This video is about = "How to ignore her beauty." I'll give you some logical and practical steps
to stop putting beautiful women on a pedestal! To find out more, please stay tuned to this video...
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Let's say how it is = nine times out of ten, if we see a hot woman (as a guy) our hearts race, we get
excited, anxious, nervous, fidgety. Well okay some men don't, but that is because they are naturally
confident around women. That according to DR Glover is the most attractive quality in a man =
confidence! I was influenced by DR Glover to create this video after reading both his books = "No More MR
Nice Guy" and "Dating Essentials for Men." DR Glover would describe himself as a recovering nice guy,
and has for many years now inspired men all over the world on how to improve themselves
and have better luck with dating. When the book "The Game" came out and was supremely popular
many self-proclaimed "pickup artists" were learning the art of seduction, and they were getting some
very hot women in the process, and the whole thing became a phenomenon! However all these
men aka "pickup artists" were just geeks with the right techniques, opening lines, lingo and so on...
Whilst they might get a date or more with a hot woman, keeping her around was a different story....
Then of course The Red Pill (the manosphere) grew out of the shadows of the pickup industry
which provided a much harsher and more brutal view on female nature. What I like about The Red Pill is
its drive to make men do better, improve and become the best versions of themselves.
What I don't like about it are the massive generalizations, the all-or-nothing thinking, the
splitting especially when it comes to women. I'm not hating on that community but I sometimes feel
they are not too dissimilar from the pickup artist back in the day, just way more extreme. Dating is
subjective as well, so is beauty, what you might like others don't vice versa. That is what makes
it interesting! It sounds so cliche but beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, but sometimes
as I said we can get a little bit anxious around a woman we find very attractive as men. Hopefully
these points (influenced originally by DR Glover) might help you to ignore her beauty moving forward...
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Yes I'm sure you've heard this a thousand times but maybe it's not sunk in = she's human dude! She
eats, sleeps, goes to the bathroom, walks, talks you name it! Just like you! The only difference is
physically she's a woman, and you're a man yes she may have beautiful breasts, a body, eyes, smile, hair
she may smell wonderful, she may take your breath away, but she's still a human being...
we're all animals.... still has a heart, lungs, needs oxygen to survive, food and water...I remember many
years ago I was terrified of hot women! I'd get all tense, freeze up, wouldn't know what to say...
it was bad...if I'd speak to them I wouldn't even make eye contact, I'd become a shell of myself not
express myself, it was awkward weird and I was a dumb naive kid....then through my former online
publishing business I had to work with some models for a long time (with some of the advertisers and
deals I was working with) and these women were so beautiful and attractive and I thought "how
on earth am I going to work with these women when I act like such a dweeb?!" Well slowly and surely the
more I worked with them, I became more comfortable the more I realized they were nice, just normal
human beings, they just wanted to live life like me... get paid, see friends, go on vacation, go out to eat
etc. They sometimes ate healthily and sometimes they'd hit McDonald's! As time went on, I got more and
more comfortable with them, and they did with me... it was a pleasant experience and a few years later
I ended up actually dating a model (much to the surprise of my former self)! So guys, women are just
human = they crack really stupid jokes like us, they can be absolutely wonderful to be around,
and they can be very compassionate, caring, kind, sweet and really generous as well! Not all of them
of course are like that, but just like men and just like everyone = there's good and bad in all people!
Ignore her beauty by drumming this home into your mind = she's just human dude....she's just like you...
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When I finally overcame my fear and anxiety around very attractive women, over the next
few years I dated a lot more than ever before, and the standards had risen because obviously
my confidence had gone through the roof in the process! But the more I dated models and dancers
and hot chicks and former cheerleaders etc there was something I noticed = I could not talk to them!
Seriously some of these women (although beautiful) couldn't even string a sentence together!
Now I'm not saying all hot women are stupid, and again I'm not hating on women, just sharing
my experience on this topic... the fact is well truthfully I was actually bored out of my brain.....
she might have looked really good... she might have smelled good.... the bedroom
might have been a lot of fun.... but as you can tell from my channel I'm a deep thinking guy,
I'm analytical, calculated, I'm the kind that wants to have a conversation about an array of topics...
not just reality television like Love Island or Instagram and Social Media.... not about money or
designer clothes, or cars or vacations... there's more to life than superficial nonsense, and sadly
the hot women I was attracting and dating, were just not offering any intellectual stimulation...
Now gentlemen I'm not saying never date an attractive woman here, not in the
slightest, you need to be with someone you find attractive and vice versa that's the first step....
but looks fade over time, and what you once found gorgeous... you may find very irritating...
I dated a narcissist for years and she was one of the most beautiful women I'd ever seen....
yet she was toxic, a narcissist, and a disaster to be around... "But, but she's hot!" Yeah I get that
but she was a living nightmare! Unless you've been there and experienced that, you wouldn't understand...
not to mention she wasn't the sharpest tool in the box, making even the most basic of conversations
painful... So try choosing connection, conversation, vibe...prioritize that over just raw attraction
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I touched on this in the previous point, but because most men idolize
women to the point of just begging for a slither of their time and attention....
Narcissism has been on the meteoric rise! Some very attractive women have become more rude entitled
because of this! They believe they are "special" just because they look good in makeup! They can snap
their fingers and men will do anything! They can act rude, arrogant, and behave as badly as they wish,
and who gets burnt and screwed over in this process? You the guy! The man who put her on
a pedestal because she had a pretty face, a lovely body, and she looked good in her pictures, or maybe
in real life...Now do not get me wrong there are plenty of unattractive women who are extremely
narcissistic entitled and so on, but let me focus on the hot type you are most likely fixated with...
I'm telling you this first hand from the scars and wounds of a toxic relationship with a beautiful
narcissist = expect drama, problems, to feel on edge, to feel insecure constantly, to be always jealous
of the most minor things, to never ever have your emotional needs met...Dating a narcissist
was so impactful in my life that it inspired me to create this channel to warn others of the dangers!
Look not all women are toxic, but as DR Glover says "looks fade, but bad behavior lasts forever!" Do you
want to spend the rest of your life with someone potentially toxic, just because they look super hot?
"But I want to date a hot girl!" you might say, every guy does... but as you mature and grow up..
you realize there is more to a good healthy and genuine relationship than nice boobs and a
pretty face! That gets boring fast and annoying, if they're toxic trust me on this! I want you guys to
be happy more than anything, to get out of the mentality of chasing the unattainable, the thing
that you can't have and so on. Which will lead me on to the next important point...
This is a severely underrated piece of advice and probably the most powerful when it comes
to this subject = choose women that choose you! It could sound optimistic or needy but choosing to
surround yourself with light white-minded women who value isn't wrong! It's a characteristic of
confidence to keep women around you who lift you up rather than tear you down. You know that girl
you think is kind of cute or is kind of sweet but you try and make excuses not to ask her out ...
or the one who texted you every now and again but you're like "I can't be bothered" or you don't think
she's traditionally hot, yes those girls or the one that's possibly checking you out right now as
you're watching this video if you're out and about! "But I can do better..." and miss out on potentially
fulfilling healthy fun times with a girl that digs your vibe? Sometimes men make their lives
unnecessarily more complicated than they should be. They do not pursue the women who pursue them,
the girls who text them back, who are really interested in them, who compliment them...
instead they chase unicorns because you know they look sexy and hot! They'd rather feed off
table scraps when they can have regular fun dating a woman who is genuinely into them!
Once I learned this powerful and effective tip it changed my luck with dating, and the irony in all
of this as my abundance grew = I attracted more attractive women, which was awesome!
Look I'm not telling you to drop your standards or settle for something average or toxic whatever...
but be open-minded! I'm telling you watch how much more fun and exciting dating will be
when you stop idolizing the women who've got hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers...
OnlyFans pages and so on and so forth...who bombarded with men and are toxic to begin with...
Instead look at the women who reply to you, who smile at your texts, who are so up for a drink,
or sleeping with you and hanging out with you! This is a very simple yet very VERY powerful tip...