Go ahead with Kyra because I'm going to move on to AJ.
Come on chocolate drip, all this melanin.
- Oh. - Yeah.
Come on.
Alexis and I had a date before.
She was coming on real strong and aggressive
but it has to be more than just about physical attraction
at some point.
So today I'm really interested to see
could this be something more.
Oh no a twirly.
Oh, look at you now.
AJ.
This draw to AJ.
I'm going to be quite honest with you,
I literally have like tingles and butterflies around him.
But the very men that I have the tingles
and butterflies around usually aren't the ones
I probably should go for.
See I'm skating way better than you.
I wonder why that is?
No [INAUDIBLE].
OK.
I guess I feel a little lighter and a little freer.
I don't know.
I'm trying to determine if he's really interested in me
or is he playing with me.
And I've got to bend down with you [INAUDIBLE]..
I like them tall.
You ain't got to come down to my level
because I'm always come up to yours.
Bam. I got you.
Right, bam. OK.
I forgot I got to be--
you bring the wit out.
I mean, yeah you know, we witty together.
We going to stay witty.
Oh, oh you got it?
You got it?
Before I pull you down.
Me and Jason did get some one on one time at the skating rink.
I still thank you for allowing me to feel comfortable
talking with you about it. - OK.
Sometimes how you've dealt with depression.
Yeah.
It's not a red flag but I would be a fool for somebody
to tell me that they deal with depression
and for me to just completely ignore it.
So like what do you need from someone when
you're in that space to help you get through it, get out of it?
Like what do you need from a partner during that time?
When I am in that mode I withdraw.
I'm good at communicating so I'll
let you know, hey look I'm feeling this way,
I'm a need a moment.
OK.
You know, once I'm done working out whatever I need
to work out, that's when I come up to you
like, hey babe I'm sorry.
Because I'm going to want to do something to help.
Yeah.
So it's going to be frustrating for me if I cannot
help but I understand that I have-- that I have to help you
in the way that works for you. - Yeah.
Kyra, we actually had a good conversation,
you know she was open and I was open back with her
and was able to come to you know and understanding.
The only request that I will ask
is to like let me know how much time.
All right because some people can be mean, too.
Your not mean are you?
No, no, no.
You don't become a different person?
If you do just let me know so I know what I'm walking into.
You know I might turn into the Incredible Hulk a little bit--
nah, nah. I'm just joking.
I got great feedback.
Understanding that it's nothing for me to be alarmed of,
it's nothing that I feel like would hinder us moving
forward in a relationship.
He was completely on board with talking about it
so I really, really, really appreciate that about him.
So what is it that you do want and then what
is it that I have that fits you in terms of what
you want in a relationship?
I lucked out in the past so where
I haven't had a whole lot of dating
history with married women. - Yeah.
You know I might have looked at that as a negative thing.
I've gotten past that.
And you approach that differently than women
that haven't been in a relationship--
Yeah, in that situation.
--and supported a man in that way.
And that's the thing that I realized,
all the things that I was looking at that may be negative
is really a positive.
Yeah, and by being married what
it taught me is that it's important that I
have a respect for a man.
Sure.
That's what the man wants.
So I try to be careful with my words, I try to be thoughtful.
Alexis, she makes a really strong
effort to give a level of respect to a man
that I really admire.
She's really nurturing.
She really kind of surprised me.
Hey, hey, hey.
How
Y'all didn't bring us one?
Nah man.
Jason we talk I think we came to a conclusion.
Yes we have.
Just to be very transparent I did
share that I clicked with this beautiful queen right here.
Oh.
Oh hush.
That's why I'm rocking with you.
That's why I am going for you because Jason has done that
from the very beginning and has consistently
stayed on top of that.
How do you feel about that Kyra?
I'm OK, hey.
On the other hand I'm like so AJ,
to me you made it seem like you know you want to pursue me
but then you let this other guy come and show
you up and take the trophy.
So I didn't like it on AJ's part,
I loved it on Jason's part.
AJ you not making this any easier
with your look bro, that temple look.
While I wanted to go ahead and try to one up him
in that conversation that he was having,
I'm really on a date with two women that I really like.
This is really, really tough.
I didn't want to make one feel like they
were higher up than the other.
Cuz, I'm just saying.
I think that's the one thing everybody agree on that we all
want the best for everybody.
But that's not the easiest process perhaps,
I am sitting right [BLEEP] between two guys that I--
That were on our top, both of you guys.
Right, right. So--
You think that I'm not in the same boat?