Hi, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours and today on the channel, we are going into five
unusual ways to impress him on a first date. These are really cool. Stay tuned
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All right, unusual ways to impress a guy on a first date. Now we all know the common ones.
We all know confidence is impressive, we all know passion is impressive, we all know intelligence
is impressive, things like that. But what are some more unusual ways to impress the
guy and what are some things that guys are looking for that really stand out? Well, the
first one is simply this. Have other people warm to you. You see on a date it's really
easy to get focused on the one person and men do this as well and forget everyone else
who's around. One of the most impressive things I've seen and what I've spoken to men and
they've seen as well is when a woman's able to make amazing impressions on others who
are around. So when the Uber driver or when the waitress or even an elderly gentleman
in an elevator, when they respond to you in a warm, excited way and the guy sees that,
that is going to be so impressive to him.
So men are so used to having someone focused on them during the date. And when you show
that as part of your world, you radiate a lot that just draws others in and warms others
and that they want to spend time around you. It communicates to the guy that you have a
presence that he is going to want to be around in the future. The second one is this, be
willing to break rapport. You see, again, when we're on a date, we really want things
to go well and we want to share common interests and find common interests with that person.
So it's tempting when we like someone a little too much to not want to disagree with them
at all. Let's say for example, you're not a strong dog or cat person, but you tend to
prefer cats and he makes a statement like, "God, dogs is so much better than cats. Like
they friendly and they're cool. I just, I'm such a dog person. Can't believe anyone could
be a cat person." And he says, what about you? It's tempting when you hear this to want
to kind of agree with him and go, yeah, no, dogs are pretty cool in that way. Or even
if you're on the fence to just say, look, I could go either way, but what really stands
out so guys, when you are willing to hold your own and speak your opinions to him, when
you say no, actually I'm more of a cat person, I think they're more independent and just
find cooler and you can get into a fun little debate with him about that. A guy's going
to respect that because he knows you're not going to change who you are or your opinions
for him, no matter how much you like him and it makes him see you as a cut above.
Number three, show him you don't have an agenda. No one likes agendas in dating. If you've
ever had a guy come at you and just wants sex and to just talk to you because you can
sense that he has an agenda and just want sex, you know what a turn off that is. Well,
men are also used to meeting women who come at them with an agenda for relationship, so
when you just show that you're there purely to get to know him. You're not wanting anything
out of it. You're just spontaneous and enjoying it for what it is. A guy is going to notice
that. It's going to stand out. He's going to go, who is this high value woman and how
is she so happy in her life that she doesn't want anything from me? She's just happy exactly
where she is. She's not putting pressure on, she's just getting to know me.
The irony of this is that he then wonders why you're so high value and wants to get
you into a relationship. Even if you're really into him, if you show men that you're still
expecting them to qualify themselves to you and you're still just taking things as they
come and enjoying it for what it is, a guy is going to be seriously impressed.
Number four, offer to pay for yourself on dates. I cannot tell you how big of a turn
on it is when a woman offers to pay herself and pays her share. Now, whether the guy chooses
to be chivalrous and reject your offer or chooses to accept it, it's the offer that's
most important. When you offer to pay for yourself or communicate something really powerful
that you believe you are his equal. This is seriously impressive to men. You see no one
likes entitlement, right?
He doesn't want to feel like you have this entitlement opinion where you're entitled
for him to pay just because you're a female. Just as he shouldn't feel entitled to sex
because he pays. No one likes entitlement in dating. It's a huge turnoff. So make sure
you offered a pay for yourself. Show that you believe you're his equal in that way and
that you want to contribute and hopefully he rejects your offer. And will be chivalrous
regardless. Fifth one is simply this, outwit him. If you can have fun little social debates
with a guy where you outwit him and out-sass him, he is going to be so impressed on a first
date. Like let's say he says to you, "See, I'm a dog person. This is why I'm cooler than
you. I'm actually fun to be around." And you say to him, "Oh yeah, right, so this means
you come when called and I get to tell you what to do. Yeah, now, you and me, we're going
to work out really well here." If you can have fun little debates like that with him
and put him on his heels, he is going to be seriously impressed by that. Now it does take
practice. It's not something that certainly didn't come naturally to me and doesn't always
come naturally, but the more you practice, the more you get out there and meet men, have
fun and just be in the moment. The more that relaxed sass is going to flow through you
and you are going to have fun little debates where you outwit men. Well, those are the
five unusual ways you can impress him on a first date. Thank you so much for watching.
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