The friendzone… a deep dark, retched place where the most pitiful simps reside…
Punished by the one they love for their simphood.
Constantly teased, as the woman they love is dangled in front of them, while the chad
football team runs through her like 3rd down & inches.
But no more my friend..
Today, your lord, your savior, Zeus is here to pull you out from the dark caves of the
friendzone.
I’ve covered this in the past but I’ve gotten lots of questions about it lately and
I have tons of new thoughts on it, so I’ll link the old friendzone videos at the end
if you need the extra credit.
The biggest issue with guys in the friendzone is getting put there in the first place.
You know how the saying goes, An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of pussy - I mean,
cure.
Keep in mind… you never have to worry about the friendzone if you don’t put yourself
there to begin with.
Once you’re there, you’re in a losing position and it’s gonna take a lot of work
to get out.
But lucky for you, I have a few easy tricks to make your life easy.
I haven’t been friendzoned in YEARS!
Because I meet a girl, make a move on her and she either accepts or rejects.
If she accepts then we’re off on a one way trip to pound town.
If she rejects then I move on with my life and don’t talk to her again.
I don’t pine after her, smile and agree that we should be friends while secretly hoping
she’ll change her mind, then complain on the internet all day that Chad is fucking
the love of my life and I haven’t gotten laid in years.
No, if she suggests being ‘just friends’ I tell her, no thanks, I’m not interested
in being friends and move on with my life.
It’s called having a brain.
The easisest way to avoid getting friendzoned when you first meet a girl is to establish
regular physical contact with her.
You shouldn’t be hanging out with her all the time without ever escalating it physically.
Hand holding, arm around her, grabbing her waist, hugging her from behind when you walk
together, grabbing her and leading her places, holding her thigh, and eventually kissing
her.
These are all subtle indicators of romantic interest and will start to get her femine
mind thinking about you romantically, more than just a friend.
It’s gonna be really hard to be categorized as just a friend when you guys are constantly
holding hands and touchy-touchy with one another.
Now if you’re in the friendzone right now, chances are You got yourself into it for a
few reasons..
Your relationship dynamic and communication wasn’t romantic or high value so she dismissed
you as a potential boyfriend.
You were too friendly, never made things physical, or flirty.
You were too scared to make a move for fear of getting rejected.
This is the biggest one.
The reason guys get trapped in the friendzone is because they initially get too scared to
make a move and they just stay there forever, not making a move.
It’s a coward’s play… a rookie mistake.
What you have to do is Make a decision.
Either you’re gonna go after her, or you’re not.
Make that decision when you meet a girl, early on.
If you don’t, you ruin the tone of the whole relationship and ruin your chances of building
attraction.
A lot of guys let their fear of getting rejected get in the way so much, that they end up rejecting
themselves.
But here’s ACTUALLY what you should fear more...
NOT MAKING A MOVE because then you;’re trapped in limbo FOREVER, thinking what if, or what
could have been while you listen to her complain about the new guy she hooked up with, or hear
her him blow her back out at the frat party.
The hallmark of a man is his ability to make decisions.
Think about it, what is the president of the united states’ job, aside from tweet at
3am and fall asleep at press conferences?
It’s to make decisions for the entire country!
Decision making is the most important task, it DECIDES everything in your life , haha
get it.
So be decisive and don’t get stuck in limbo, it’s a one way ticket to the friendzone,
and indecisiveness will ruin the quality of your life as a man.
Now if you’re in the friendzone right now, here are some things to consider and tricks
to get yourself out.
#1 You have to make her recategorize you in her mind as a potential boyfriend instead
of ‘just a friend’.
This is the most important thing.
Without this, it’ll never work and you’ll be stuck in the friendzone listening to her
complain her boyfriend’s dick is too big and leaves her sore.
Now you have to be careful when recategorizing yourself…
You can’t go from simp to pimp overnight.
If you all of a sudden flip from one day to the next she’s gonna be like who the fuck
is this guy and who does he think he is.
It’s going to set off red flags and put her guard up.
#2 You have to disappear.
Ignore her, tell her you don’t have time for her, take a hard break of no contact or
dismissive contact for at least 2-3 weeks.
This is hard for your simp instincts because you’re programmed to just be nice to her
to avoid rocking the boat or losing her attention.
Fuck that.
Rock the boat like there’s a typhoon in the distance.
Tell her you’re busy, ignore her, whatever it takes to create space between you two.
She needs enough time to elapse so that she forgets what it’s like to see and talk to
you day-to-day.
If you’re lucky, she’ll even start to miss you a little.
She’ll start to be curious about why you’re being distant and the curiosity will start
to spark attraction.
You also need a believable amount of time to pass so that she can believe you changed
during that time period.
Remember, you don’t go from simp to pimp overnight.
It’s not believable, it’ll feel like a gimmick.
Another thing you could do is start dating other girls so that she sees other women think
you’re desirable and worth being attracted to.
#3 Reappear into her life as the best version of yourself.
This is why it’s crucial to take time away from her.
YOU need it to outgrow your simp tendencies, talk to other girls and feel comfortable going
after what you want.
When you come back you’ll have a blank slate, and I want you to treat the relationship like
a blank slate.
Get physical with her, flirt with her, tease her, treat her like a new hot girl you just
met and you’re trying to date.
You’ll have the benefit of familiarity with the girl, the intrigue and curiosity of the
new version of you, and your improved game so that you can make your move and score,
or get rejected and move on with your life.
If it doesn’t work just Cut the cord.
You either wanna go for it and try and win big, or lose big.
There’s no point being ‘just friends’ with a girl you know you’re in love with.
It’s just settling for peanuts, and you know damn well the only reason you’re settling
is because you feel like if you stick around long enough MAYBE she’ll change her mind.
Newsflash she won’t, she’ll still just think you’re a pussy.
All that wasted time could be used on a new girl you can have a REAL relationship with.
I hope this helps you get out of the friendzone and most importantly avoid it altogether.
The easiest way to avoid the friendzone is to display your life and personality as attractive
and high-value from the start, the best way to do this is through Instagram.
If your instagram shows you off as a cool, badass, eligible bachelor, it’ll set the
romantic vibe from the start, so you won’t have to deal with being treated as a friend.
The best way to convey this attractive, desirable frame on Instagram is to use my course InstaGame.
Plenty of guys have gone from no girls, to too many girls to date with our course.
Like, christopher who said his DMs get way more engagement from girls, and using the
course helped him date 2 girls over the summer.
Or Jared, who said after posting one story following the Instagame blueprint, he had
4 separate girls sliding into his Dms.
Or Will, who said after applying the photo secrets we teach inside INstagame to his tinder
profile, he has girls messaging him first every day!
All of this becomes possible once you sign up and learn the InstaGame method, so don’t
waste anymore time and get your butt in there.
The course comes with a 30 day guarantee, so if you try it out for a month and don’t
get results, you literally don’t pay.
I hope to see you in there, Zeus out.