6 Valid reasons to never chase a man.
When we like someone, we do everything possible so that they notice us and when we are dating
someone and we want to move on to the next level, we also end up doing something for
the other person to want the same thing.
But is it good to live chasing men?
The reality is no!
so pay attention to these reasons why you should not do it.
# 6 It's exhausting.
The reality is that he will be interested in strengthening the relationship ... or not.
If he does not decide, do not end up "playing games" when you are clear about what you want.
With this, I do not say that you should give him an ultimatum, but it would be good if
you sit down with him and speak as adults.
Clarifying things will be more effective than chasing him to make a decision.
# 5 Affects your self-esteem.
Pursuing a man may seem exciting and challenging at first, but when he assumes the role of
playing hard, it will not be good for your self-esteem.
Unlike women, men love to "chase", conquer and do not accept a no as an answer.
Instead, women feel unwanted or low self-esteem when they feel that they are pursuing something
that they can not reach, so forget it!
# 4 It's a waste of time.
Pursuing your boy is really a waste of time.
It would be better if both can enjoy activities that help them create and strengthen the bond
they have.
Go on dates, plan a trip or anything that allows you to get to know each other better
and be in the same line.
If the two want to be together, they should take charge of their feelings and enjoy the
relationship, it will be worth it.
# 3 And your needs?.
The reality is that when your boyfriend becomes difficult or acts distant, you try to do everything
to get his attention.
Even though you know that he is not being reasonable, your heart tells you that you
must do it, since certain sacrifices, and trying to understand the other are part of
the relationship.
The problem is that by taking up your time in trying to make him notice you, you forget
about yourself.
And it's the worst you can do.
Neglecting your needs or what makes you happy to try to make him correspond to you, will
not be good for you or for the relationship.
Learn to take distance if he is not being consistent with his attitudes, do not let
the persecution become everything in the relationship and in your life.
# 2 You lose your place in the relationship.
If you have persecuted your boy for quite some time, it is likely that he thinks you
are desperate for him and for the relationship.
And that can lead to him test you to see how much you can tolerate.
The reality is that you should not tolerate anything for fear of telling him what you
feel, assert yourself and let him know how things should be with you.
# 1 Will not work if he does not contribute to the relationship.
Your partner has to know that not everything he wants has to be this way.
If he wants to be treated like a king he has to prove that he deserves your trust and affection.
He should contribute to the relationship by showing his feelings, making you feel loved
and not as someone who has the obligation to fulfill his needs.
If he is not being a gentleman, you need to talk about it and be clear about how you want
the relationship to be.
I understand that you want the relationship to result, that you have feelings and that
you seek to attract his attention, but you must do so by being aware of your own needs,
of what you are worth and what you deserve.
Persecution can be intriguing and exciting at first, but if you know what you want, you
need to be clear with him.
Otherwise, if you prolong it, he will get used to the fact that things are that way
and that is not what you want or what you deserve for your relationship.
Stop persecuting him, tell him what you expect and what you feel and you will see that if
he feels the same, he will not go anywhere and will understand that he should take care
of you and take care of the relationship so as not to lose you.
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