- Hey, what's up? It's me, Jessica, J,
and I was just wondering
if you've ever sat and thought to yourself,
Jessica, how can I know she regrets losing me?
Well, if so, I'm glad you asked,
because there's only one sign you need.
Any other video out there that is like,
"Look for these signals."
I'm telling you right now, it doesn't fuckin' matter.
So, to make sure you never miss out on another opportunity
to hear the real deal from me,
to not have to waste your time anymore
or another one of these videos,
don't forget to hit the subscribe button
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Okay, fine, there's a lot of signs and signals
that maybe she regrets losing you,
but really there's only one that matters,
because it's the dead giveaway,
and anything else after is just details
that may or may not slide,
but this is the one we all give off,
(slurping) sorry, when we regret losing you.
But, I'll tell you right now,
we probably won't do anything about it.
Regret, there's so many layers to regret.
I regret having forgotten to write out
my whole Thanksgiving shopping list
before going to the supermarket yesterday,
and now I have to go back today,
but is that level of regret keeping me up at night?
No, not necessarily.
I did wake up in the middle of the night
and think about it, but that was about it.
So while fine, she may regret it, where does that leave you?
Well, I'll tell you.
I'll tell you at the end of this video,
what you can do about it, because unfortunately,
like a lot of my complainers have mentioned,
you guys usually have to do all the work,
because you know what?
We have to just sit there and wait for you.
I'm telling you right now, women just don't have the balls
or the DNA to go out there and get you.
I said it once, and I'll say it again,
we women, in our nature, I don't care how evolved we are,
I don't care how woke the world is right now,
I don't care how much money women are making
or how okay it is for us to do some of the things y'all do,
it takes millions of years for a species to evolve.
We humans have not even been on this planet
for a million years.
Let me Google that really quick.
Okay, well, our ancestors have been around
for six million years.
Humans, as we know us, have only been around for 200,000.
That's what I thought.
So no, the egg will not just get up out the puss
and start chasing out the sperm.
We just don't do that.
The sperm go swimmin' to us, 'cause y'all got plenty of it,
and you guys replenish it all the time.
We've got these finite little figures, and yeah,
so we will just sit and wait and hope to God
that you do something about it.
Okay, sorry, I digress, I digress, I digress!
The number one sign that she regrets losing you
is that she's still around.
Maybe she's watching your stories.
Maybe she's liking your posts.
Maybe you see her outside your window at night,
parked with a group of her girlfriends in black clothing,
like you can't see these bitches.
Either way, someway or another,
she manages to make her way into your line of sight, at all,
whether it's super posting when you still follow her
or knowing she'll show up in your notifications
when she double taps your shit
that has nothing to do with fuckin' anything in her life.
She makes a point to still be on your radar,
because again, we women,
I have a girlfriend I was talking to yesterday,
but she's like, "Well, how do I make a move on this guy?
"So far, I've liked three of his pictures
"and waited for three weeks."
I was like, "Well, why do you want to do?"
And she was like, "I just want to keep waiting.
"Should I like another picture?"
It's just not in our nature to do anything about seduction
other than look pretty and show up.
So fine, she may regret losing you.
And also, even though she may regret it to some extent,
she may also know very damn well
that you're actually not worth it.
Again, regret has many layers.
I regret a lot of men that it didn't work out with,
and at the end of the day,
I'm very okay that it didn't work out.
However, I will say this,
if any of those men came out of the woodwork
and were just an emotionally intelligent human being,
had their shit together, were taking care of themselves,
were all of a sudden, not needy at all,
but just like very (laughing) not needy,
I'd be like, "Oh my God, who's that?"
So, unless you have something different to offer,
it doesn't fuckin' matter if she regrets losing you,
because at the end of the day,
you still lost her for some reason.
And if you don't know why the hell it happened
and would like an actionable plan on moving things forward,
either with her or without her
to women who are worthy of your time
or better suited to what you were looking for
in your life right now, I am hosting a Black Friday,
count is from now, until Black Friday,
where you can apply for a free session with me.
Go to Jessica, go to JessicaJDating.com/contest,
where you can enter your name and your email,
and then I'm going to email you with the next steps forward.
So again, if you're sick of watching
all these fuckin' videos,
looking for all these signals and signs
and need somebody to just point you
in the right direction already,
please, please, please apply for the contest.
You got nothing to lose and a whole world to gain.
And I'm going to contact the winner of the contest
after all the Black Friday shopping is done,
after all your money is spent
to give you a complimentary session with me,
because I'm telling you right now,
if you're watching my channel,
I know she should regret losing you, because you're a man
who clearly wants to do better for himself,
who clearly wants to have a better self-awareness
and a better awareness of women,
and that is something that all women strive for.
And until you realize how to bring that guy out
and weed out the women who aren't worth your time,
you're gonna keep falling short,
and you're gonna keep feeling frustrated.
So again, JessicaJDating.com/contest,
and I hope to meet you soon.
Thanks for watching as always,
and I'll see you guys next time.