This video will show you the three biggest blocks to the Law of Attraction how you can
overcome them and really achieve what you want in life.
Welcome back to another video.
My name is Erin and I hope people expand their consciousness.
Now
this video I'm going to be sharing with you the most common blocks that I see people have
with the law of attraction.
It's also some of the things that I've experienced in my own life that as I overcame these and
as I'm overcoming them now because there's always things that are you know kind of being
brought to the forefront when it comes to the subconscious mind.
This is something that I can then you know work through and then share with you guys
some of the things that I've learned.
Now understand that we always get a reflection of who we are being when it comes to the Law
of Attraction.
We always get a reflection of what we define to be true.
Most of the things in our life if not all the things in our life are actually a reflection
of our beliefs.
So when we change our beliefs we change the reflection.
Now that's important to understand because the context of the kind of the way I going
to be explaining this video and the first one the first block that a lot of people experience
including myself and I've had to overcome is the story that I tell myself and it's maybe
the story that you tell yourself as well.
Every single one of us has a certain story.
Think of it like the narrator of a movie for example.
You are the narrator of your own movie.
You are the director the co-writer all of this of your own movie.
Now the story we tell ourselves of how things have been in the past will normally be something
we perpetuate into the future unless we become aware of what we're thinking which is great
that you know we're having this conversation right now because you most likely are already
aware of what you're thinking if you're here watching my videos because almost all my videos
are on the Law of Attraction and conscious awareness.
So that's already a step ahead of most people because most people are in the auto pilot
mind and they're just doing the same thing every single day and they have no awareness
that their thoughts influence their experience.
So your idea had a step ahead of the game.
Now the next part of it though is understanding what story are you telling yourself.
Do you have a story that says that maybe you were a victim growing up and things always
happened to you.
And it's hard for you to get out of the rut or you know things just aren't always going
your way.
You know there's so many different narratives stories that come with it a whole bunch of
beliefs inside of it.
You know some of us to ourselves a story that we have to always be a fixer upper with people
we always have to fix people that help them and as soon as we're done helping them we
move on to the next person you know that's a common story that we tell ourselves there's
is this there's so many different narratives stories.
You know they can be called archetypes.
These are the sort of stories that we all tell ourselves insert retrograde or retrograde
and certain steps or steps in certain ways.
And because of that that's something that we need to become more aware of.
Now I'd grown up at a certain story and I'm sure many guys know if you watched many of
the videos I talked about it before but I grew up with an abusive stepmom who was in
my life between the ages of be a nine to 15.
And my dad was a firefighter who's gone 24 hours a day.
And she was very manipulative.
My brother worked outside all the time with a lot of friends went out to watch TV were
not eat very much and we weren't because we were a lot of friends it was hard for us to
socialize with the school everyday but we weren't allowed to really ever hang out outside
of school.
So all of sudden 15 comes around my dad divorces her.
All of a sudden we have all this freedom.
And for years I carried around a story that said that I wasn't good enough.
I carried around this story of why did this victimization type thing happen.
I carried around this story of almost kind of like fear because I was so controlled for
a certain aspect of my life.
It was weird to walk around and feel that freedom and that was the story I told myself
right.
And I had to really learn how to be and feel worthy of myself and that eventually was one
of the best things that ever happened to me because eventually it led me to my spiritual
awakening.
It led me to understanding more about how my thoughts correlate with my experience how
to remain positive in each situation.
I would say that most people that meet me could tell I have such a positive outlook
and a positive vibe.
And that's most likely because I went through so much pain growing up that that's why I
am the way I am now.
See that's the story that I tell myself.
And that's something that becomes my experience in life.
Now I notice that with the story also comes the awareness that we can change our story
at any time.
Look at your story and look at the consistent things that happen in your life.
You know you know your story based on your surroundings and what your experiences.
And when you look around you can see that there may be some things you don't really
prefer to have in your life.
And as you look around at those you can decide Is this something I prefer to be part of my
story or is this something that I want to let go of now with the awareness.
You can decide to consciously let it go by just deciding to consciously let it go.
You know I remember well I think it was in the Power of Now and I was talking about how
do you how do you let go of all these negative thinkings or negative thoughts.
And the answer is like well how do you let go of a rope that's point you and starting
to get friction in your hands and is starting to give you blisters.
How do you let go of a hot coal just by dropping it.
Right.
You have to make a decision.
It's really just a decision I'm deciding to let go of this story that I tell myself and
understand that what comes along with that is then repetition of wiring in a new story
and doing something different that you would normally do under the old narrative.
So this requires repetition has required us to go out and actually tell ourselves a new
story.
You know I also have a story a story of when I was talking about when I was like 12 years
old and I went to some summer camp and some girl rejected me that was 18 years old because
I wanted to dance with her.
I told myself a story that I wasn't worthy and what how could I get out of that story.
Well I had to take action and push myself to talk to girls.
Chapter two I had to push myself to then break outside of that bubble.
And as I did that with repetition Eventually I got through that and I let go of that story
I realized with the awareness of just one situation.
And as I did that that's when everything began to change.
Now that's something that you can change you can change your story by becoming aware what
your story is deciding with intention to let it go and then wiring in a new story new thought
process new neural connections in the brain.
And as you do that everything will begin to change.
Now the second thing that blocks most people when it comes to a lot of attraction is expectation
and attachment to outcome.
Now the reason I say this is because when we develop an expectation when we persist
that you know something that has to happen we end up also getting resistance because
we and our ego mind believe that there is a blueprint that we have to follow.
And
if we follow that blueprint everything goes according to plan we can be happy.
We can feel like the Law of Attraction is working.
But here's the key and here's the kicker.
We must understand that the best case scenario that our ego can imagine is only the floor
for our higher self and call it a higher self the universe whatever label we want to give
it.
And when we start to have this perspective we see we're actually limiting ourselves by
saying I want to get from here to here and the only way I can do that is this way we're
limiting ourselves from actually the quicker ways that could go around that that could
get through those blocks and get through those ways.
So this is about having that awareness and trusting the process.
Anytime something happens in your life have it become a part of the process.
Integrate it into the experience and as you do that you find that it starts to kind of
dissolve it starts to become a part of the experience rather than it being you know a
wrench being thrown in the gears.
So that's a new perspective but it's something that's so powerful when it comes to this.
I understand that you can trust the process.
It's not all up to your ego mind to figure out how to do everything.
It's about being present to the moment not you know needing that external circumstance
to make you feel whole and complete you are already whole and complete.
So having that perspective in that frame as you go into the experience will allow you
to feel more of the emotions of already having what you want.
So that then you experience what you want.
We always get a reflection of who we are being and we will always resonate with those experiences
so we must really tap into that resonance.
Now the third block that people experience with the law of attraction is the definition.
This is something that I normally talk about my videos is something that I think is so
powerful.
If something happens and we automatically define it as a block that becomes a self-fulfilling
prophecy instead of a block.
What if it was an opportunity.
What if it was a new perspective what if we said to ourselves going into it I'm going
to learn something from this.
I'm going to have a new perspective as to how I can mold this and kind of you know have
this become a part of my experience and as we do that we start to get the self-fulfilling
prophecy of that helping us of that being something that works well for us.
So definitions create our reality become aware of what you define to be true what labels
you might have you might be saying that this is also very connected to the first one of
the story we tell ourselves because we'll have certain definitions and labels that we
naturally attach to.
But let go of labels and definitions that no longer serve you.
You know if we believe that we're a victim if we believe that things are always happening
to us in a way that's not something we prefer be aware of what those definitions are.
If we catch ourselves with these deep with thoughts that we have that say in the gate
what we want to experience become aware of what those definitions are and then reframe
them.
And as you do that you find that you get a new type of experience is it doesn't have
to be really hard to do something.
If we define it to be harder than it will be hard does it have to be something that
we really have to try to do if we have to try.
William resistance then we will have to try to do it.
But why can't we just do it.
We just to fight it that way.
That's when we really begin to experience it.
So our definitions are something so powerful for this whole process.
And remember it's just about the story we tell ourselves the story we tell ourselves
is going to be something that always plays itself out.
We can change our past and change the potentials of our future by looking at our past in a
new way by letting it go.
You know most of our life is ran by our subconscious mind and that's why that's why I created the
meditation and you'll find below.
There's a free MP 3 meditation that reprograms the subconscious mind that will allow you
to increase the emotion that will allow you to have a new self image.
And that's why they created it so that you can listen to it before you go to bed to really
reprogram your subconscious mind in a powerful way so that you become the kind of person
that you want so if you want to infuse that into your daily routine as well so you can
download low and listen to that everyday and apply that as a tool for doing so.
Remember the second thing is outcome dependence.
Let go of the outcome.
Trust the universe know that as you trust the universe you're saying yes to yourself.
You're starting to create from a much deeper place and that then you'll start to really
live your full potential rather than just the ego potential.
And then thirdly let go of the definitions you tell yourself become aware of what those
labels are and as you let that go everything will change.
So
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