- Now when I say the words "attractive woman,"
what comes to your mind first?
Beautiful hair, perfect butt,
nice boobs, sexy lips?
You went physical on me, didn't you?
You thought of physical attraction first,
rather than the other type of attraction
which is what I'm gonna talk about in this video.
In this video right now,
I'm gonna be talking about how you can become
the most attractive woman he's ever met.
Keep watching.
(inspirational music)
Hey there, Adam Little today from SexyConfidence.com
where I help the 21st century woman
create a love life that she absolutely, freaking loves.
This video is all about being the most attractive woman
that man has ever met.
Now I get it.
You've been told by society that physical qualities
are really what attracts men.
Well, I'm here to tell you that they are completely wrong.
Nice hair, big boobs, butt, face, they're all going to, yes,
physically attract men, make men pursue you,
and certainly make men want to sleep with you.
But it definitely doesn't mean
you're going to find a great relationship.
And as a matter of fact,
a lot of very physically attractive women
have a lot of dating troubles themselves.
Sorry Taylor, you'll find love someday.
(kiss)
And at the same time, many women who can learn
this one idea I'm gonna be talking about in this video,
they can be the most attractive woman a man has ever met
because that's gonna be harnessing this concept
that I call emotional attraction.
Emotional attraction is basically
where a man truly cares about you on an emotional level.
He wants to spend more time with you.
He wants to be around you because he loves your personality
and loves who you are.
Not so much a focus on your physical attraction.
Now I've been talking about emotional attraction
for the past five years.
I've been teaching this to so many millions of women
all across the world.
But I'm gonna talk about
just one emotional attraction trigger
that you really wanna focus in on when you first meet men.
The way to be the most attractive woman a man has ever met
is to be fun.
Now let's play another word association here.
What do you think of when I say,
"You and a guy should go have some fun."
You thought of sex, didn't you?
This video's not about having sex with a guy
in order to attract him.
That's what boring girls do in order to attract men.
This is all about being a unique personality
that just draws him in.
I want you to be the type of woman
who is playful and can have fun
and can enjoy your time when you're on a first date,
or a second date, or a third date.
Being a really attractive person in general and in life,
and by the way, the same thing goes for men,
is all about being playful and fun
and being able to really enjoy your time together.
Dating is all about the experience
that you have with one another,
and if that experience isn't playful and fun,
he's not gonna wanna have another one.
So for starters, tease him a little bit.
It's okay to have a little bit of fun.
If he says something a little ridiculous, poke fun of him.
It's okay.
I remember when I first met Jessica
almost three years ago now,
one of the first things I remember about her
is that she was completely willing
to call me out on my bullshit.
She had no problem making fun of me
if I said something a little bit outrageous,
and she had no problem making fun of me
if I was going a little bit over the top
in trying to impress her.
And I found this incredibly attractive.
On that same note,
feel free to be a little bit sarcastic sometimes.
Now if you use sarcasm too much,
yes, it can be definitely overwhelming,
and I'm sure you've met a guy
who was just way to sarcastic and he couldn't just be real.
But at the same time,
if you find that you're not being playful on dates,
you're not having a good time,
or especially if you're meeting guys online,
feel free to use a little bit of sarcasm.
You'll spice up the conversation a little bit.
Next, be a little bit impulsive.
Are you on date with a guy,
and the conversation's getting a little bit dull?
Well maybe grab his hand, tell him to come with you,
and go play the basketball game while you're out on a date.
And finally, don't be afraid to have some inside jokes.
Inside jokes are a great way to really be able to bond
because it's really something that only you two know about.
It's kinda like this secret that no one else knows about,
and once you start to develop inside jokes
and create them as you get to know a guy,
it's amazing how much it brings you two together.
Now you're noticing a theme about all this.
It's all about being playful and fun.
But I need you to remember, of course,
I'm not saying that relationships
and who you ultimately settle down with
needs to be this laid back process.
I want you to be very playful
when you're going out on a date,
when you're talking to people,
when you're meeting new people.
But be very serious and intentional
about who you settle down with.
The worst thing that you can do
when you are going out and dating and meeting new guys,
is to apply that seriousness, and that focus,
and that interview style to a first date.
I can almost guarantee you
that if you are sitting down across from a guy
and you are being totally serious
and telling him how important it is
for you to find a relationship,
I guarantee he will never, ever call you again.
So there you have it.
You can be the most attractive woman he's ever met
if you can apply playfulness to your encounters together.
So I wanna hear from you in the comments right there below.
Do you also find it attractive
when a man can be playful with you?
Leae a comment below.
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And finally, if you wanna learn the three step process
to getting back out there and attracting the one
and finding the relationship that you truly deserve,
go ahead and click right over there,
or click in any of the links that are on this video,
or maybe up there,
and I cannot wait to help you find the love of your life.
Thank you so much for watching,
and I'll speak to you, you sexy single lady, next week.
Buh-bye.