The consensus across the scientific community is that a whopping 93% of all communication
that you have with another person is happening on a non verbal level, meaning you are communicating
with your body.
What does this mean for you?
What does this mean for you and dating?
Well, this means that we can take advantage of this idea work on our body language as
a tool to communicate, to be able to help connect with the people that we talked to,
especially a woman that you are talking to, for the very first time, we can actually hack
into this idea.
And we can use some strategies to be able to connect with her faster, there's a phrase
called building rapport.
Maybe you've heard this in the dating advice, community, or anywhere else that you're learning
about how to socialize.
But building rapport with someone is just a way of saying, you're building a connection
with the another person.
And so one way to build rapport with someone is to be able to work on the body language
communication.
And a really cool way to do that, as we keep on going down down down to the funnel here
is a little trick called mirroring.
Let me explain what this is and how this works.
Basically mirroring or mirroring and matching is something you're going to be doing when
you're first talking to a girl, or you can even use this, when you're talking to a guy
maybe there's a an a business event or a networking event, we're trying to connect with someone
on a faster level.
And so what you're going to be doing is you're actually going to be mirroring and matching
their body language, but also the way in which they speak the speed in which they speak the
words that they use, the actual tonality of how they're speaking to, you're going to be
matching that, in a way you're going to be copying that as a way to connect with them
faster.
And the reason why this works so well is because when someone meets someone who is similar
to them, and of course, this is going to be to the style of using your nonverbal communication.
When this happens, it almost feels as if there's no threat, right?
Like there's no difference here.
There's no conflict here between you and the other person.
Therefore, they're similar.
Therefore, there's no conflict there for you guys can create a faster connection, because
they trust you.
Let's talk about mirroring and matching.
How are we going to do this?
Well, in order to mirror someone that you're talking to, it has to be like, you're standing
in front of a mirror.
So what happens when you're standing in front of a mirror, and let's say you put your right
hand up like this?
Well, you're going to see another person right in the mirror, who is also putting their hand
up, and it's matching yours, but it's your right hand, and it's their left hand.
What you want to do is when you're talking to someone, you almost want to mimic and mirror
the way that their body language is okay, but you got to be careful about this, if you
really want to do this, you can't just be completely copying every single move they
do as they do it.
For example, let's say if they, you know, put their, you know, hand right here like
this, like they're kind of resting their hand like this, maybe in a minute or so you'll
kind of do something similar, maybe not exactly like that.
But you'll put your hand over here to maybe you'll be touching your face like this, because
they're touching there's and again, it's the mirror, so their side, which is going to be
their left side and your right side, for example, if you're doing that, maybe they're crossing
their legs in a certain way, you can mirror that maybe they are smiling in a certain way,
you can mirror that.
Maybe their hands are class like this, and they're kind of in front of them on the table.
Their hands are in front of them on a table like this.
That's another way.
So again, you can do this very subtly, don't mimic it exactly, but just a little bit, and
maybe a couple minutes after they put their body language in position.
I know this sounds kind of crazy, like are they going to be able to notice this.
But here's what's really wild about this.
If you've ever been hanging out with someone I know, this happens to me all the time.
And it's someone who you know, really well, and you guys are just kind of hanging out,
you're talking maybe you're going out to dinner, something happens when you guys are on a connected
level, you start to do this subconsciously.
You're going to find that whenever you're talking to someone, you actually accidentally
mirror them, because you feel so connected to them, which means that you're actually
mimicking what they're doing.
People are doing this anyways, without even trying to do it.
I'm just making you aware of it here.
Another way to do this is using certain words or inflections that they're using when they're
talking to you.
I know again, this is different from Bible language, but it's not talking about what
they're saying.
It's not the communication of the words, but the way they're saying the words or the words
that they're using.
You might be repeating maybe a slang term that they're using.
Or maybe, you know, they're talking in a way where they're talking really slowly.
And so you're going to be matching them.
Imagine if you were with someone who's talking really fast, and you're talking slow, there's
a there's like a disconnect there.
You want to connect in a way where you guys are on that same level, same energy level,
and that's shown to the pacing of your voice, the sound of your voice, and also the words
that you're saying, I have a lot of other cool tricks and hacks like this in my Hooked
program.
If you go to www.getherhooked.com, you are going to end up on a page that will explain
a full program that's accessible to you, that teaches you how to tap in to this attraction.
If you ever want to learn how to really get a girl completely hooked on you and loving
every single word, you're saying, there's more to it than just a mirroring lip trick
like this.
There's more things to do and more ways to build sexual tension.
And I teach you steps A to Z how to do that in the Hooked program.
If you're completely lost on where to begin with women, I urge you to check this out.
Go to www.getherhooked.com to see that.
Also write a comment down below.
Tell me what you think of this trick and tell me if you use it and if it works and I'll
catch you on the next video.