How to spot a player. What are the top signs that a guy is a player? Today, I'm cleaning
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How to spot a player. I spent many years around some of the worst, and today, I want to give
you the exact signs you need to look for to know to spot a player. Number one, he doesn't
see you if sex isn't possible. Players are all about the sex and manipulating you into
having sex. So if he sees a situation where logistically, he knows he can't have sex with
you, he's likely to flake on it. Number two, he guards his phone like a dog guards a bone.
So a player's hub is his phone. It's where he organizes all his women and where he keeps
contact and things going so that he can keep them all on the rail. If he's overly protective
of his phone, it's a strong sign a guy is a player. Now, I should also add in, there
are times where a guy might be multi dating and it might be the first or second date and
you might not love the fact that he is seeing other women and that messages pop up on the
phone, but especially if this is continuing longer term, if he's very guarded over his
phone, always putting it face down, it is a strong signthat guy is a player.
Number three, you've never been out of the house with him. So this applies, especially
during the day. A player doesn't want to risk being seen around public, being seen with
you when there's going to be so many other people that know him around his hometown and
know what he's about. He's going to cancel dates to invite you to his house instead.
Or maybe he just always wants to hang out at yours. It's very unlikely. If a guy's a
player, he's going to take you out during the day. Number four, you're really, really
turned on by him. So of course it's great to be turned on by the guys that you're dating.
And if you're not seeing any of the other signs in this list, then this one doesn't
matter when we're really turned on by someone, it can rather cloud our judgment relating
to that person.
So if you're seeing other signs in the list here as well, and you're really, really sexually
turned on by this guy, it's a strong sign that guy's a player. Number five, he makes
plans he doesn't follow through on. So unlike a guy that's straight out using you, a player
might actually make some future plans. They won't be longterm extended future plans, but
he's likely to tell you what you want to hear and you guys are going to see each other in
the next week or two. The problem is he never follows through. He's smooth and charming
as to his reasons why, but there's always some reason that those plans he made don't
end up happening. If a guy's making plans consistently and not following through on
them in the future with you, really strong sign that guy's a player. Number six, he's
jealous of you with other men, but avoids giving you full investment himself.
Does he play up and act funny or even jealous when you talk about all the men that you might've
just been around as friends, but when it comes to him talking about other women, he's notably
quiet. If so, solid sign that guy's a player. Number seven, he gets caught off guard when
he runs into you unexpectedly. So players like to manipulate, they like to manage. They
like to have all their chess pieces in the right place. So if he runs into you in public
when he wasn't expecting to, that wasn't exactly part of his game plan. It shows he's not really
thrilled to see you. And so if he's acting weird when he runs into you unexpectedly,
it's a really strong sign that guy's a player.
Number eight, he gets frustrated or despondent when you challenge or reject him. So players
to some extent are used to being challenged. They're used to playing the game, but they're
also used to winning. As long as he perceives like he's winning, he's going to be smooth
as silk. But if a player starts to perceive that he's not winning, that he's not going
to get the sex that he wants and that he's lost, he's going to get really frustrated.
And I've seen players get very despondent over this. He's going to call you a waste
of time, at the very least to himself and and his friends and probably to you as well,
and he's going to bugger off. Players don't like it when they're not winning the game.
Number nine, sex is one directional is the sex all about him getting off without him
meeting your needs? If so, a real sign, that guy's a player.
Number 10, he's smooth as fuck when he's with you, but distant when he's not. So players
will make you feel like $1 million when you're with them. They turn you on, they make you
want to jump them. They say all the right things, but when he's not with you, it's a
different story. He doesn't get back to you properly. He cancels or changes plans or he's
just inconsistent and it takes your intuition that something isn't right. If he's the super
smooth man when he's with you, but none of that is consistently held up when he's not,
really strong sign that guy's a player. Well, that's it. Thank you for watching. Those are
the top 10 signs, the top 10 ways that can help you spot a player. From all my years
of experience, those are the 10 most common things you will see if you come across a player.
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