so hello everyone so i'm just heading towards my library as you know my exams are just starting to
seven o'clock in the morning i'm in glasgow uk but that's not the point of this video
topic is very serious and if you are someone who is from middle class family
and this video especially for those guys and who want to study abroad
and you know sometimes they take a loan for 20 lakhs so recently i was just having a call with my
one of the friend he's in canada he has done his bachelor's he got some experience in india and now
he wanted to go in canada to do some master's degree just for some further education and
thereafter he just wanted to work in the chemistry field thereafter so i was just talking to him that
house stuff going on in canada like and he brought up a very important topic he said that he has
actually dropped out of his degree program which he went for he say a lot of students who go to
canada or study abroad they can drop drop out from their degree program because it's more expensive
and then they go ahead they start doing diploma degree because it's just for it's like cheap
in cost i will say to diploma they also start doing some kind of a job to earn money and that
all stuff and this guy is safe like i was very surprised that he was going for his degree however
he dropped out and he started doing diploma then he said that in like next four or five years he'll
get a pr and then he'll just think about if you want to study or not so that was his attitude
then i thought like okay i'll bring up this topic on my youtube channel and just discuss few points
now here the very first analogy which i want to give you is for water now there are two
types of water the first water is a flowing water and another one is a stagnant water
now what is the difference between both of them so the difference here is if it's a flowing water
now this guy went for his master's degree he would have done his master's degree then he would have
gone further he would have worked for some good company you know in an international corporate or
maybe he had done some phd degree maybe he could have been working for some really noble disease
for example hiv is incurable at the moment there are few drugs but maybe he could have found
out some drugs and vaccine which could cure hiv because he had very sharp brain when you know he
was my senior in my school and he had a good brain you know for studying so he could have done all
that good things he would have come with something really noble in the world which would have a far
bigger impact now this is like a flowing water so he would have worked in a company maybe done a phd
then finally maybe he would have got a cure of a really really deadly disease or
a serious condition whereas now he started doing part-time job he said he was doing carpentry job
and then in the future he will just continue and do the carpenter job essentially for the next five
years and you never know what the mindset is there after maybe again continue to do
like the carpenter job itself so that's a stagnant water and you know if the water is stagnant at a
specific place it starts stinking because there is like now in this carpenter thing this like i
mean you can there's a growth maybe he start his business and so on however he had a really good
mindset of studying and he could have really done wonders for the world in the society itself so so
i really felt bad that when he said me that he had switched to diploma and now he's satisfied with
his carpentry job because it it makes him money i feel from middle class family have big dreams
like like we sometimes constrained ourselves due to the money thing now for example in this case
for this guy i mean he could have gone ahead maybe he he could have bring back like don't worry about
people who would make your fun or something just believe in yourself maybe he would have competed
for a nobel prize his discovery his research would have such a big impact that he has found something
really new and if he would have tried that big then maybe he would have gone ahead and he would
have a nobel prize and it would have been a pride for the india itself essentially because you know
he's from the indian origin so again like dream big for the middle class people this is my second
point and third point which i really thought was that be a warrior now i have been staying in the
uk for last four or five years since i was doing my undergraduate degree i've also worked at png
and in my past still here so i'm my final year right now and i've got like distinction in all
my degree programs i've got a work experience and stuff and i know that there are a lot of struggles
when you're studying abroad again there could be financial situation that you're very constrained
but again in my in my case i was like i i actually did a part-time job i paid my feast
myself and on the side i also like did my studies i got distinction in every single year so my main
priority here was my studies because you know i for example in my case i'm doing chemistry with
drug discovery again i've got a motivation and a passion to do research in my case basically my
main priority here is studies and the second thing i know my financial situation i know that i need
to pay my fees and stuff and on the side i did my part-time job however i didn't had a mindset
that my part-time job will be my main job you know and and that's the situation that guy was having
was he said that even like his friend circle some of them start driving drugs and you know
like some of them start working a restaurant and they continue doing that for their lifetime so so
the point here is there will be a lot of struggles when you're going abroad however you have to fight
with their struggles rather than just ignore or just like try to take uh other paths essentially
so this is really important for the middle class student who is trying to study abroad
and the other thing i was watching one of the video on youtube and that guy and that guy had a
ideology of c equal to c now what does this mean so essentially i will try to explain on my left
hand side you can see a video going on essentially think about there are two lines on that paper the
below line is for cradle when when when the child has taken a birth and the top line is cremation
that when that when that baby has grown up and now we have to cremate the person like he has lived
his life and during that specific path between that between that two life that's your life in
that life maybe you're struggling you're crying you are having success you are having you're
having failures you're going through a lot of different emotions during that path however just
remember there's only one life which you have got you can carry out your life as being a carpenter
being a truck driver no like like like these are not like small jobs these are all good however
if you've got a good passion and zeal to for for a particular subject you've got an interest for that
progress subject and you know that you can have a far greater impact by pursuing your subject
and the passion if you do for further studies in a study abroad country like uk u.s america
whichever country you're going to then yes go ahead and pursue your passion your interest which
which you are really motivated for the secondly if if there's someone who has got like genuine
general interest in let's say wood and stuff like he wants to build a really creative house with
the wood and he want to go for entrepreneurship for business go ahead and and do that particular
path however don't sideline your main priority and the main place for example in this case he had the
main interest of pharmaceuticals many interests of chemistry however he went to the carpentry
because he saw ease in that particular job and it and it gave him some short-term money and he left
his long term dreams and that's the ideology of cradle to cremation make sure that you have got
a good story for your life you are having a bigger impact maybe like by studying you could like help
you can motivate some of the underprivileged childs in india who can see you and see that oh
well this guy is like me he's like from middle class he was poor however he went abroad he he
pursued his passion and now she has got a very bigger impact and and and if you motivate that
one one guy in the village of india that would be your very big achievement rather than just making
hundreds and thousands of dollars because like money is that how much ever you earn
it's never going to be enough like i've been in the uk you know i've bought like a lot of
gadgets and stuff but i never get satisfaction the only time when i get satisfaction is when i
help other person for example if i help other guy preparing for the examination if i see someone who
is homeless i just give him some food on the street that's the kind of happiness and the
satisfaction which i get by helping other people so this was all the point of this video that when
you go for study abroad be clear what is your priority don't just like for the short term gains
don't just change your path of life because if you follow your passion that will take you far ahead
in your life and with this i will just end this video subscribe for more such videos cheers bye