i am going to tell you exactly how i
began my journey
in the high society and it actually all
started here
in rome where i am right now
first of all apologies for this
sound might be a little bit windy as i
record this and also
the fact that i'm wearing sunglasses but
literally it's so bright here that i can
barely keep my eyes open so i'm just
going to keep
the sunglasses on as i tell you this
little story about
when i lived in italy when so as you
guys might see i am currently in rome
rome italy what an amazing place to be
so much
history so much beautiful scenery
this is definitely one of my favorite
cities in the world
and i happen to have lived here when i
was
19 years old so rome was actually the
place that
was the beginning of my jet setting
journey
when i was 19 i finished high school and
i i was living in sweden i grew up in
sweden for those of you who don't know
and as soon as i was done with high
school there i had planned to
leave the country asap because i knew
that there was no
future for me in my own country even
though sweden and stockholm is quite
developed but
i just felt something inside me that
there was nothing
nothing there for me that was really
going to take me to
where i wanted to be so when i was
growing up i had never liked any plans
that
i wanted to become like this kind of jet
setter or
create like a more luxurious lifestyle
for myself i just really knew that i
wanted to
travel a lot see what's out there and
kind of just
explore world and take it from there but
then i
decided that i wanted to go to italy and
i decided on italy because
i had been to italy before with my
parents and my parents spoke so highly
about it so i thought that
italy is a perfect place for me to kind
of
start my adult years because don't
forget i was 19. i didn't
really know anything i was green i had
no experience
so i decided on rome and what i did was
that
i i didn't really have any money to
support myself or i was never going to
really ask my parents for money so
instead i actually took a student loan
and took a one year
italian language course in rome
so that decision was what really put me
on the jet set map this decision of
okay i'm going to leave my country
behind i'm going to take this
one year and let's see what happens
after and
i don't know anybody where i'm going but
i'm going to do it anyway because
i don't want to wait for life to happen
i need to create life because life
is not going to wait for me and of
course
everybody always asks me so how come you
went to italy all by yourself weren't
you scared weren't you
worried why didn't you go with friends
and this is the thing
like nobody of those people who i grew
up with or those who i knew back then
nobody wanted to go travel nobody wanted
to do really anything
people were like hesitating between like
oh maybe i should like continue study
after
yeah maybe i will just go like study
some course at university
and i just felt like well why why should
i go to university and like kind of
waste my time like studying
something that i'm not really going to
use because obviously back then i was 19
i still didn't know what i really wanted
to do with my life
i mean how many people in that age do
actually know what they want to do
not many and usually what happens is
that people either end up in a job they
don't like because
they make a decision when they're 19 or
they end up changing the route later
so i knew that i was not mature to take
a decision what i wanted to do
with my career life so i felt like for
me it totally made sense to go traveling
so traveling i went and ended up being
wrong
so anyway i took the student loan and
thank god i live in a country or lived
lived in sweden where they're very
generous with giving you student loans
and they encourage people to travel they
encourage people to study languages
and that type of thing so so that really
worked out in my benefit
so i went to rome and i still remember
so clearly
even though it was such a long time ago
my first impressions and my first
kind of my first days even
well i can really even remember clearly
my first
24 hours it was such a rush you know
being in this foreign country all by
yourself
you don't know anybody your parents are
not there
nobody's there you don't know anybody
and that's when i really realized i'm
like oh my god
i don't know anyone here i don't know
anybody
i am free as a bird like i can be
whoever i want to be
i can do whatever i want to do there's
no rules for me like
like really the world is my oyster so i
think
having that in mind really
opened up myself a lot meaning that i
became very outgoing
and i was really not afraid so people
would feel very like maybe
um timid they would maybe go inside
themselves
me okay i didn't know anybody so what
did i do when i arrived to rome
i went just walking every day
all by myself just walking walking
sitting in cafes
um sitting on park benches sitting on
benches like
you know stupid things but you know what
that actually made
me start talking to people random people
i spoke to tourists i spoke to expats i
spoke to
romans i spoke to people
who were in the same position as me
really that's how easy it was
just by being by yourself just by being
outgoing
just by having the courage of not hiding
somewhere
which is taking yourself and putting
kind of yourself on the map so that was
my first beginning in rome that was like
my baby steps
and thank god for those baby steps
because i did make friends after like
two weeks after two weeks in rome i
already had loads of friends to go out
with
i even made a few friends in my school
in my language school
but you know it was just like a domino
effect
you walk around you go to a few places
even if it's just by yourself
you start talking to people or people
start talking to you
and if you are not rude if you if you
don't have bad energy
if you're not a close boring person then
you will attract people and that's
really what what happened for me and
that's what really put me
on the map in rome even when i was 19
years old
zero experience no plan
all by myself and it worked out
and i met so many friends and
not only that did i make so many friends
it was the beginning
of my path towards what i teach
to you right now luxury lifestyle just
setting
i had no plan whatsoever that i was
gonna you know become a jet set babe or
try and like social climb and
try and meet wealthy people or meet a
wealthy man or anything i had
zero plans like that at all i was a bit
naive i was a bit innocent
and for me it was just all let's see
what happens and
i was more of a yes sayer than a no
sayer so i think that kind of helped me
a lot as well
so of course what happened well i
started i made a few girlfriends
not really italian girlfriends because
italian girlfriends they tend
to not really want to socialize too much
with the foreigners so
i made a lot of expat friends
girlfriends
there's a lot of american girls in rome
so i made friends with them there's a
lot of language students here so
i made friends with those those became
my friends a lot of international people
girlfriends male friends actually made a
lot of italian meal friends but
looking back at it listen i'm not really
sure they were really my true friends
male friends i'm sure they were just
like hitting on you but you're not
really realizing it
i made some friends to be able to um
you know go out and party a little bit
and that's what i did you know i went
out
to the clubs every year almost every day
i know but i mean listen i was 19. what
does a 19 year old want to do
of course go out and party and back then
i didn't used to drink any alcohol so
but i used to love to dance so i used to
go out to all the clubs
and dance and just like really enjoy
myself and never drink so i lost
so much weight i think i've never been
more skinny than when i used to live in
rome
i was so skinny so i used to be out in
these clubs every night and also that
makes you start getting to know people
i started to get to know like people who
work in the night club
industry and i actually started working
a little bit myself at these nightclubs
with like doing hostessing
so that really brought in some spare
income which i was like super happy
about but at the same time
it also made me get this opportunity to
meet people
and i quickly i guess i always have this
instinct that i really enjoy
being surrounded with wealthy people in
luxurious
settings um perhaps living a luxurious
lifestyle
so as i was in rome i kind of seeked
myself
naturally towards that direction i
wanted to go
towards where the classy people were
where the elegance were where people
were well dressed
i didn't want to go towards the people
or the crowd where people
were like drinking beer and sitting on
the pavements you know what i mean i
really wanted to have a more of a class
experience so
subconsciously even though i was only 19
years old and didn't know
that much about life i still seek that
out so i started to go to these type of
places in rome
and as you go there you know you're
you're a woman
and you're young and you're outgoing and
you're having a good time and
you know that that puts attention on you
and if you have a good
like good vibe about yourself people
notice you
and that's when i met my first boyfriend
in rome
a very rich kid i come from a very
high end old money family so i met him
in the nightclub and we were just like
i think we've met around the bar or
something we just started talking to
each other
and he was very like handsome good
looking you could see for miles and he
had money
but like i wasn't really paying so much
attention to that i was very innocent
back then
i'm still innocent by the way no but now
i just have more experience so i kind of
know the game better but back then i
didn't really have
i didn't really care but so we started
seeing each other and we had an amazing
time together and he was really the one
who
opened up the doors for me towards
digested life towards the luxury
lifestyle
he showed that world to me because i
didn't really know anything about the
world before
of course i had experienced a little bit
of that in sweden before i i moved
abroad but
other than that i was foreign to it i
was
i was like a new kid on the block new
kid on the block without a plan
you know so he really took me under his
wing
we did so much fun together we traveled
together
we we you know we were like inseparable
you know in the beginning and it was
like an amazing time it was like truly
a super nice italian romance and i still
like look back at it with a smile but
he really showed me that world he
introduced me to so many of his you know
wealthy friends and
we went to some really amazing places
together
and i was like wow this world is
amazing this world is crazy and
he was really taking good care of me he
was spoiling me with
gifts he was treating me really well a
true gentleman even though he was
more or less my age i mean i was 19 i
think he was 22
but he was educated on that level that
for him it was second nature you know
because he comes from a family like that
so after having had that treatment i
really
understood that okay this is pretty good
and it's gonna be difficult for me to go
back to something else after
so that's kind of that was actually what
was really the beginning of
how i became who i am today
and what i mean by that who i am today
is that a person who
has an interest in the finer things in
life
a person who knows that i can achieve a
certain level of lifestyle
and a person who actually goes for that
and you know what the reason why i teach
women
about this and why i want to encourage
more women to kind of
help themselves in this world and if
they are
inclined towards the finer things in
life then just go after that
because the truth is it is accessible to
everybody
but not everybody is going to go after
it this lifestyle presented it by itself
for me and that's
how i took the opportunity to pursue it
even after
because obviously me and this guy we
broke up you know it didn't last too
long we were seeing each other for
a few months maybe i don't i don't even
remember but after
after being with him i just knew that
this is this is exactly the direction i
want to go
and i know i can achieve it i've had it
already
and i know i probably can even do better
and as i
started evolving in the kind of high
society environment i
met a lot of girls who were like fruit
much further ahead than me
because i was just a beginner back then
i didn't understand anything
and these girls you know they i i
saw what how much they were getting out
of this lifestyle
they were living really the good life
they were so well taken care of et
cetera
and i was telling myself i'm like wow
well if they can do it and you know
they come from all kinds of backgrounds
and they not all of them are like
supermodels then i will be able to do
this myself
but i knew that there was some form of
formula behind it because
how come not everybody's doing it then
so that was
13 years ago when i first started
all of this and it feels super nostalgic
being here right now
so the whole point with this story is
that i really want to encourage
people to go outside their comfort zone
and change countries
if necessary i personally feel if i
didn't change country
um if i didn't go to italy if i was
still in sweden like i would not be
where i am right now
i would not have experienced as many
incredible things as i have
during these 13 years that really put me
on the map of
where i am today and where i actually
wanted to end up
i know a lot of girls are like maybe
living in smaller cities maybe they
are in places that won't really take
them far and i don't really say that
everybody has to be in a very big city
or
be like in london paris new york but
it's definitely good to travel
and really good to try and at least live
once
in a city that is not your own and
perhaps and preferably a bit of a bigger
city than perhaps the one you used to
because it really makes so much
difference and just makes
you change so much as a person i can't
describe what it is
it really forces you to be the person
you really should be it really forces
you to be more outgoing
and live in the now and really grab
opportunities that are offered to you
right here right now
we are just too much in a safe bubble
when we are in our comfort zone
and that's why life doesn't really
evolve so much when we're just like
living in our city and
you know years go by
so girls often ask me well do i have to
relocate in order to
become a jester babe in order to create
an affluent life for myself well
no yes or no it depends it really
depends on your circumstances but most
importantly
it depends how much effort are you
willing to make where you are right now
because if you just like transfer
yourself from to a different place
you're going to see that you might end
up making so much more effort
than being super comfortable in the
couch at home
what happened after rome well i did the
jet setting here and really i started
doing actually quite well towards the
end of my journey here i was only here
for one year
but in the end i just got a bit fed up
of the city and
i wanted to go to ibiza so because i
heard the italians speak so much about
ibiza
so i managed to find a job in ibiza and
just relocate it
but that's a different story for a
different video
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started jet setting etc
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i see you in the next video bye from me
and bye from rome