Matt: Facebook, Instagram, Snap chat, Twitter, Badoo... The list goes on, but can you really use
social media to your advantage to make women like you and get more dates? When
you meet a girl, should you get her Snap chat or just her phone number? Is it
really worth it to troll Facebook and send random women messages? Can you still
get girls on Instagram even if you're not Dan Bilzerian? My name is Matt
Artisan from The Attractive Man, and this is how to use social media to get more dates!
We've done all the testing. We know what works.
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and hit the subscribe button, do it right now, hit subscribe! Because I know you're
a badass! First, let's talk about getting her phone number versus getting her
social media account. Well nowadays they're pretty much one and the same,
since all the popular social media such as Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat all
have messaging capabilities. The benefit of social media however is she can see
your pictures and videos. That's right! It can help her remember just how damn sexy you are!
And she can see your attractive lifestyle, so you better show off your
Lamborghini in like, every picture. Just kidding - don't do that. That's really
douchey. But seriously, when she views your posts she'll see that you're just a
cool guy, that you have lots of friends, that you're probably not a serial killer,
or leader of an elite terrorist organization. So that being said social
media is actually better than a phone number; just make sure you pimp out your
page first. Just post cool pictures regularly and avoid pictures of your
food. She doesn't need to see that disgusting hamburger you just ate, you animal killer.
Actually, that looks delicious! Can we see that again?
*Check out that sexy hamburger*
Shannon: I tend to like to get a little bit of info on the person you're going out with.
But of course you don't want to learn everything, because what kind of first
date will that be? If you both pre- checked everything about each other?
That's not gonna be very much fun. But it is nice to get a little info...
Matt: Social media is also a great way to stay on a woman's radar. She can get super jealous
that you were front-row at Justin Bieber, or that you took this girl to the movies
instead of her. Whereas through SMS, you have to send her an individual text. And
only she will see it. It's one-off communication. And I mean, who has time
for that these days? On social media when you post something, hundreds, even
thousands of girls can see it. Girls are also more likely to say yes to giving
out their social media accounts versus their phone number because they know
they can easily block you if you turn out to be some weird creepy psychopath
who constantly sends her dick pics. Stop doing that! Plus she probably wants
more followers so she can pump up her ego and feel better about herself.. It's
true... *Sarcastic bragging follows*: Look at me! I have 13 thousand followers on Instagram! So yeah, I'm a
pretty big deal... "I'm very important... I have... many leather-bound books."
Matt: You can even use social media as a way to approach girls in the club. Just go up to
them and say: "Snapchat!" This literally works every time. Well, as long as they
have Snapchat. But if you're in your 40's and going to cougar lounges, then this
probably isn't the best opener for you.
Andy: "Hi, I'm Andy. Can I get you another cocktail?"
Matt: Then every time you post something, just check to see who viewed it. If you notice
that the same girl is viewing like, all of your snaps, then just send her a
message. As long as she's hot. There's a really good chance that she'll be down
to meet you in person since she's viewing all of your snaps, and is
basically a fan. I personally use Snap chat as a way to interject more fun
into the interaction. I basically just whip out my phone and say, "Hey, let's take
a snap!" And then just command everybody to do a silly pose. "Do a funny pose!" This is
fun and women love taking pictures and videos. She's likely to comply because a
snap only lasts 24 hours, unlike Facebook which lasts an eternity. And then you
have the perfect reason to add her to your Snap chat and message her later.
Quick side-note, both Facebook Messenger and Instagram both have the 24 hour
story or add to your date capability now, so you can use those as well. Another
benefit of social media is that it can actually make a woman feel more
connected to you. Think about it, if she sees your posts on social media she has
a better sense of who you are and what you're all about, and she's more likely
to feel comfortable meeting you because she'll feel like she's known you for a
while. Unless you have pictures like this... I once had a brief interaction with a
girl, then didn't talk to her for four years because I had a girlfriend. And
after I broke up with my girlfriend I hit up that girl on Facebook, and we
ended up meeting up. Now, she knew everything about like what had been
going on the past four years, all my traveling, and my adventures, etc. She's
been watching my videos and seeing my pictures online and I highly doubt that
she would have been comfortable enough to meet up with me if I only got her
phone number. She probably wouldn't have even remembered me if it was just
through text. So how else can you use social media to your advantage? Well, if
you have an active profile, and a lot of followers, then it can be great for
"social proof." Social proof is when someone's thoughts and actions get
influenced by the thoughts and actions of the masses. Which basically means if a
girl sees that you have a lot of fans and followers who think you're cool, she
will be influenced by the crowd and will also think you're cool. This isn't a
video on how to build up your Instagram or Facebook page there's plenty of
resources out there for that. I think a reasonable goal is, 10 million followers
then you'll always be surrounded by hot Instagram models who want to be
Instagram famous. Now what about actually meeting girls on social media? Well, if
you have an awesome profile and you do cool things like traveling, adventure, you
have really good pictures, maybe you live a high-status lifestyle, then it's likely
that women will add you and message you first. Which is a lot better than you
messaging them first. Now, if you're not at that stage of the game yet, should you
message them? Well here's the deal, it doesn't really hurt anything to randomly
add or message a girl out of the blue. However, if you want to meet women online,
then I recommend that you just use a dating app like tinder or bumble.. because
those girls are more likely to be single and are actively looking for a date.
You just have better odds, and it's a better way to utilize your time. And you
know what works ten times better than meeting women online? It's meeting women
during the day. In everyday situations. Have you ever seen a beautiful woman
walking down the street or in a coffee shop, you wanted to approach her but you
just didn't know what to say? Well, that's why I created this free Conversation
Cheat Sheet, where I break down exactly what to say to spark attraction. You get
my top conversation starters for any situation. Simple techniques to never run
out of things to say. Simple ways to escalate the interaction and more.
download it right now, because you'll want to keep it handy before you go out.
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