This is 22 year old Keyshawna.
Keyshawna: I'm looking for help, with continuing conversations with guys online.
So 83 year old dating and Tinder expert Hattie is going to help Keyshawna make the first move.
Keyshawna: Hi Hattie!
Hattie: What can I do with you today?
Keyshawna: There's still something holding me back
where I feel like a man should come for me.
Hattie: And then if you like him
don't you want to see him again?
So tell him.
Keyshawna has a hot date lined up.
Keyshawna: Hey!
But will she be brave enough to take matters into her own hands?
Getting from Tinder to a successful date
has been tough for 22 year old Keyshawna.
Keyshawna: I was in a long-term relationship for about three and a half years,
it ended a year ago.
And since then, I have been on Tinder but
I haven't gotten to the next level with anybody.
I'm looking for help with continuing conversations with guys online.
Luckily Tinder and dating expert Hattie is ready to help.
Hattie: Tinder is considered a hook-up site, and that's a fine place to find subjects.
It was so helpful, to be able to date and even sleep with so many men,
I learnt so much.
Hattie: Hi darling!
I have a lot of experience, I can't wait to share it with you.
Keyshawna: So I wanted advice on continuing conversations with men.
Initially I don't have an issue starting but it's just after that, continuing to form a relationship.
Because growing up, as women, we're taught
let the man always ask you out.
Hattie: Men want to be asked and wanted, the same as women.
Keyshawna I have to see your dating profile
to see what's doing with you.
Keyshawna: Okay.
So let's see here.
5ft 10, curvy, insatiable.
Hattie: Insatiable? That means you will f***
all day and all night.
Until you're satisfied and you may never be satisfied.
Gorgeous, sexy woman seeks fun.
Keyshawna: Now let me show you these messages.
I said,
'I know it's Tuesday but you're still my Man Crush Monday.'
He said, "Nice to meet you," he said his name,
and I say, "Where are you from?"
He tells me and I tell him where I'm from and that's it.
Hattie: So you say, "Sound good."
I'd like to get together.
Right?
Right!
Hattie: That's the next call?
Keyshawna: It's so simple and straight forward.
Let's try it.
Hattie: This beauty wants to meet you.
Keshawna: Okay.
Hattie: Go to Tinder and see who shows up.
Hattie: Okay let me see who you like.
Oh wow, we got a match!
First, before you write, what do you want to say?
Keyshawna: You're handsome, you look nice.
Hattie: Handsome is too general.
Keyshawna: Okay, it's too general, so let me say..
Keyshawna: Help me!
Hattie: Aren't we lucky? And then say - when can we get together?
Yeah I want to see you, call or text me to make it happen.
I'd like to get together soon.
So I did have somebody recently that I messaged,
and it was successful and we went out, so that went well.
Hattie: And?
Keyshawna: It was a nice date.
Hattie: One date?
How long is this?
Keyshawna: This date was about two weeks ago.
Hattie: Oh he's married already.
If it works out on the first date, just say,
"I want to go on a date this week, will the guy be you?"
Hattie: We've got a bunch of hooks out there with very, very nice worms at the end.
And the fish is going to bite!
Keyshawna: They are.
Thank you so much.
Tinder messages sent.
And success!
Looks like we have ourselves a date.
Keyshawna: Colin and I had our first date a couple of weeks ago,
and afterwords it kind of went quiet.
I don't know if I would have asked him out again,
but Hattie gave me that push and I said,
"Let's do it."
Hattie: Keyshawna was a little reluctant to go after a guy, but with a little encouragement,
she's got somebody.
And I'm going to watch how she's doing on her date.
Up we go to a chic roof top bar in the heart of New York City.
Keyshawna: Hattie
How are you?
Hattie: How do you feel?
Keyshawna: I'm excited. I'm a little nervous.
Hattie: Nervousness is fine.
What would you actually like to happen with the date?
Keyshawna: I just want it to go well.
I want us to have a great conversation,
possibly get a third date.
Hattie: Now do you want to go to bed with him?
Keyshawna: I would like to see where it goes, we have a lot of similar interests.
Hattie: The fact that he said yes to a date,
right away you're getting the feeling that
it's perfectly all right to ask a man.
So I'll be watching your date,
Keyshawna: Okay.
Hattie: And, one never knows does one.
Moment of truth.
Date time.
Keyshawna: Hey, how are you?
Colin: I'm good, how are you?
Been long time, no see.
Keyshawna: Long time, no see.
After our first date, I was like it went really well but then,
it kind of...
dwindled off a little bit.
Colin: Been very busy.
Keyshawna: Yeah that's true.
Hattie: He's a handsome guy.
I checked out his lips, I generally do that,
because the idea of kissing is always
is always very pleasing to me.
Keyshawna: You nervous?
A little bit?
A little bit? I make you nervous?
Oh that's cute!
Hattie: Now her hands down behind,
I think she might be afraid of being too forward,
that might be what it's about.
Keyshawna: What? What are you thinking about? What's on your mind?
Colin: A lot.
Keyshawna: Such as, what's the first thing on your mind?
Colin: Can't really say.
I'm not going to say.
Hattie: I think it's good,
I'm proud of her.
If this is her new style of relating on a date,
she's come a long way.
Colin: I'm happy that you invited me out.
It was random but I really enjoyed it.
It was funny but I like it.
Keyshawna: That's good. I'm glad.
With the date in full flow, let's see what Hattie thinks.
Keyshawna: Hi!
Hattie: Well?
Keyshawna: I think it's going really well.
Hattie: He is into you, there's no question about it.
From his body language, you see like he's having a good time.
I have a question, your arms are down the whole time.
Did you know that?
Keyshawna: I didn't notice.
Hattie: This way.
Keyshawna: Right, I'll be less protective.
Hattie: That's right, and why do you have to be protective?
You look sweet, you look animated, you look cute.
Keyshawna: Thank you.
He actually mentioned that he was excited that I reached out to him.
Hattie: That you'll have another date?
Keyshawna: I think so, he seems really into me so
I'm excited.
Hattie: Okay.
Keyshawna: Hey, I'm back.
Colin: You look really really good.
Keyshawna: Thank you.
Collin: I'll have to say that one more time,
You look really, really, really good.
Keyshawna: Thank you.
Collin: What's your plans for tonight?
Keyshawna: I don't know, I don't have anything planned really.
Colin: You want to spend it with me?
Keyshawna: Okay.
Colin: Well I feel like I will make a move with her, with a kiss tonight.
I'm definitely feeling her, I think she's feeling me so
I'll definitely go for it.
Generally I feel like men are expected to ask the woman out.
If girls did that more, as much as guys did, the world would be a happier place.
Hattie: So in the case of Keyshawna,
she was holding back.
And I said, 'Keyshawna, you're there, let it be out.'
And then you see who she is, just glowing.