[MUSIC PLAYING] - I'm meeting with Marcus.
And I'm like nervous.
I have a little anxiety.
Like, I'm anxious.
I'm excited because this is like our fourth date.
Actually, I think it's a switcheroo.
It's a switcheroo?
And I a decision has to be made.
And I just don't know.
Like, I really don't.
You know, you look amazing.
CATHERINE: Thank you.
And I just was just so excited that you gave us
an opportunity to kind of see what else
we can do with each other, so--
CATHERINE: Well, we've got some stuff to figure out, you know?
So-- - OK.
Where do you see yourself in the next two years?
I have some business acquisitions,
you know, that I want to grow.
Hopefully married and just enjoying
every day with my loved one, my spouse at the time.
I definitely feel like that I'm a way better choice
for Catherine than her man.
And no offense to Ricky, but he still has things that he needs
to work on himself personally.
And, honestly, he has an outside family
and a baby to take care of.
And he's barely taking care of himself.
So he damn sure can't take care of a woman.
Are you experiencing intimacy?
Are you experiencing romance?
No, like I'm not experiencing anything that makes
me feel like a girlfriend.
Right, so you feel like, hey, why buy the cow
when you get the milk for free?
We're definitely in that space.
Because he says it all the time.
Like, well, I feel like we're already married.
And I'll be like, we're not supposed to feel
like we already married, like--
Yeah, yeah.
That's definitely why I wanted to kind
of come on a fourth date.
Because I do see so much that we could do.
Right on.
But I have to also make sure that I'm
making the right decision based off of what I need,
not what I want.
Right, and I totally understand that.
You've got to realize that God makes no mistakes, you know?
So you came out here on a whim.
It may have been for the reason to lead you to me
and have our paths crossed.
And, you know, I'm looking for a you.
You're a beautiful woman. - Thank you.
I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off you.
I damn sure can't keep my hands off you right now.
I was like, damn, Marcus is laying it
on thick, thick, thick, thick.
I'm pushing you a little bit, but--
Oh, no, keep on.
Because I want to make sure that I'm making the right decision.
Right, right.
And there is a high chance that you are a great alignment
and we have a chemistry and we have these things.
- Did you just touch my knee? - I accidentally did.
That wasn't an accident.
Is that your knee? Is that your thigh?
[LAUGHTER]
He's just kind of like just reminding
me of what I said I wanted versus where
I'm at in my relationship.
And so like, this is not the closure date I had in mind.
I think the love is gone.
The flame is out.
It's a different love, I will say.
Because we've had 10 years to get to this type of love, so.
You got 10 more years?
I don't.
Thank you.
I believe that the next chapter of their lives
may not be conducive to a relationship.
Because Catherine has already had enough experience
with Ricky's bull crap.
So, for me, I don't think there's anything left.
And I'm ready to step up and take her to another level.
I believe that you're at a space
to where you know what decision you need to make for us.
So, you know, I think that, like, you're an amazing woman.
Thank you.
I think that you're a great guy.
Amazing woman, great guy, that sounds like a couple to me.
Me and Marcus have so many things in common,
like it's not even funny.
And then our lives just naturally align somehow.
I don't know that Ricky will step up.
Because Ricky's life is extremely comfortable.
And so that is a fear of mine like that if Ricky
doesn't step up, what does that mean for our relationship?
I definitely want you to be happy in any circumstance,
you know, preferably in a circumstance with me.
I'm keeping it 100.
Like, I'm really torn.
Because Marcus is a great guy.
And Ricky is a great guy.
Look, I want you.
So--
Look, I got to process all of this.
Because this is a lot.
[MUSIC PLAYING] Falling around me--
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