Hey Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice.com. On today's video, I want to talk about how to get
a girl to fall for you. And I have 3 little hacks to do it. The reason why you want to
learn this is because when a woman is with you, dating you, spending time around you,
the whole idea is to get her first attracted to you, but then get her invested in you.
What does this mean? This means that when a woman spends more time with you, over time,
she starts to become more invested. And that means that she wants a return on her investment,
so to speak. So the more she spends time with you, the more she's going to want to spend more
time with you, assuming you don't do anything to turn her off. It's really important that you learn
some different ways to get her more invested so you can build the kind of relationship that
you're looking for. If you're looking for a casual relationship, or especially if you're looking for
a relationship that is long term, then you need to understand what makes her interested
and I have a couple things to do this. If you really want to learn how to get her hooked on you
and to build super attraction with her, you can check out my Hooked program. I'll put a
link down below. That is the program to get her hooked on you, to learn how to attract women,
how women experience attraction, and how to meet them and how to set up dates, so you
can have more success and get more women who you are dating. Check that out – Get Her Hooked.com,
link is down below. But let's get into some of these hacks here. The first hack
is breaking the touch barrier. There is a little technique in NLP, also known as Neuro Linguistic
Programming, that talks about breaking the touch barrier. When you just lightly touch someone,
just a light touch, doesn't have to be anything crazy. And that light touch and breaking the
touch barrier helps build rapport with the person. Here's the thing though; you don't want to do this
if she's not already somewhat attracted to you. Because if you touch her and she's
not really attracted to you, it's going to turn her off and push her in the opposite direction.
So don't think "you know what, she's not really interested me and Tripp told me I got to touch
her to get her to like me so I better touch her now." It doesn't work like that. Instead,
once you notice that she's paying attention to you and talking to you, maybe you guys are on a date,
maybe you're talking to her on some sort of approach, and you can tell that she's somewhat
engaged in the conversation and interested in having the conversation... that's when you
break the touch barrier. And the way that you're going to do this is just by exclaiming something,
or making some sort of statement on literally anything. One I like to do is maybe say to her
"You know what? I forgot to tell you something." And this is the hand that's slightly touching
her on the arm or this arm, wherever it is, or the back of her hand. "Oh, you know what,
I forgot to tell you something. Have you ever seen the movie (whatever)?" Or she says something like,
"I'm from California" and you go "Really? Wait a second, you're from California?" Again, this hand
is touching her arm right here. Any sort of exclamation, any sort of point you're making,
if you end up touching her this is a good little hack to build rapport. Hack number two:
so I'm kind of going in order from beginner novice and then advanced. Not that it's too advanced. But
I mean, just the idea of where you are in the courtship process or relationship with her.
That's one that's more in the beginning. Another one that's a little bit more in the middle, is
you're going to see her only once per week, two times, absolute max, when you're first starting
to date someone. Now I know you're gonna want to see her a lot more. But if you're that interested
in spending more time with women, you should be dating more than one one woman at a time. But
even if you are just trying to get a girlfriend or a relationship, you still want to see them one...
I'm really hesitatant on saying two because I don't want it to be
one to two times per week and you start doing it two times a week. I'd rather you
get to the point where it's one per week for a while and once in a while it's two per week. Why
am I saying this? Because if you end up spending too much time with her, the desire starts to wane,
meaning it starts to go away. You don't want to spend too much time with her. Because then if
you do, it doesn't give her the opportunity to chase you and we want her to chase you a little
bit. We don't want her to think that you want to see her all the time, even if you really do.
You want to make sure that you're staying busy, you're doing your hobbies and activities and
your work and hanging out with your friends, working on your goals, on personal development,
whatever it may be. And you're seeing her once or twice a week maximum. Again, this is going to
make her fall for you more because every time you guys get together, it's going to be that much more
special. And when you guys are apart it's going to make her miss you. And you might think Tripp,
if I only see her once a week she's going to be with that other guy that wants to see her
two to three times per week. She might, but that means that you were not able to do the things that
you needed to do to get her attracted in that one time that you guys spend time together. So
you got to make sure that when you guys spend time with each other on that once per week date
that you are building attraction and getting her really into you. One way to do that is if you guys
are sleeping together, this is going to make her much more invested in you and like you a lot. And
if you always have a date on the books, you should be good, which leads to my next hack. This one is
hard for people to swallow here, but gotta give it to you. When you're texting a woman, you only
want to be texting her to meet for logistics. Anything else that you text has to be something
that is somewhat building value. And you only want to do that like once
in the middle of the week after plans are set up. And maybe you're sending her a picture of like
a good meal that you're eating, or a picture of something interesting you're doing like some sort
of PG picture that can show her what you're up to, because that's going to make her a little bit more
curious and interested about you. But besides that, my main point here in this third hack
is only be texting her to set up a date, that way she's always confirmed for the date. She's
not like "Does he like me, does not like me? What's going on?" This is the way that you're
going to lead the relationship. The less that you text her, the more she's going to chase you,
the more intrigue is going to be built, the more mystery is going to be built, and she's gonna
want to see you and then the excited to see you when she does on that one to two times per week,
meeting or date. And the women that stick around here, the ones that really like you,
they're going to fall for you so hard. There are going to be some women that are going to fall to
the wayside. But guess what? Those women were not that interested to begin with. Understand that
that's going to happen, but it's inevitable that is probably going to happen anyways.
That's okay - we're filtering for women who have a high level of interest. I talk a lot
about this in my Hooked program. There's a link down below if you want to get that, but your game
plan is to make sure that you are filtering for women that have a high level of interest
and the high level of interest is the starting point. Then she's going to become even more
interested in you when you use these hacks - get more invested and then you have a woman that is
so interested in you. That's the best way to start off any sort of relationship.