How good is Hank Moody
With women well do a search online for male TV characters who have the best game with women
And you will find Hank Moody on every list the ladies really are the most amazing creatures
My last work
but then there's the morning after
So what's his secret well?
Let's distill his magic into an actionable formula that you will be able to model for yourself
Immediately after watching this entire video now the first thing even in amateur is gonna notice about Hank Moody is how?
Carefree and nonchalant that he is women find carefreeness in a man
Irresistible to be around because it never fully validates her so unlike every other guy
she has to keep working and working for his attention has anyone ever made a comment about you that may be stung well when your
carefree
comments just
Slide off watch this instance where someone leaves a note for Hank, and I want you to notice how he doesn't take it personally
Notice the idea of taking it personally doesn't even cross his mind in fact he is so detached
He's able to explore the idea of wash me by looking at his car and without ego
You can see he's like shit my car is dirty now taking nothing personally is a staple of the carefree man
Now carefreeness isn't just a mentality right we can see it in your body as well look at these two photos
Can't you just tell without even meeting them, which of these two is more carefree?
and we can see Hanks arms hang loosely his movements are slow and
Relaxed he embodies carefreeness as well
I mean who else do you know goes to the Porsche dealership by themselves and then smells the leather so?
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Continuing on in this scene you're gonna see the saleswoman now approach Hankey
Immediately playfully he pushes her away, which is a time-tested attraction trick, but what's key here is his?
Congruence see his body language matches his mouth
I'm browsing if I have any questions all I ask you now shoo
You little parasite you now had II said leave me alone, but then just stood there waiting for her well
We would have known that he really did want her to give him attention, but he moves away from her okay?
This is congruence in action most guys learning game discovered disqualification or takeaway
So they say lines like I'm trouble alright stay away
But their body language still singing strong interests and while the lips may live the body
Rarely does now we can see that Hank means it and since humans are
Attracted to what they can't have this only makes her chase even more now as she keeps coming he uses a great little flirting technique
called
Narrating as he says. Oh. She's still coming now. This is where you step out of the conversation and narrate
What's happening as if you were calling it play-by-play. It's very subtle see if you can catch it hostile
I'm browsing if I have any questions. I ask you now shoo. You little parasite you
Okay, she's still coming now. We're gonna
Talk more about Hanks use of narration in just a second later when the saleswoman is putting the moves on him notice how?
Carefree he remains. She literally begins to give him the beginnings of a legit ot ph.d
Over-the-pants hand job and listen closely he gives her
Nothing, he doesn't react super
Enthusiastically or like this is out of the normal at all right women love this in a man. It's a challenge
It says you're comfortable with your sexuality and it's completely carefree so she still remains invalidated, which makes her chase even more
Let's see it in action
Well let's talk about the extras now as I mentioned earlier Hank uses narration to flirt a lot imagine you're talking to a girl you
Like and you say something funny
she starts giggling you could then narrate it by playfully saying and
He nails it hook line and sinker you got a wonder
How did he get so good?
Right in this next clip Hank spills his drink on the attractive stranger next to him after a quick apology
He uses the same technique narration to lighten the mood and then reel her in
I'm seated next to John Candy no loose Gordon if I'm lucky
But I end up next to the most beautiful woman in the tri-state area, and I go and spill a drink in her lap
nice work
The tri-state area but
There's so much good, man
It's a woman communication that we can model from Hank Moody another important attribute of Hanks is his total lack of
Neediness here his boss's wife kisses him and then asks him not to tell anybody
We need never speak of it again
But one does not very easily forget the kiss of a beautiful moment
That's right. I said it a minute. I'm here to represent it I
Got a rung cos that cheese is working on me
Now how do most guys react after they finally kiss a girl that they liked with fireworks a violin orchestra plus?
You know a dozen red roses and then
Visions of all the things he and her are gonna be doing together in the next six months laughs listen mrs.
incredibly needy behavior
And it drives women away in Hanks mind a kiss is just a kiss it's meaningful
But it's not that meaningful, and did you catch what Hank said there at the end? I'm here to represent it. I?
Gotta run, because the cheese is working on
See most guys take themselves way too seriously
Hank has no problem letting her know that he crushed the Ganga cheese earlier, and now the porcelain goddess calls his name
Now you might think that's immature or unattractive
But remember women pay much more attention to how you say things than what you actually say Hank says it in a cool
Carefree way therefore. It's no big deal and of course
He leaves first leaving the boss's wife dripping with desire for more which reminds me
Have you made it a habit yet to leave on high notes - I got around because the cheese is working on me
For this next clip let me ask you a question
Have you ever played fetch with a dog there's an I've two dogs that I fuckin love and when we play fetch
It's very simple
I throw a stick or a tennis ball
and
Then they go fetch and get it now in this next clip Hank is at rehab and he wants to talk to that pretty girl
There have you ever noticed that sometimes girls will give you that like yeah?
What do you want?
Kind of look when you approach them as well
Well this might be the most important game principle that I could ever teach you when girls react this way understand
They are seeing if you'll play fetch. They're saying here your little boy
Succumb like the rest of them play fetch alright. It is an unconscious status play
it's her brains way of trying to figure out if you are high status or
Not if you play her game of fetch and you qualify
Yourself her status is higher than yours and naturally any interest
She may have had begins to disappear
But when you don't the tables turn now understanding this dynamic now watch this clip of Hank as he approaches the pretty girl
Hey
Yeah, just sayin hey
Hey
So when she says yeah, okay, this is her throwing this thicket Hank and saying doggy doggy want to play fetch
But Hank doesn't try to impress her or win her over. He's not having it
All right when he says just saying hey what he's really saying is yeah. I'm not gonna play your game
I don't need to impress anyone
And with neither of them qualifying to the other they just stand there waiting to see who's gonna make the next move
We done know I wanted to apologize for being such a turd in the punchbowl this morning
At least I think it was me and it could have been you women's issues hormonal fluctuations and whatnot
So I was this an apology. Yeah, okay, it was me yeah Hank
Okay nice to meet your face. What are you in for?
Now here Hank makes a small apology right then he infuses it with some teasing then when he admits, okay?
It was me right
he gives in just a little bit so we can then immediately get a little bit from her by getting her to exchange names and
Then leading it further asking her so what are you in for a question that would require even more?
Investment on her part. What are you in for?
Well
So personal don't you think okay? Well then I will back up and make with the polite conversation
What do you do in the real world
My relationship to the real world
I hear that so she doesn't give in and start divulging her story
But it doesn't matter and this is part of Hanks genius because even though she doesn't answer it first
He lightly challenges her and then he retreats down to a lower investment question using the same rejection
then retreat method that we saw James Bond use in last week's breakdown and this time she does given begin to open up and
Play his game of fetch, so let's recap
carefreeness
congruence
Narration frame control and playing our own game of fetch not others doesn't life
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