- [Amanda] Hey there, Psych2Goers.
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What makes someone attractive?
Is it their humor?
The way they dress or act?
Or maybe their charming good looks?
These qualities may be obvious
like their physical attraction
or other traits that are less so.
Would you like to know more
about those elusive, less obvious ones?
Well, here are nine underrated qualities
that make a person sexy.
Number one, you know how to play
the push and pull game.
Are you a natural at switching between
the roles of desirable and desiring?
According to research,
playing hard to get
is a potent mating tactic
originating from a perceived
demand for the person.
It involves being inviting and needy
or giving and receiving
at the same tempo as your partner's preference.
The constant push and pull
orchestrates a dance of sorts.
The partner naturally develops
a liking to your actions
and joins it at will,
strengthening the intimate connection
between the two of you.
Number two, you have mischievous tendencies.
Do you often find yourself
falling for the antagonist in a movie?
Sexy people have a knack
for knowing when to be naughty
and when to be playful.
You know how to balance the heat
at just the right amount,
keeping a check on going overboard
or becoming too dry.
But most of the time,
it only appears sexy
if you indulge in it
as a part of your own personal fun and enjoyment.
You don't fear being judged
and are not putting others in a disadvantage
through your playful antics.
Number three, you choose who you are.
Sexy people possess healthy
levels of self knowledge.
And with their natural confidence and charisma,
they have a steady self view.
Since this is the case,
you know exactly what you want
and are not afraid to make a decision
based on your needs.
Since sexy people know themselves best,
a person attracted to you must understand
your self view makes demanding your love futile
if it doesn't work out.
You are either right for them or not,
with no in-betweens.
Number four, your emotions physically manifest.
Are confident mannerisms hot?
Sexy people are naturally curious about the world
with an innate love
for exploration and journey.
And naturally, your sense of wonder
gets absorbed by the people you meet too.
When you're devoted
to keeping yourself content,
you know full well
who and what you desire.
Are you highly attuned with yourself?
When you know exactly what would satisfy you
and what will deplete your energy,
it makes your body language even sexier.
Number five, you're not passive.
The sexy people are initiators.
Confident, but not arrogant.
You know how to press the right dials
and attract your desired person.
You enjoy making people feel pursued,
validating them and making them feel special.
This also translates to an intimate connection
in the bedroom
with a mutual exchange of control
in a safe, intimate setting.
Number six, you are not attached to results.
Sexy people are not the clingy types
nor get attached to rejection
in any form.
You trust your place in the journey.
And a slight setback
would just feel like a chip in their shoulder.
If something's not mutually beneficial,
being the sexy person that you are,
you know how to walk away
and recalibrate to a place
where you shine even brighter.
Number seven, you have a positive sense of self-worth.
Whether single or in a relationship,
you innately understand your own self-worth.
There's a high chance that you don't need
to chase the feeling of fulfillment and completion
since you feel that way already,
or at least are very close to feeling that way.
And with such assuredness,
you don't have much trouble
connecting with other people too,
making you excellent and hot partners.
Is it getting hot in here or what?
Number eight, you understand your partner.
Contrary to popular belief,
sexy people are not full of themselves.
You love the act of giving
and you show this by showering your partner
with love in your own unique way
based on your very own love language.
You are able to intimately
understand your partner
on all personal levels.
Be it mental, emotional, spiritual, or sexual.
Possessing good intuition on their desires.
And number nine, you know how to live in the moment.
Do you know anyone
who's an avid thrill-seeker?
Sexy people can be highly spontaneous people.
Yep, you're not afraid to jump at opportunities
in the short time.
If someone sparks your interest at a party,
you'll go up to them with little to no hesitation.
A sexy person hardly ever doubts themselves
and you show this in every aspect of your life,
so it's no wonder sexy people
are extremely passionate people as well.
Sexiness can be a highly subjective domain.
There are many such underrated traits
that may actually be majorly attractive.
But at the end of the day,
as long as you feel a sense
of interpersonal connection with someone,
then that's all the attractiveness one needs.
There are no universal criteria.
It all depends on what feels right.
If they make you hear violins all around,
that is all the sexiness you need.
Can you think of any other such traits?
Do you think this video helped you
recognize some of them?
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down below with your thoughts,
experiences, or suggestions.
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