This video is about "How to Stop being a Simp and Forget your EX!" I'm going to give you
necessary steps to take to stop being a simp over the EX that most likely broke your heart
and left you! To find out more please stay tuned to this video...Welcome to The SCG Show! Please hit
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link is in the description below! I was inspired to create this video after bumping into a guy I
used to know from my local gym... the reason we actually stopped talking (because we hadn't
seen each other in a while) was because he was a nervous wreck following a breakup... "What have you
been up to man?" I asked him. "The usual... still working the same job doing the same thing..." he said. "Oh cool
so you dating or seeing someone now?" He said "Nah I'm still hung up on my ex, I'm not ready to date..."
This guy's been single for SIX years and is still harping on about his ex-girlfriend!
"Do you still talk to her?" I asked. "Oh she's been dating another guy!" he said "seriously
for a few years... but I'm her friend... we talk occasionally...I just hope and pray he eventually
dumps her or she leaves him and comes back to me!" I was shocked still after all this time that he was
still hung up on his ex and wasting his precious life while she is happily dating someone else...
What is a simp? Urban dictionary's top definition of a simp is someone who does way too much for
a person they like. The guy I had the chat with on the street is a simp in my opinion
he has not moved on at all with his life, not even bothered to try dating and of course is still hung
up on his ex and is willing to pretend to be her friend. Like a child almost he's hoping and begging
that somehow his ex will take pity on him and leave her current boyfriend (who she's sleeping
with of a few years) to go back with him! Ironically the reason she dumped him in the first place was
because this guy lacked ambition and in the six years of them being apart, he's done absolutely
nothing to improve his life or himself for the better! There really is a simp pandemic going on
trust me it's only getting worse. Why do you want somebody who does not want you too and is openly
seeing someone else? If you are like this guy here is how to stop being a simp and forget your ex...
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The very first step to stop being a simp and forgetting your EX is to remove her social media
and that might include blocking her off there too... That means her Facebook, her Snapchat, her Instagram
Twitter, TikTok whatever. You may think "that seems really harsh" but you're also missing
the entire point if you think that way. To the modern person (men included but especially women)
social media is almost like a drug and can be very addictive...Women can get hooked on the likes
attention and digital validation they are getting from their followers etc and I can
pretty much guarantee you are one of her most active frequent and regular followers...
catching up on her whereabouts! You most likely like and comment on all her posts and photos
view all her stories or always reply to her stories and are always sliding into the DMs.... meanwhile as
you view her social media, there she is living her life, out with her mates traveling or worst
of all with the new guy she's dating! It's almost like her social media is metaphorically slapping
you in the face and you've become addicted to the pain... it almost makes you feel alive
and you're gonna say "but I'm trying to show her how much I care and how much I feel about her..." and
how's that got you so far? "But if I go away she'll get offended!" Maybe, what do you care? She offended
you by rejecting you or not wanting to date you! "I need to keep an eye on her, see what she's up to..."
and waste your life in the process. Social media is a good tool for connecting with people, building a
brand and yes maybe even seeing the true nature of an individual (especially a toxic narcissistic
person for sure) but as you sit there crying and pining over her, there she is kissing traveling
going out to eat with another guy... and there you are alone! Delete her ASAP off social media!
Now when a guy is acting like a simp and can't get over his ex it's due to insecurity and attachment
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Just like her social media, it's time you removed her number off your phone
and maybe even block her too ....especially if you're simping over her and have been for quite some time
I know exactly the routine and rituals you might have been doing = constantly checking her Whatsapp
status....maybe drunk dialing or bum dialing leaving her awkward voice notes and voicemails and the
sporadic texts = "happy new year!....happy christmas! happy birthday!" Again I ask the same question
I did before= By doing that (and more) where's that gotten you so far? Insanity is doing the same thing
over and over and expecting different results! Men who simp over the ex are drunk on Disney movies
and believe = the more love and affection they give someone, the better chance they have
winning her back! You must grow up and detach yourself from such juvenile immature thinking
This ex of yours does not wish to talk to you, hear from you, and she certainly doesn't want
to be with you... Now you may argue "but sometimes we speak and she gives me hope and I'm holding on to
that possibility!" Well if that's the case she's either incredibly polite or she's being toxic
and she's being manipulative towards you and playing with your emotions...
Since I walked away from a toxic relationship (a few years back) the numbers and people I have on
my phone are those that honestly deserve to be there...NOT the time wasters, the narcissists, the
game players, the liars, the scam artists, the people who don't value me or are not attracted to me....Just
the other day a girl I was seeing said "she wanted time to herself and didn't want to see me anymore..."
The excuse was really immature and pathetic, I actually didn't reply I just deleted her number
she's not worthy of being on my phone...I wish her all the best and she doesn't also deserve my time
energy, money or company! You must treat your ex the same, she was very quick to dismiss you... it's not an
aggressive thing to do it's a healthy thing! It's a weight off your shoulder... get rid of her number!
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Sometimes simps who finally grow up and decide to remove the temptation of their ex's social media
number etc can go in different ways possibly into a very dark place... they can become an incel....they go
all in on pickup and red pill content... they start to hate women... they may become a complete jerk or
a**hole...or become extremely negative with black or white thinking... You must avoid this! The reality
is i know deep down you are hurting...it doesn't feel nice to be rejected, dumped, broken up with etc
Having your heart broken is not a nice feeling at all...I've been there.... maybe you deserved it
maybe you didn't.... the reality is your ex is gone, the relationship is done, and it should and must
remain this way.... but that does not give you an excuse to become extreme in your thinking
and hate on all women, all circumstances and so on. You must have possibly chosen the wrong woman
and as I always say in my content = you'll never be good enough for the wrong person
Let's talk about restarting = I used to be a gambling addict for many years, but when I became
clean and sober and remained that way it was almost like a reset, a reboot, restarting my life...
I initially had more energy....I was way happier obviously more at peace... I obviously had more money
and I had less stress and aggravation! I was ready to embrace life again with open
arms knowing full well that I was no longer under the clutches of that awful addiction
By cutting the ties of your ex's social media and her number etc originally you
were just like me= addicted to them in an unhealthy way but now you're potentially free
You can finally do what you want, go where you want, be whoever you want! Take a deep breath
and embody that real sense of euphoria and freedom and start to embrace your brand new life
rather than look for excuses, blame society, women etc for your predicament...
Lastly get better! Here are several areas that you need to improve on which will improve your mental
health and confidence to attract a better quality healthier partner moving forward = Remember the guy
from the beginning of this video who I didn't speak to for ages? He had been stuck in the same
job and not progressed! Women love ambitious men! Get your act together! Focus on your purpose! Build
a career! Have something you're passionate about! You don't need to be a millionaire, but you need to
really start doing something that brings you joy and makes an impact on you and maybe other people!
It would also not hurt to seek the guidance of a trained medical professional through BetterHelp...
Most men who simp have serious fear of abandonment issues and attachment issues
Get on top of your mental health for a more peaceful and less chaotic life!
Next invest in you! This could include buying or renting a place you can afford that you're happy
to live in... get a new car (again if you can afford it) buy some new clothes... decide the style that suits
you... hire a trainer to motivate you to get fit! The best investment a man can make is always
in himself! And lastly move on fire up the dating apps, hit the bars, start dating! Once upon a time
I was a simp for almost one year over a girl I only saw for a few months... so we've all been there
and done it at some point in our life! But once you get out there and start talking to women, meeting
people.... you watch the type of people you'll attract and slowly and surely you will eventually forget
about that ex of yours... but not to win her back but to move on to change your life for the better...