You saw have doubts about like being ready for all of this
I've honestly been struggling with that
It's like I know that I'd have that times been like I want to go home like and honestly
It's like I I can't help feeling that like right now it doesn't have anything do with my relationship with Arie
But it's like I would love right now
Although this is so beautiful. And I'm loving being in Italy like I want to be in my house with my family and my friends
Becca in she's a great girl than like she's very smart and intelligent. She's great to be around
But we also know that she's 22 and I feel like she has a lack of seriousness in this
situation, you know, this is something I do take very seriously and to feel like she doesn't
Kind of worries me
How beautiful this is no so beautiful I feel like it is my duty almost just to let him know how I'm feeling
I'm looking out for Ari and trying to protect his heart and all of this
just like I have to feel like I have a lot to say and it's like stressing me out, and I don't like
Feeling like I'm petty you're talking about people
But your heart is on the line here and like this is serious for you
And that's why I just wanted to say my piece about
how I feel about Becca and move on and I
Just feel like she made me like on a different page than the rest of us, and that's not even
to blame on age or immaturity or whatever but maybe just like lack of experience and not
Really having that feeling of being in love before to realize that this is very serious
that's just something that's
Really bothersome knowing how I feel about you and how I feel about this. Yeah
I I wouldn't yeah wouldn't really harp too much on that. Yeah. Yeah. Um
It's just easy to compare when you're on a date with
What do other yeah, yeah. Oh, I'm just very on edge. I'm like the last person to talk to him
Yeah, like in the whole week
Yeah
Can I tell you something that's been like on my mind yeah
like I came into this whole thing like
Knowing I was ready for marriage and not having any doubts about it
Yeah, so it is like worried something bothers them to hear that you or anyone else
Does have those doubts yet? Because I know I'm taking this very seriously
Before you go talk to Ari like I did kind of
Mention it to him that I feel like a lot of us are serious
And it makes me nervous to think that you could break his heart. I
Don't expect anything I say to change his mind or change his decision, I think you feel strongly for you
It's just at the end of the day like he is looking for his wife and
I just want you to be for sure and how you're feeling
I feel like a big sister or like I don't know I know
Hey filler, and I feel misunderstood
Hey, what's the matter?
What isn't it
I don't like when I'm not Seaver
I
Feel like I just got kicked in the stomach
Yet she basically told Ari that she questions if I'm
Ready for marriage and ready for this like everyone else is here
Breathe
I wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be here if I didn't care about Ari at this point
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