It's a rainy day for rainy topic of the friend zone.
Are you stuck in it?
Today, I'm going to give you a 10 question quiz to show whether or not you're in the
friend zone with the guy that you like.
Before we begin, fun fact that's probably important, men get friend-zoned more
often than they think they do and women get friend-zoned less often than they think they do.
So there is some potential good news on the horizon for you.
However, your situation could be different. So let's get into the quiz.
Question one.
Does he ask you for advice on other women he's dating?
So this is never a good sign.
If he's asking you for advice on other women he's dating.
If he wants you to be his dating coach, he's either an idiot trying to impress you or you
are solid friend-zoned. If so, give yourself one point.
Number two, does he treat you like one of the boys?
Slaps on the back, swearing, farting jokes, beer.
If you could basically swap seats with his mate and get the exact same treatment,
there is a very strong chance your friend-zoned. Give yourself one point.
Number three, ah invites group only.
Does he never invite you out one-on-one, but every time there's a group get together, he
wants you to come join the crew?
If so, much more likely you're friend zoned. Give yourself one point.
Number four, does he tell stories about women he's been with without seeking a reaction?
So there are some misguided men who talk about other women in an attempt to impress you,
but when they do it, they kind of seek a reaction. They kind of do it a bit to impress you.
You can kind of feel there's a different vibe there where they're doing it, wanting to see how you react.
Whereas when a guy who's friend-zoned you tells you stories about other women, he's
genuinely doing it for his own entertainment value. He just wants to have a laugh with you.
He's just telling a story and he doesn't actually care about your reaction.
If he's telling you stories about all the women just to make himself and you laugh,
you're probably friend-zoned. Give yourself one point.
Does he only contact you when he wants help with something?
If he's only wanting to see you to ask for a favor whether cleaning something, driving
him somewhere, wanting your assistance to move something, whatever it is, if he gets
in contact with you mainly when he wants a favor, the weather's telling you what I'm
telling you. You're probably friend-zoned. Give yourself one point.
Number six, does he make no effort to impress you?
So you're around at his house, but he doesn't shower. He makes no effort to clean up.
He leaves you to entertain yourself while he goes and makes a call or does something of his own.
If you're just sitting around at his house without any actual, actual effort to impress
you, there's a pretty high chance you are friend zoned. Give yourself one point.
Number seven, does he leave space when you guys hug?
So watch the way that you hug.
Say your cousin compared to a partner or someone you're into.
This is not a good sign, if a guy is hugging you and leaving that space at the hips, then
there's a very high likelihood that you're friend zoned, if he's hugging you and he's
putting your hips against his, less likely. If there's a hip space there, give yourself one point.
Question eight, are your hangouts spontaneous and irregular?
So you have a great day together maybe as part of a group, but then you don't hear from
him for a couple of weeks and then on the spur of the moment he wants you to come for
a weekend at somewhere else with a few friends and then you don't hear from him again for
a week, and then he has this brilliant idea for a movie night with some friends.
If your hangouts are spontaneous and as I said before, generally in a group environment,
much more likely that you're friend-zoned.
A guy who likes you is going to have that more consistent contact and want to keep up
the emotional momentum. Spontaneous invites not very often? Give yourself one point.
Number nine, does he not text you outside of wanting to hang?
So guys are a little bit different in that they often won't contact their friends for
a few days until it's time to hang again.
They'll jump from contact points to contact point when they actually want to do things.
Unlike women who tend to keep that more regular contact with their friends, guys will leave gaps.
If he's leaving those big gaps and then wanting to hang and then leaving another big gap,
basically treating you like he'd treat a mate, pretty clear sign you're in the friend zone.
Give yourself one point.
Number 10, is there zero sexual tension? So there's lots of laughing, joking around.
There's fun times had, but there's never that lingering eye contact.
There's never that extra bit of touch. There's never that cheeky smile.
It's literally just a mate vibe with no tension at all.
If so, strong chance you're friend-zoned. Give yourself one point.
Well, that's the quiz.
If you scored any more than five, got some bad news for you. You could be in trouble.
If you're in the friend zone though, I do have a little bit of a silver lining to that cloud.
I do have a video on how to get out of the friend zone.
I'll pop the link to that up here and in the description below.
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