Cheating Wives And Crazy Girlfriends
28 year old male says him and his wife have always had a
perfect relationship we're also very sexual recently after a
drunken night she admitted to me that she is
physically attracted to my best friend and loves when they flirt sounds a
little disrespectful to me also that she's masturbated while i'm a
good looking confident man my best friend is one of those guys
6'3 220 pounds dark and handsome i don't know why but it just hurt it's
taken all of my confidence from me i don't
think she sees it as a big deal and i don't blame her but
it took everything for me and we've had a rocky road ever since
i'm trying to just forget and move on but i'm not sure if this is
just a sign of what's to come or what we've been
together seven years and i've never had a reason
to think of her as unfaithful is this something i should just figure
out within myself and move on you can decide that update talk to my
wife i'm not entirely sure she understands
how it's affected me assuring me that i'm the
only one she wants we do have two children so that
makes this extremely difficult considering
to my knowledge she hasn't cheated i'm not sure i'm going to be able to get
over this though my confidence took a major hit and i've
never really had that happen before well sometimes there's always a first
time for everything but i'm going to say just keep your eyes
and ears open
yeah this is a doozy and i'm posting anonymously for obvious reasons i'm a 21
year old male and my good friend is 21 as well
he's married to an 18 year old female they got married about six months ago
now i don't even want to go into that story because there is so much drama
long story short most people don't like his wife but to be honest
i thought she was pretty sweet however she has
changed recently i kept seeing her post on facebook shit like
happy that bitches out of our lives now and stuff in that nature
i messaged both of them about it and they responded there was a bump in their
relationship but it's all okay now additionally she
was posting on tick tock videos with captions like
i'm single now i'm proud to be on my own so i was hella confused because they're
married but on facebook i kept saying oh honey i love
you and them tagging each other in post so
yeah pretty weird then another friend of mine
texted me he was concerned he sent me a screenshot of the wife's
tinder the bio saying that her and her husband
were in an open relationship yeah right
knowing the husband there are two options
one he's kind of a pushover and is just placating her
two he has no idea about it and she's cheating on him
maybe three there's way more shit going on than i can even care to know
i feel like i need to talk to him about it but have no idea how to
to be honest he knows a lot of people don't like his wife
and i'm afraid he think i'm just attacking her
if that's what is going on so i need advice what the hell do i do
well in my opinion i think you need to tell him
regardless of how he reacts but before you do
make sure you have a lot of ammunition in the form of proof
so to make a long story short my wife used to cheat on me a lot
it was never physical as far as i know but she would sex
other random guys on role-playing apps like kik
and romance all the time non-stop after several fights it finally stopped
for many months but to my surprise i saw kik downloaded
on her phone about a week ago and there it was again and had been
going on since about the beginning of june
i confronted her immediately and unlike what she used to do
she fessed up to it and apologized and said that she was feeling neglected
because of my new work schedule we have been married for a while
and our first born son is due in just august
on august the 4th i believe she is my everything
and she plays a stay-at-home wife so i have built my whole world around her
since we were dating because i work overnight i was trying to
sleep and i felt her phone buzz a few times
and wake me up from under the pillow i grabbed it and
what do i see kik is downloaded again and she has been
sexting people again all morning while i slept for work when
i saw the app last time i got mad and deleted the chats
some of them she tried getting back by apologizing and telling
them her phone got stolen bro you need to roll out
i don't know what to do she is my world i can't imagine a day without her
and i'm so happy to be starting our family
but she just will not stop cheating on me
any advice other than just leaving her would be great
because i feel so broken inside i don't want to live like this
well in my opinion i think the only option is
she was repeating the same bad habit before you can't continue to give her
chances she's going to keep doing it she's going
to have a period where she is doing okay and when things
go sour she's gonna look for an outlet and that outlet will be
other men
i am currently quarantining with my dad and his family
long story short my dad's 60 and his current wife
l 39 yikes huge age difference met and got together while they were
otherwise married my dad was married to my mom at the time
they had been married for 30 plus years about 10 years ago
they have two young children together it has been a long
rough road for me up until this quarantine situation i didn't see
any of them very much and remain distant but cordial
i would see them on holidays and buy presents for the kids
but that's about as involved in their lives
and them in mine as it got i had to temporarily leave my apartment due to
things going on with the coronavirus and my dad offered that i
could stay in their house i didn't think it would be a
terrible idea i didn't want to impose on anyone but he
offered and was the only person who offered to let me stay
i have been here for over a month it's been fine
everyone gets along no worries at all today was something different my dad had
to leave for a few hours the little kids were going into the next
door neighbor's pool before everyone left a friend of elves
came by he's an older guy probably my dad's age
he was leaving his car here while he went for a bike ride
in the area it's very hilly i guess was a reason
everyone left the house except for me and l elle's friend returned so she went
and he went out on the deck to chat then came back into the house and went
into the basement i'm working on the first floor the thing
about this house is you can hear everything
anywhere conversations are not private so i found
it really odd when i noticed after several
minutes that it seemed dead silent i tiptoed to
the basement door which was left open and heard well something i can't say
what because i didn't see but it sounded like
at best kissing i was too surprised to do
or say anything they were not in the basement
much longer than 10 to 15 minutes total i don't know exactly when i noticed
something seemed off and then didn't track the time
they came back up they were talking quietly but i couldn't make out what
they said said nothing to me just went outside and
after a few minutes he left she came in didn't act like
anything was wrong i'm a bit freaked i don't know if i should leave
if i should say something to anyone or anything to anyone
or just sit tight and act like everything is fine because
as far as i know it is perhaps my imagination is running away from me
maybe i'm just predisposed to find something wrong here
i will say just keep your eyes open and try to find
more or gather more incriminating evidence
if you think your dad is being cheated on
you