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the 6 Reasons Why INFJs Are So Intimidating Make sure to watch each one and find out if
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If you’re an INFJ, you’ve probably heard that your personality is quite intimidating or even
terrifying. This is mostly because INFJs are unique individuals with very characteristic
personality traits. If you think you are an INFJ, dive deeper into your personality,
learn which traits of your personality type can intimidate other people and determine how you
can use them to increase your soft skills and achieve personal growth. Here are 6 Reasons Why
INFJs Are So Intimidating.
Number 1 - They don’t share more than they have to
INFJs are extremely compassionate people who, however, have a hard time finding the same level
of care and attention from others. INFJs are usually cautious about opening out after many
instances of being harmed by others. They don't want to give anyone the chance or 'ammunition' to
harm them. Advocates also don't want to be judged for being strange, so they try to limit what they
say to those they don't really trust. This isn't to suggest they don't have ideas, feelings,
or observations; in fact, INFJs are mostly composed of these elements. Another reason they
don't share is that they suspect others are only asking to be nice and don't really want to know.
If Advocates were encouraged to do so, they may be more transparent in this scenario. However,
it appears that not everyone wants to listen to them. When people interrupt INFJs or try to
rush their thoughts, they believe they are being devalued subconsciously. As a result,
INFJs are prone to not finishing their sentences or saying everything they want to express.
After the conversation has moved, they are too embarrassed to bring it up again. These kinds of
events can be especially depressing for INFJs, who are known for being people who value and listen to
everyone. It hurts to know that they can listen, be interested, and not interrupt someone's tale,
but they also know that most others will not treat them with the same respect. All of this
can cause an INFJ to shut down and become very private. To those who are unfamiliar
with privacy, it can appear as concealment and mystery, which can be intimidating.
Number 2 - They are very authentic with their emotions
INFJs are enthusiastic and obsessive about the things they care about, yet apathetic about the
things they don't. In most cases, there is no in-between. This means that, for the most part,
they have a more mellow demeanor when it comes to expressing enthusiasm. It's followed by their
typical stone-faced faces. It's not meant to be threatening or blank; it's just their natural
attitude. INFJs like to express their own emotions rather than those that others expect them to. As
a result, when people expect a reaction and don't get it, it's frequently taken as an
insult. For example, when someone shares some exciting personal news with them.
"Awesome!" will very certainly be the INFJ's response. Unfortunately, for the majority of
individuals, this isn't enough. They want the INFJ to be just as enthusiastic as they
are. The INFJ is likely to be glad for the person, but they're simply too unconcerned to
be overflowing with energetic emotions over someone's new sneakers, or whatever it is.
Number 3 - They have very intense stare
You might be wondering what the INFJ glare is all about. The INFJ stare is the intense,
soul-piercing expression that many INFJs have as their thinking language.
An INFJ may be found staring into the distance, at a wall, or at the ceiling,
or attentively staring at you during a conversation. When you're confronted with
the INFJ look, you'll have the impression that the INFJ is reading your mind. It's unnerving,
especially because INFJs don't break eye contact when staring at you like that! Of course,
they aren't trying to scare you, they may not notice the social cues that ask them to break
eye contact every 5 seconds because you've piqued their interest in you or something you've said.
INFJs are masters at intuiting someone's character and intentions by reading their body language,
nuanced facial expressions, and absorbing their aura, therefore they could be trying to read you.
Alternatively, they may be deep in contemplation regarding the topic of your talk. They could
possibly be daydreaming about something else, and you happen to be in their line of vision.
In the latter instance, you'll have the impression that the INFJ is staring right through you,
lost in their thoughts, with a zoned out, diffuse focus emanating from their eyes as they stare
into the infinite space where you happen to be standing. Many individuals are scared by this
strong unbreakable stare that appears to read out your soul's basic essence as well as all
of your previous existence! And it's no surprise! INFJs, on the other hand, abhor unneeded conflict,
thus they're unlikely to be aggressive. They are simply captivated with a fascinating thought.
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Number 4 - They are super devoted to the cause INFJs' idealism and perfectionism,
causes them to take an all-or-nothing approach to everything. They must make
every effort to achieve their envisioned bright future, or they will perish. This is because the
future Advocates foresee will address their most basic demands for creative expression,
liberty, and high-quality connections. Manifesting one's ambitions is a very different experience
for the INFJ than simply having a luxury or privilege. It is a moral obligation for them.
Of course, an all-or-nothing approach isn't required to achieve most goals,
but others may be intimidated or even scared by the INFJ's devotion to everything they value.
Number 5 - They are extremely independent INFJs are extremely independent people,
they are not waving like a flag and they stand their ground even at the most difficult scenario.
Have you ever attempted to direct an INFJ's actions? No? What's to stop you? My hunch is
that you already knew that wasn't going to work out. The reason for this is because INFJs have a
proclivity to act as lone wolves, free thinkers, or mavericks in their daily lives. They regard
each person as an autonomous individual who takes their own autonomy very seriously. Despite
the fact that INFJs may effortlessly integrate into any social system or hierarchy by adopting
a role or persona that allows them to function for at least a short time inside that system,
they despise hierarchy. Especially when it necessitates participants' blind allegiance to
whatever authoritarian figure rules supreme within that system. INFJs aim to be strong,
financially independent, and self-sufficient individuals who can not only exist, but also
thrive as they create the life they desire. They demand this courage from themselves because they
understand that it is the necessary basis on which to build their ideal existence. Others
may find it daunting to see INFJs so focused on their independence, because it may appear that
they don't like being part of a group, obtaining help from others, or even being in the presence of
others. This may be accurate, and as a result, it may discourage people. Despite this, the Advocate
works hard to achieve their ultimate objective of independence in the shadows of their secluded
existence. This strong sense of high independence can be really intimidating to other people.
Number 6 - They are very competitive Believe it or not, there's a ferocious
competitiveness lurking beneath the INFJ's enigmatic, soft-spoken yet warm empathic demeanor!
As previously stated, they are devoted and passionate individuals, and this intensity is
evident whenever INFJs compete. They thrive on a genuine challenge! It doesn't matter if it's
sports or video games. But don't be worried; for the INFJ, it's all in good fun most of the
time. Competition helps them to explore all of this since they are very growth oriented,
ready to learn, and push their bounds. The sheer fervor with which they might
try to defeat you in any game or sport, on the other hand, can be scary! INFJs aren't usually
bitter losers. But only if they lose with the knowledge that they gave it their all. If INFJs
don't give it their all and lose in the end, they are certainly bitter losers. However, they will
just be enraged with themselves! INFJs want to win and they are very determined to achieve any
objective from the small victories with their close ones to the big dreams or life goals and
this competitiveness is one of the biggest reasons they can be intimidating to others.
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