not
many people do it you have to learn to embrace it because it's the only
environment we're sustained or exponential growth
can occur