- Hi, this is Marisa,
and today I'm gonna talk to you
about something so important,
something actually essential.
How to re-program your subconscious mind
to get what you want.
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I used to have an agony column
who would write to me all the time going
I don't know what's wrong with me
and I can't get what I want from life
and I self-sabotage and I've got
all these destructive habits
and I guess I was just born like that.
And I'd right back and go,
you know that's not true.
No baby is born saying how can I sabotage myself?
How can I destroy my confidence?
You are born with phenomenal confidence.
And many of us don't understand
that our subconscious mind is an amazing tool
but it's almost like the instructions are in German
and you don't speak it
or the instructions are non-existent.
You know, I, I stay in Airbnbs all over the world
and I often happen to find
that they've got some weird washing machine
with no instructions and I can't use it
'cause I don't know what to do
or I can only do one cycle and never get the best of it
and our mind is pretty much the same.
We come onto the planet with an amazing,
phenomenal, incredible, impressive mind
and your mind has a job
and it's a great job, your mind's job is
to do what you tell it to do.
And you have a job and your job is
to tell your mind exactly what you want using
specific, detailed language.
Let me say that again
because it is so important
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'cause most of your friends have the same issue.
They don't understand the power of their mind.
And they have no idea how to use it.
Your mind's job is to do
what it thinks you want it to do,
based very much on what you tell it,
based on the language you use
and your job, and it is such an important job, is
to tell your mind exactly what
you want using relevant, up to date, powerful,
incredible, exciting, descriptive words.
And I'm going to tell you why.
First of all, the mind can only work in the present tense.
Many people go, next year, I'm gonna have a bikini body,
next year, I'm gonna be so wealthy,
next year, I'm gonna have love,
next year, I'm gonna be happy.
And you see, the mind doesn't know what next year is.
In the same way that when you say
to a child, we're doing that tomorrow,
they go is it tomorrow, today?
Is it yesterday, today?
Because they can't future pace.
The mind actually isn't great at future pacing,
you have to say now.
I am becoming super successful now,
I'm joyously happy now,
I'm attracting the most amazing,
wondering, lasting love now, right now.
And if you add the words now and right now
to things that you want,
your mind understands, oh you want this?
I better action this.
Whereas next year, five years from now, I'm gonna be happy,
your mind doesn't really know what that means.
The mind works in the present tense only.
It's why people who are depressed can't
imagine getting better.
It's why when you're in pain,
it's very hard to imagine no pain
because the mind works in the present tense.
Secondly, the mind only responds to words that make pictures
and the more clear and vivid and detailed, the better.
If you say, well, I'm never going to eat cake again,
I'm just not ever going to eat cake,
I'm not interested in cake, cake doesn't thrill me.
What you're saying is I am interested in cake
and cake thrills me and I need to eat cake again
because the words no, not, don't, don't work.
Saying to your kid, don't touch that vase,
they hear touch the vase.
You go, I've got such a weird kid,
every time I say don't touch that, they touch it.
That's because the mind doesn't hear
the words don't, doesn't understand the words don't
and does not act on the words don't.
Have you done a New Years Eve resolution?
Never eat chocolate again, how long did that last?
Probably days, (laughs) after not long at all.
So, you cannot prefix with don't, not, never
because it doesn't work
and thirdly, the words you use must be exciting,
dramatic, powerful and super descriptive.
Here is a rule of the mind.
The way you feel about anything,
at any time, is down to two things,
the pictures you make in your head
and the words you say to yourself.
We all make pictures and words.
Successful people make powerful pictures and exciting words
and people who are not successful make
negative pictures and negative words.
I'm gonna get sick now because winter's come,
it's flu season, I'm gonna get sick
'cause I ate that food and I don't think
the waiter's hands were very clean
and I'm gonna get tired 'cause I've been up all night,
the neighbor's dog was barking.
People who succeed say I've got a fantastic,
rock hard constitution, I can sleep through anything.
So, the situation doesn't change,
they both sleep with a barking dog,
they both eat in the same restaurant.
One has a belief, this is great
and the other has a belief, this will make me sick.
So, you have to use very, very exciting words.
People say to me, you know, I'm meditating
and I say things like everyday in everyway
life is getting better and better,
that is a completely useless waste of your time.
Try to picture that, everyday in everyway
my life is getting better and better.
Is that vivid?
Is that descriptive?
Is that exciting?
Is that detailed?
Is that set your mind on fire
with passion and direction?
No, of course it doesn't.
Now, say something else.
I have a skill and a passion and drive and determination
and I am going towards my dream career
like a magnet, like a laser.
I'm skilled, I'm gifted or I'm a lovable person.
I'm lovable and warm and amazing
and I'm finding who I want
and they are finding me.
That makes a picture whereas,
I'm looking for love, that doesn't really make a picture.
So, the wording is so important.
You must use dynamic words, descriptive words
and even the words you put in front of words.
So, saying I am motivated and passionate
and driven is an amazing word, saying
my body is a wellness producing machine
or saying my body is a fricking awesome,
wellness producing machine makes a very different picture
to I'm trying not to get ill.
I'm hoping not to get depressed.
I'm trying not to get fat.
No, you say I have a phenomenal,
extraordinary, super efficient, fantastic metabolic rate
and my body burns off whatever I eat,
I eat good stuff, healthy stuff
and if occasionally, I eat not so good, doesn't matter.
My brilliant body, my phenomenal metabolic rate use
everything I eat to build a perfect body for me
and I have a phenomenal, incredible metabolism.
Here's another one that will help.
I have an extraordinary, foolproof, dependable memory.
Your mind goes, I know what that means,
extraordinary, foolproof, dependable.
Those words make sure a clear image of what you want
and even better, you say to your mind,
you know what mind, what I want,
what I insist on, what I require of myself everyday is
a foolproof, incredible, awesome,
phenomenal, dependable memory.
Now, try doing this.
I don't wanna forget things anymore.
I mustn't forget, I must remember,
I mustn't forget, I must remember.
You can see that, that doesn't work.
Turn your mind on, set your mind on fire with words.
Reprogram your subconscious mind for success.
Remember it has a job and its job is
to do what you tell it.
Your job is to tell it exciting things,
understanding the prerequisite.
I must speak in the present tense.
I must add in the words now, right now.
I must use really exciting words
that are descriptive and make a clear picture
so my mind knows.
And even the words I put in front of words,
they work, absolutely they work.
Do this for yourself, do this for your friends,
especially do this with your children.
Not, oh well, you can't read.
You are a phenomenal reader,
your brilliant brain understands the words,
it understands the sentence.
You know, many years ago, I was driving my girl
to school and she said mummy, you know,
this book, this teacher's given me a book
and I'm five and this book says seven
and I can't read it.
I said, you know what darling,
your teacher must see in you
that you are so clever and so advanced
that's why she gave you that book
and she went and I can read it.
In a second, she went from I can't read it
'cause it says seven to oh, my teacher thinks
I got the brain of a seven year old
and she immediately read that book,
'cause, just because she told her mind something different.
It's too advanced, hey, I'm advanced.
I can do anything, I'm unstoppable, unshakeable
and they're great words to use
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So, it understands and delivers
and there is nothing better
than having a subconscious mind
that understands you and delivers
for you and with you and when you have that
you actually are unstoppable.
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because we'll all feel good about ourselves
and that's a great place to be,
especially when you are helping other people feel
as good about themselves and their lives as you do.
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you're not working for it.
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