This video is about = "Results Happen When You Stop Caring!" When you stop caring so much these things
will occur in your life for the better... To find out what they are, please stay tuned to this video...
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What does it mean to "stop caring?" That could mean so many different things.... it's hard to pinpoint
you could stop caring about the acceptance of other people, or about the pursuit of money (the
rat race) or about wanting to fit in with people so badly (kind of acceptance again)
or what others think in general of you, your family etc, or trying to please people... whether
it's professionally or personally (or both). When you stop caring = results happen! You do attract that
right partner... you can land that dream job... you get that break in your business ... success and happiness
can fall on your lap! Don't ask me why this is the case, it just happens! However that doesn't mean
you've got to sit on your backside or lay down and do nothing... it means to not actually get too
emotionally worked up, stressed or worried.... because that only damages your life and whilst
results do often happen when you are stressed even, it's not the best way to approach this...
Life is suffering and there are many setbacks we experience along the way...I know a guy that always
crumbles at the slightest problem... takes him ages to recover... but I also know another person that
no matter what or how hurt he gets... he picks himself up and keeps going! Of course he cares
but at the same time he sees the bigger picture, he knows he's got to keep going no matter what!
I've seen people work their butts off all their lives with no results... and I've seen others work
the bare minimum and have an abundance of success! Are they just lucky? No they simply don't care
and yet the results happen! It's a combination of taking the risk, and hard consistent
work but having an abundance mentality - that regardless of what happens = you're cool with it
and you just keep going! Here are some examples of how results happen when you stop caring =
This is straight up facts = the less you care when it comes to loving relationships
and dating - the more attractive you are, and that's for men and women! Now it does not mean
loving or caring your partner (not at all) it means that even if the relationship ends
you're fine, especially in the dating stage! When I was single, I was so desperate for a girlfriend...
to get married.... how my life has changed since this pandemic... now I'm in no rush, I go with the flow and
I've become more attractive naturally to single women, because I don't put any unnecessary pressure
don't come across needy, and I'm not begging to see them. A woman i know (who is stunning and so smart)
cannot find a man = "i just want to be loved! Why won't anyone love me?!" she moans. Well because you
care too much my dear! She comes from a traditional family where they pressure her into marriage all the
time...all of her friends are engaged or have kids and are married, and she feels like she's
left out! She goes on dates attracting the wrong sorts of guys, is lost and depressed about it...
"I try to go on dates yet here I am, still single!" she says, and she really is a catch!
So even a beautiful successful woman (who is overly sweet) cannot find love! What if she stopped caring
though? Saw dating as more of an experience and fun (not saying that she needs to sleep around) but
didn't put that pressure on herself? Another woman I know did this and found the love of her life!
She dated outside of her culture... religion was not a big deal to her and was fed up with her
family pressuring her, and she's never been happier! "I found the love of my life" she said
"...when I stopped caring!" The same goes for guys and me, and I stopped carrying forcing dates
relationships to be serious I felt free, I was more open-minded!
Life is too short to focus on one particular type of person and one type of relationship and so on....
If you want to have more success in love = stop caring! I'm serious you will become irresistible
to the people you're dating, and go with the flow what's the rush? Enjoy your life!
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When you decide to stop caring = you officially remove the toxic people in your life....
toxic family members who are disrespecting you.... toxic friends who bully and abuse you, and the
toxic job, colleagues, boss who mistreats you.... you have the confidence to say = "you know what"
"I don't need this crap anymore and I'm out of here!" and you walk away and you stay away...
When you care too much you're putting up with too much of other people's problems and rubbish...
sometimes narcissistic abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, drama.... stress....Yes you might say
"but they're my family... they're my friends...I have to see them! I've got to have them in my life!" Is what
you say to yourself.... you try and convince yourself that you haven't got a choice, and then what gets
resolved? Does it ever improve? Does anything ever get any better? No = fights break out more, resentment
grows, drama increases, you read up about narcissism and other behavior, and nothing gets better....
When my Dad died ...family and friends were actually fighting amongst themselves! I cannot tell you how
awful that was to see.... it was utter utter hell and it got me thinking "do I need to put up with this?"
"Why do I care?" Maybe you were conditioned by culture, religion, society, family to do so....
enough's enough! I've stopped caring about things like that and the toxic individuals
who try to ruin and disrupt my life, and I've walked away now.... there are less fights
less stress, less drama from cutting them out, and I'm far happier as a result! Would anything have
been resolved had I stayed, tried reasoning, talking it through with the toxic people? Probably not....
But by not caring (finally) and walking away (no contact) results have improved tremendously!
The next results that happen when you stop caring is you put yourself first! One of my mentors said
about friends I asked "who's your best friend?" and he said "my best friend's my wallet!" It was a bit of a
confusing thing to say but he went on "as long as I can financially support myself," he said "I don't...
"rely on anyone, and I can pay my own way in life! I don't need anybody. I can go out to eat by myself...."
"travel by myself.... work for myself.... treat myself to whatever I wish...I can treat myself to an"
"ice cream or I could treat myself to a holiday!" When you stop caring you finally for the first
time in your life put yourself as number one! You matter (I swear you do) your voice matters
you have worth... you deserve success, happiness and when you stop caring...I guarantee you it will come!
A man I know gave his now ex-wife everything to make her happy! He became a millionaire and treated
her to the best life possible, but she was bored and decided for (no logical reason at all)
she wants to get divorced! He did everything he could to keep her around.... he spent a fortune
on gifts, trips, begged for her to reconsider... but her mind was set, and she still wanted a split....
Since splitting and losing a fortune in court from divorce, he stopped caring he said "I did
everything to keep her, it wasn't enough... so I'm just going to make my life about me..." He worked
hard on himself in his recovery, doubled down on his business to make up for the financial loss
started getting fit and healthy, working out... he did things he never thought he could do, and obviously
stuff he couldn't do when he was married, and he turned his life around for the better! Then one day
out of the blue his ex-wife turned up randomly at his brand new home.... to see him with another woman
His ex-wife begged for him back whilst he said "sorry" and slowly closed the door on her face...
"I no longer cared ,despite my split, I somehow got happier and turned my life around by doing so..."
Nobody's going to care about you more than YOU... nobody! So you might as well start looking after
yourself Pronto! And maybe get your money right because maybe also your best friend is your wallet....
The moment you stop caring you become more aware of your life, and circumstances...
seriously because you start putting the emphasis on other people, other things, stuff you can't
control at all....you snap back into reality! I did this when I stopped caring about a toxic
EX after a very rough breakup - I realized to myself = "my god was I with such a toxic person!"
I let myself go....I stopped pursuing things I liked... I was depressed, the hell was I thinking?! When we
care too much we can often sleepwalk like a zombie dangerously throughout our life, career and so
on in marriages and relationships.... where we're miserable.... we're not compatible and we're with
each other because we hate being single or for the kids.... in jobs we despise.... in careers we loathe
because it pays the bills.... associating with friends who are secretly envious, or they actually hate us
beneath the surface....Results occur and changes happen the moment you stop caring ....Literally
because you notice how people can be toxic and you're not so naive....
your job may not be what you genuinely want out of life ...you're perhaps living in the wrong town, city,
country.... you're on an unhealthy diet and you've been convinced that this is the right way...
you may be an addict (I was for a long time) you may have insecurities and so on, but when
you stop carrying the awareness (like a penny finally dropping) happens! You see the truth, the
reality of your existence.... your eyes hurt because you've never had to use them before! You also know
what you need to do to improve on things... trust me this works... it's immensely powerful! You don't
have to be a jerk or a horrible person... you just awaken and the results happen....
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