Hey there, Adam LoDolce here from SexyConfidence.com where I help the 21st Century woman create
a love life that she absolutely loves.
In this video right now, we'll be talking about five phrases that you should never,
ever, ever say to a guy.
Keep watching.
Number one.
Are you just like all the other jerks I've dated?
Well, I wasn't until now.
It's so easy to bring past baggage to a relationship, but I urge you to clean that slate.
I remember back when I was single I met this girl.
She was charming, she was cool, she was funny, she was beautiful, and we totally hit off.
We had plans to see each other the next week, but then she completely blew me off, completely,
literally disappear.
I was at the point where I was like she may have died considering we had such a good connection.
I remember after that happened I went into this weird place where I started to get a
little bit cynical.
Then, I immediately reset my thoughts and I said look, this has happened to me in my
past, but my past doesn't equal my future and the next person I meet or my future can
be incredibly different than this.
Then, shortly thereafter I met my girlfriend and I couldn't be any happier.
When these things happen to you in your past, you got to remember to start over fresh, not
let that baggage bring you to the future and I assure you, you will find an even better
situation shortly thereafter.
Number two.
We don't hold secrets in this relationship.
Tell me, what's your Facebook password?
OK then, fine.
Here it is I W-A-N-T, I want to break up.
Look, in a healthy relationship, there really won't be many major secrets.
At the same time, there are boundaries.
Most things shouldn't be kept a secret, such as who you talk to today, where you're going,
why is it that you went there.
If you have secrets in the department, that is really, really bad.
Then on the other hand, there are other secrets that are perfectly acceptable, such as your
phone code.
If you really don't want to share your phone password, it's understandable.
What your friend told you in accountability, if your friend told you a secret, you don't
have to necessarily share that with your partner, or, of course, your Facebook password.
These are things that are a part of who your are and your identity and that doesn't necessarily
have to be shared.
In my opinion, if you are constantly asking for those types of things, then you really
need to work on your trust in the relationship.
Number three.
Your is definitely not the biggest I've seen.
Please, go ahead, tell me what's the biggest you've seen?
Now contrary to your initial belief, the problem with this phrase is not just about us being
a little bit insecure about our guy down there, which we probably are, but moreover it's about
the fact that we don't want to imagine you with another man, nonetheless some dude with
a horse...
In general, it's best to avoid talking about the other men that you've slept with in the
past.
It's your little secret or your big secret.
Number four.
Are you sure you can lift that?
Yeah, so long as it weighs less than your big mouth.
Look, feeling emasculated will lower our testosterone levels and ultimately kill our confidence
and ultimately that means that you will be less attracted to us.
Please avoid telling him that he can't do anything.
Let him try it out himself and then of course laugh at him when he can't do it.
Just kidding.
Help him, be his partner, help him out because that's what it's all about.
Number five.
My life is so boring.
So is this conversation and so would you be as a girlfriend.
Peace.
Look sexy confidence is all about creating a life that any guy would be absolutely drawn
to.
It means to step outside of your comfort zone, try new things, read, and explore new ideas.
Be willing to be a little bit different with how you look at he world and how you create
your life.
Don't do it to get a guy, do it to be a better person and that will eventually bring that
guy into your life.
If you think your life is really boring, it's time to spice it the f*ck up.
Book a trip to somewhere a little bit crazy, a little bit different than where other people
are going.
Go to a speaker event that's going near you and learn something new.
Shit, if you can't do any of those things, please just go to Amazon.com and buy a new
interesting book.
As my dad says, "As long as you have a good book, you can never be board," and I'll add
to that you can also never be boring.
There you have it.
The five phrases you should never say to a guy.
Have you ever said anything like this?
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