(computer mouse clicks)
- Show me the scariest face I make when I'm angry.
(Kris exhales)
- Your face gets really red. (imitates frustrated grumble)
- Yeah.
And tense up.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
And there tends to be throwing of stuff.
Angry temper tantrums, high knees.
You know? - Yeah, yup.
- Yeah, and then followed by physical exertion.
- Yeah, definitely.
- I remember the last time we went to the beach,
I'm like, "The guys are creating lots of problems."
And then I see you like this.
(both laugh)
I'm like,
"Oh my God, oh my God!"
- I would just say I turn beet red,
I'm sorry, I'm gonna answer that.
- I was gonna say you cry.
- I cry? (both laugh)
- What do you think life is teaching us now?
- I don't think that either you and I really thought
two months ago that you will be able to leave
and that other women were gonna be able to leave
because there were so many obstacles.
There was no embassy, there was no consulate,
there was no passport, there was no money,
there was no flight because of the coronavirus.
Everything was made for you
to be trapped in Lebanon for months and months.
So you went from 15 being in a house
to more than 50 in different houses.
That's how girls you picked up from the streets
and brought to your house and gave care.
And you never gave up.
And I think that's the biggest lesson
that we can take from it
is really to to believe in what we do
and to really never give up.
- I think there's this message that's going about
on social media by certain people that say,
if they don't exactly believe what you believe
cut them off.
- Yeah, yeah.
- And I think I personally am trying to,
I fall into that trap sometimes
but I'm really trying hard not to.
And I don't think people recognize
that there's more to life than identity politics
and showing people love and caring
and not being discriminatory is more important.
- Yeah especially with Facebook
I find it really hard sometimes.
Especially if like,
there's this one person on my Facebook
who is very open about the fact that she is conservative
or they are conservative and it's hard
'cause I don't wanna be like,
we were friends way before.
I don't wanna be like, "I'm cutting you off completely."
But also I'm like, okay, you clearly aren't understanding
what these people who talking back to you and saying like,
"Hey, this seems a little bit off, can we talk about this?"
And then they'll just completely get defensive and be like,
"That's not what I'm talking about."
You know? Like,
"You're not understanding me, blah, blah, blah, blah blah."
And I'm like, okay, as much as I loved this person before
this person is clearly not able to understand
that it's supposed to be a conversation.
She's clearly like, "Okay, if you don't agree with me,
then we're just not gonna be friends."
Like, "I don't care what you think
you can defriend me if you want."
And I'm like, that's just going too far
'cause clearly, they're trying to help you
in understanding why some people believe the other way
and you're just not talking to them.
- Yeah. I think, yeah.
I think a lot of people, I think I fall in that a lot too.
- Yeah. - But for me I know specific-
- I think you're getting better at it though.
- Yeah, I think I'm getting better.
- If this were to be our last conversation
what is something you never want me to forget?
(car horn honks)
(Kris exhales)
- If this where our last conversation, Christopher
I would want you to know wholly deep down in your soul
that you are
the embodiment of the best person I have ever known.
You accept me wholeheartedly
without clarification.
And I don't admire anyone in this world
as much as I admire you for your genuine personality
and efforts and beliefs.
And I love you.
- Well, I appreciate that.
I can't express it enough
just that I really do feel the same way.
And I know that we've been saying that a lot today but
there are, you know,
for me what love is,
love is having the desire to grow with somebody.
Or a pet or a job, whatever it might be.
But love is this kind of desire for growth and growing.
I think that over the last 14 years
that we've known each other
I feel like at least in that time
I haven't grown with anybody as much as I've grown with you.
You approach the world with so much, I don't know kindness
and I think I just, I respect it so much
and it really makes me love you.
- Thanks, bro.
Thank you.
- Jayden here, from the skin deep.
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