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For INFJs, romantic relationships can be fascinating.
Their criteria?
Ultra high.
Their sense of self?
It is frequently low.
Their capacity for affection?
Every minute there are more of it available.
If you’re an INFJ, you might have thought about a relationship with another INFJ.
Will it work?
What will it look like?
If you think you are an INFJ, dive deeper into your personality, learn what the relationship
with another INFJ will look like and determine how you can use them to increase your soft
skills and achieve personal growth.
Here are 11 Things You Should Know About INFJ-INFJ Relationships.
Number 1 - They will click right away
Due to their social introversion, INFJs are more likely to be observed on the periphery
of social gatherings.
Since they do have some extroverted traits, they are open to meeting new people and like
getting to know them better.
They absolutely detest small talk and favor substantive conversations.
When two INFJs come together, their composure, sincere interest in the other, and adept listening
will fit in well.
They'll probably click right away and establish a strong foundation from their first meeting.
Number 2 - They can share their ideas and
lofty goals for the future In every relationship, an INFJ is probably
more likely than virtually any other personality type to anticipate outcomes and potential
problems.
It can initially seem as though having two of this so-called Introverted Intuition would
cause more issues than it would solve.
However, it also creates a setting where two romantically committed INFJs can discuss how
they picture various aspects of their relationship developing as well as share their individual
future views without worrying about coming off as misunderstood.
For a couple of the INFJ-INFJ type, entering a serious relationship usually entails daydreaming
about the beautiful things a healthy partnership could result in and using the future as a
source of guidance or inspiration to get through challenging times.
Number 3 - They will prioritize trust
INFJs often wait around for the "ideal spouse" because of their tendency to be perfectionistic
in all aspects of their lives.
Regarding their love partners, they have high standards.
They will therefore be more likely to believe their spouse and give them the benefit of
the doubt.
From the start, they are able to trust their partner because of their intuition and empathy.
People who identify as INFJ are very trustworthy and will put maintaining a happy relationship
before lying to their partner.
Two INFJs will have very few trust concerns in a relationship.
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Number4 - They can really connect on the intimate level
INFJs are empathic by nature, have good intuition, and are highly interested in other people.
They have a propensity for being intensely passionate and connected.
They like the intimacy and connection that are normally found in long-term partnerships
and rarely go on casual dates.
All of these characteristics would facilitate deep emotional and physical bonds between
two INFJs.
INFJs have no issues with intimacy as a couple since they are completely and passionately
focused on their partners' needs.
Number 5 - They will not judge each other As an INFJ, it's uncommon for you to meet
someone else who shares your love of knowledge and desire for connection, let alone understands
it.
One of the most fulfilling aspects of being in a relationship with another INFJ is being
able to express these more reserved aspects of INFJs personality to someone who has the
same unusual outlook.
Parties and oversharing on social media don’t appeal to INFJs nearly as much as long walks
among nature, meaningful talks and planning the future.
INFJ-INFJ duo never criticise the things that the other side enjoys doing.
Number 6 - They want to maintain the harmony in a relationship
INFJs are masters at avoiding conflict; to do so, they will prioritize their own needs
and feelings over those of their partners.
The emotionally motivated and empathic INFJs, however, would have the skills and ability
to manage the problem without offending anyone when the time comes to resolve any disputes.
INFJs are good communicators and have a strong desire for harmony.
Relationship disputes between two INFJs can be settled quickly and amicably.
Number 7 - They will recognize when the other
person is stressed INFJs frequently react in an external way
while under stress.
Stress-related physical cues like eating, drinking, or shopping will be the focus for
them.
They may also exhibit extreme irritability around other people.
INFJs require time and space to engage in solitary physical pursuits like hiking, yoga,
baking, or crafts in order to manage their stress in a healthy way.
In a relationship, an INFJ will have the skills necessary to spot their partner's signals
of stress and point them in the direction of a healthy outlet for handling it.
When needed, they will offer assistance and be there, although most INFJs prefer to be
alone themselves.
Number 8 - They respect their need for alone
time Even though INFJ duo care for each other and
enjoy being together, they are both introverts who, by nature, prefer calm settings where
they can spend time alone and concentrate on their respective goals.
As "extroverted introverts," INFJs tend to spend their non-alone time around people of
a variety of personality types, some of whom perceive them as very outgoing and energetic,
thanks to their Extraverted Feeling (Fe) auxiliary function once more.
This is true even though all eight types of introverts share this requirement.
INFJs disguise themselves as extroverts, therefore quiet time is especially important.
They value a committed relationship with someone who shares this peculiarity and appreciates
how crucial it is to set aside some time to restore our introverted energies.
Number 9 - They will stand up for their core
values When questioned about what is morally or ethically
"correct," INFJs are neither reticent or hesitant.
They will adhere to their moral code and be obstinate in standing up for it.
When two INFJs are in a relationship and each has a distinct idea of what is "right," this
might become a problem.
However, a certain amount of incompatibility is possible.
Going back to the idea that their different basic values could be deal-breakers, this
disagreement over what is morally correct could also be a problem for an INFJ relationship.
Number 10 - They will stay focused and organized INFJs are very good at staying on task, almost
to their disadvantage.
They are prone to burnout and will put everything else on hold in order to remain concentrated
on achieving their objective.
In a relationship, an INFJ occasionally needs their partner to distract them and nudge them
to unwind.
Together, the INFJs will be able to recognize their partner's need for focus and, hopefully,
prevent them from experiencing that kind of burnout.
Furthermore, the INFJ personality type is very organized and enjoys having everything
in its place.
This also applies to the way they think.
They love to follow traditions and don't want to break the rules.
In fact, when things are out of order or there is a change from their usual schedule, INFJs
find this to be a huge source of stress.
This inclination will bring a lot of compatibility between two INFJs.
Their perspectives on what is "orderly" may diverge early on in a relationship.
But eventually they will learn to work together and develop a new organizational structure.
Number 11 - They will motivate each other
to achieve goals Setting and achieving goals helps INFJs maintain
their focus.
They have a very forward-looking mindset and will put forth endless effort to see that
ambition through.
They always will have a very clear idea of what they anticipate in the future from particular
persons or events.
INFJs will envision their ideal spouse, job, wedding, and vacation long before they actually
experience them.
INFJs have their eye on the potential future, even though their daydreams are more grounded
in reality than for example INFPs.
Making future plans together will be a lot of fun for two INFJs as a pair.
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