- So today we gonna share three reasons
that makes men lose their interest fast.
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So do guys often disappear on you, don't text back
or just lose interest, and you can't figure out why?
By the end of this video I will share
three common reasons what makes men lose interest
in women very fast.
So that you ladies don't make this crucial mistakes
and continue having successful relationships.
So the reason one might happen in the beginning
of dating, or even longer.
What might happen is after a while
you will start to wear your heart on your sleeve
and tell him how you feel.
For example telling him first that you are really into him,
that he's your type or that you're developing
feelings for him or maybe that you even love him,
ladies this is very off-putting for a guy.
Not only that you're coming across as a pursuer
and acting masculine, but you are also
putting pressure on him.
In order for a quality masculine man
to pursue and be into you, you must be
in your feminine energy and let him do the work.
Otherwise, you will turn him off fast.
Ladies, please watch my video for a more detailed
explanation why you should not tell a guy how you feel,
which you can find by following the link
right here and I will link it down in the description box.
It's a very good one.
Now ladies, I'm also talking here
about the quality man who has standards,
who can get the girls, who are confident,
successful, ambitious.
I'm not talking here about the nice guys
who can't get any women.
As ladies, I'm pretty sure if you will approach
the nice guy, he will be more than happy
that someone is actually interested.
And you know guys, I'm not trying to put
anyone down here, I'm just being real.
And I think we actually really do need
more real right now.
Reason two, asking him questions
where is this going?
Are you dating anyone else?
These are very insecure, pursuing, and desperate questions
which lower your value and give a man too much
security that you are into him.
Ladies, what is the point for him to continue
pursue you if he already can see
that the game is over and you are hooked?
Ladies, please watch my video, "Why Men Love
A Woman Who Is A Challenge", which you can find
just by following the link right here,
and I will link it down also in the description box.
Ladies, this is how to behave instead.
A high value woman will date a man,
enjoy the moment, and once the date is over,
she will focus on what she needs to do.
She is feminine and understand that it's not
her job to pursue and lead the relationship further.
She will let a man be a man and do what he needs to do.
If he is into her, he will suggest to go
for the next level.
If he doesn't, well, there is more fish in the sea
who will see her value and worth.
Ladies, keep your options opened.
Date, stay patient, and let the man be a man.
If you want an alpha man, let him feel like an alpha man
when he is with you.
Ladies, if you think about it, if you are
feminine and you are with a man on a date
who is making you act masculine,
will you enjoy it or you will actually get turned off?
Same goes with guys.
So let a guy feel like a guy and he will appreciate
you for it.
Reason three, giving too much, especially
after he is mean to you.
Ladies, this is the fastest way to emotional
and physical abuse.
And on top of that, a man losing any kind of respect
for you.
For example, when he is grumpy, moody, non-appreciative
or is just mean, instead of ignoring his bad behavior
and setting in boundaries, you're rewarded
by being more kind, more giving, more caring,
and pleasing him more.
Basically what you are teaching him
if you will be rude and mean to me,
I will reward you with lots of affection
and kisses.
What do you think he will continue to do?
He will continue to be rude, mean, and then
eventually even lose attraction for you.
Why, because by behaving like this,
you are not setting any healthy boundaries in
and are showing him that I don't love,
value, nor respect myself, therefore you can treat
me as you please.
Ladies, no man will respect a woman
if she does not respect herself.
Healthy boundaries is very important
in any kind of relationship.
And ladies, if you do not set in the boundaries,
your relationship will be doomed.
Ladies, please watch my video, "How To Set Healthy
Boundaries In A Relationship", which you can find
just by following the link right here
and I will also drop it down in the description box.
So ladies, now you know three reason what makes men
lose interest fast, but would you like to know,
are you a girlfriend material, wifey category,
or a fun only.
And for this, I have a totally free
self-awareness test, which will tell you
are you a high value or low value woman.
And you can find that quiz down in the description box,
again, totally free.
And for ladies who took the test already,
please share your results in the comment below.
It's always very interesting to see
that for research reasons.
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of women just like you, I have a free Facebook group,
which is called "Greta's High Value Woman School"
and I will also link it down in the description box.
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