there are so many videos talking about things girls like to hear from men but
almost none of them talks about the reasons behind them for example do girls
like hearing nice things yes and no yes because women love to hear nice things
being said to them just like you'd like it when someone says something nice to
you and no because no one likes hearing things that are said in an insincere
manner that's an important factor right there
the things girls like to hear from men are words that you truly mean when you
say them so that's it no other things to consider well if it were you wouldn't
need to keep watching but the thing is even with a good understanding of human
psychology men still find it challenging to find things girls like to hear from
men because last thing a guy wants is to come off as patronizing fake or acting
like a player add to this the fact that choice of words and contexts are all
part of communication then you see how trying to convey what you want to say
might be perceived in a negative light to the person that you're trying to talk
to so here's the hard truth there is no real guarantee formula or list that will
give you a 100% success rate and trying to come up with a list of things that
girls like to hear from men why because a common mistake that lists on the same
topic hab is that they tend to over generalize the reason why there are
words or things groans like to hear from men that actually work and why there are
those that do nothing is largely because the difference in how men and women put
a psychological meaning towards an actions that's it and this varies from
one individual to the next so you have to realize that you will need to
understand why some words are welcome while others can be offending and even
seem insincere you have to understand how a girl things and try to hear things
from her perspective to find out what makes her feel special loved and
appreciated so you think you can do that well here's 14 things girls like to hear
from men with additional insight as to why they might work number one saying a
positive comment about something she worked hard for women prefer certain
compliments over others and one of the things girls love to hear from men is a
compliment of how good they are at something that they've really put effort
in this can be as basic of wow that book report was too awesome or as
personalized you must be perfecting your cupcake baking skills because these
cupcakes are just super delicious I know it's really cheesy but it works
number two is expressing an interest on the activity or hobby that she loves
saying something like can you teach me how to do that that looks so interesting
is sure to get a girl's attention and even make her swoon if she's into you
because it is human nature to be drawn to people who express interest on the
same things that someone else likes this is called the similarity attraction
effect and I talk about it in detail with other psychological attraction
hacks and my course titled psychology of attraction
you can check it out in the description if you really want to learn more
number three is pointing a specific detail about what you like in her looks
so don't just tell her her prettier that she's attractive tell her you like how
the green and her eyes turns golden when she laughs or something to that effect
not only the saying something like this let her know how attentive you are but
it also tells her that you're into her number four is giving her beauty
complements when she doesn't have makeup on or haven't done her hair yet or
something like that women already expect to be told that they're pretty or look
right when they dress up Shirdi knows that she looks good but they often don't
expect you to find them truly beautiful when they haven't combed their hair yet
or haven't done anything special to enhance their looks one of the things
girls love to hear from men is to be reassured that they're pretty and
attractive when they're sporting their most unflattering look wouldn't you feel
great to be told you're ruggedly handsome on days you simply forgot to
shave number five is saying that she did a great job there are so many ways to
reap the benefits of showing appreciation that goes beyond romantic
gestures did your girl recently get a promotion did she beat you at bowling
golf Scrabble or whatever game you guys were playing does she have her eyebrows
on fleek is this steak she made for dinner that night particularly tasty or
maybe she was right about something no matter how big or small the achievements
are it's going to be a lot sweeter when she hears that you acknowledged them
because she values what you think of her number six is telling her something you
like about her mannerisms or maybe quirks
do you love the way she tilts her head to the side when she laughs you find it
really amusing when she sings rock and roll off him your nails do you think
it's really cute how she always eats her Immonen by the colors if you find
something unique about her and you like it tell her this has something to do
with the novelty effect appreciation of quirks and unique personality traits are
definitely some of the things that girls like to hear from men because it means
you truly love them for their real selves number seven is letting her know
that she makes you happy excited or maybe even feel special telling someone
that you appreciate them can have a huge effect on how they feel and will feel
towards you if your girl makes you feel happy
excited about life in the future and that each day with her is special
because she makes you feel special tell her and watch her bloom number eight is
saying that you enjoy time spent with her time is very valuable these days and
often times people don't get to spend as much quality time they want with people
who are special to them even though they want to letting her know that you enjoy
time spent together will encourage her to spend more time with you and feel
more secure about your bond with her number
ix is volunteering to do something that she likes without her asking women find
men who do things that they like without asking sexy according to one study by
volunteering to do things for her when she can't do them herself or by simply
opening doors for her even though she could do that herself
you're telling her that you're there for her and that's incredibly attractive to
most girls yes some of the things girls like to hear from men are communicated
through actions not words if you're interested in learning how to read your
partner I have a video in psychology of Attraction explaining the five love
languages and how you can have her head over heels for you once you understand
them number ten is thanking her for something that she did for you that's it
a simple thank-you made it on this list of 14 things girls like to hear from men
because sometimes all the effort you need to show is to acknowledge her or
her actions number eleven is telling her about the positive effects that she has
on you did she influence you to finally start eating veggies besides those found
on pizza you find yourself wanting to be a better person for her every positive
effect no matter whether it's big or small it counts not everyone can be the
Helen of Troy and launched a thousand ships but every girl deserves to feel
good when they've done something that made someone else lives better tell her
it's called positive reinforcement and she'll do it more often in the future
number twelve is giving her a positive command on her smarts so to say do you
know that one study showed that 84% of women preferred to be called smart as
opposed to beautiful intelligence is not a typical trait that men value in women
I'm just being honest here but women love being complimented about it why
when you hear comments about your looks nearly every day a comment about your
sense of humor or your brain really reaffirms that you've got more than a
set of ovaries and a uterus with boobs not trying to sound crass here but give
it a thought it's a basic principle of supply and demand with scarcity if a
woman told she's beautiful every day she knows it but maybe what she really is is
craving to be told that she's smart number thirteen is telling her she's
beautiful and meaning it's given the previous paragraph one of the things
girls like to hear from men is still to be told that they're beautiful but not
just focusing on physical beauty tell her she's beautiful in her entirety her
voice her laugh her compassionate heart for avocado obsession her hatred for
spiders everything wouldn't you love to be told that you're a beautiful person -
the key word here is to be perceived as a beautiful person and number 14 the
last one on our list for today is letting her know that you want her to
hear what she has to say so listen to her and
hear what she's saying reassure her that her thoughts ideas comments and yes even
arguments are welcome tell her that you want to know what she thinks girls like
to hear and get ready to take notes listening to her will boost her
self-esteem and strengthen your bond don't be surprised if she starts
mirroring your words or actions you'll surely love being the center of all
these tips for things girls like to hear from men if she were to use them to you
after all understanding the emotional and bonding needs of the opposite sex is
a big deal in the psychology of attraction one more thing remember that
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